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Do you feel happy?
If you don't feel as happy as you want, people around you may not be so happy either.
"The heron says Please don't go close to crows."
The Korean saying tells how you can be influenced easily by your environment.
Recent scientific studies explain how the saying really works in our life.
There are 'mirror neurons' in our brain, so we mimic other people's behaviors without realizing.
I explain what mirror neurons are and how they work in the book "Happiness is Science".
Simply put, the mirror neurons are mirrors in our brain.
They are neuron cells which reflect other people's actions, and so make us copy their behavior and behave the same.
Therefore, mirror neurons have proved the Korean saying "please don't go close to crows".
If you say "I don't have any happy friends", I would recommend you not to meet such friends.
OK, but then I have no friends.
I still recommend you not to meet them
The word "friend' is overused.
What are you doing with your friends when you meet them?
Maybe you complain about something or get jealous about someone.
They are not true friends.
You don't have to meet them, because they are fake friends.
If you don't have any true friends, please be alone until you find one.
As long as fake friends are all around you, there is no space for true friends.That's why you have to be alone.
Instead of meeting fake friends, please read books and meditate for yourself.
Make space for a true friend and wait for the one!
Then, one day a true friend will show up for you.
If you are surrounded by fake friends, please ask yourself "Why am I attracting these people into my life?" instead of complaining about them.
If I change, my environment will change.
If I change, people around me will change.
If I become happy, happy people will come close to me.
See you next time, Have a happy week, Thank you for watching and subscribing!
Hi - I am Princess Lany.
I think the reason why I am not happy is because my parents are not happy.
In fact, my parents did not marry for love.
It was a marriage between power of father and money of grandfather.
So my parents fight often.
So I am not happy in this family.
But after I watched Happy TV, I feel much better. I believe I can become happy.
When I change, my surroundings will change too. These were wise words.
Instead of complaining about my parents, I want to change myself. I want to become happy.
I am going to download "10 ways to become happy".
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