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Have you ever had fresex? By fresex I mean one night stand sex, friends with benefits
sex, we both know this isn't going anywhere sex. How about now? You've probably never
thought about it however, fresex maybe the most expensive sex you will ever have. It
may cost you ever seeing your grandchildren, ever seeing your children; spending the last
of your days alone...
Have you ever met the perfect person? The dream person or are you still waiting to meet
the perfect person? I submit we have all met the perfect person. the challenge is when
the perfect person becomes the imperfect person. When they do something we don't like, when
they hurt us, when they don't call us back, when they let us down.
Everyone is perfect for the first 90 days it's called the perfect phase. Some people
live continually in the perfect phase. They're called 90 day wonders. They meet someone,
on the first day they have sex and every day thereafter. They spend all their time together.
Until somewhere around the 90th day the perfect person becomes the imperfect person and they
WONDER what happened.
Then they call their forgotten best friend you; everyday, heartbroken, can't believe
it didn't work out, convinced they can't get over it until suddenly you don't hear from
them. Do you know what happened? They met another perfect person. On and on they go
chasing mirage after mirage until at the end of their days they look back and the don't
see their grandchildren, they don't see their children; and they spend the last of their
days alone...
Do you know what a man gives up when he commits, when he marries? Besides all the perfect fresex
he thinks he could be having if he wasn't married. Irresponsibility. He takes on responsibility;
for others. Do you know what a woman gives up? Besides George Clooney. Independence.
Together they form a interdependence. They commit to the relationship with an imperfect
person. Then at the end of their days when they look back. They see their grandchildren,
they see their children and at the end of their days they see each other.They're not
alone.
Virtue and integrity are the foundations of love and a well lived life. The only way you
know you love yourself or anyone else is by the commitments you are willing to make and
keep. Sex is great it inspires us however love brings us home.
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