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They ask you questions to open you up. Answer them briefly, but don't be so self-absorbed
that you can't reciprocate the question. Just be like, "This is my major. Here's why. This
is what I'm into." "This is what I'm deeply passionate about."
And then, ask the same question. And they'll be baffled and shocked when you ask it because
they will think, "Oh my God. What am I passionate about?"
And then they'll keep coming back to you because you remind them--"What do I really want to
be doing? I'm here at university. How can I make the most of it? What do I love? What
makes my heart beat fast--quickly?"
"What would I bleed for?" And then, buried in the behavioral part of their mind, when
they see the unique, beautiful structure of your face and your smile and your engaging
eyes, they will be reminded. Every time they see you they'll say--or think--"What do I
love?" They'll think, and think, and think. So it's really important the kind of impression
you make on others because it leaves a physical, 3D dream-picture of your face in their mind.
There's a mold of you in there. No matter who you are, everyone you've seen--their face
is in your head somehow. And your face is in their heads. Do you want to be a forgettable
face? Do you want them to associate you with someone who's not authentic, someone who is
not passionate, someone who is not kind? And then, when you see those things in others
(kindness, passion, and love) and you mirror their behavior, you will create a reality
where everyone around you is positive, creative, & loving. You have to see it in yourself and
stop asking to be seen. Just be. And see others and listen and be there--be present. Your
world will open. You'll be open to these people and these people will want to open themselves
to you. And when it begins to happen you will laugh so much more, not at jokes or anything
funny, just laugh at the perfection that is this beauty of experience. Your reality will
intertwine and be built with those amazing, creative people that you wanted in the first
place (when you are just confident and comfortable with yourself). And when you BE yourself.
It will feel like a whole different world.