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.Samaarambhaam MahaShaambhavi Madhyamaam | Asmadacharya Paryantaam Vande Guru Paramparam||
Sadhana TV ke sabhi darshakon aur bhakto ko main prem evam aashirvaad sahith swaagath
kartha hoon.
aaj ham jeevan kaa chauthe tattva laabhaanvith karneke baare mein baath karenge. Labhaanvith
karne ke tattva se aap kaise swayam ke saath evam, doosron ke saath sambandhko visthaarith
kar sakthe hain iske baare mein aaj ham baath karenge.
I will expand today on the fourth principle of life – ENRICHING; how it expands your
relationship with you and with others.
2:04
dhyaan se suniye first of all, you need to understand, Enriching is the only possible
way you can relate with the universe, with others, which can expand you also. You can
relate with others in so many ways – through ***, through fear, through confusion, through
attention-need from them, jealousy, through jealousy with them, hatred. You can relate
with others in so many ways, but nothing is going to expand you, make you powerful, like
the method of Enriching. You relating with others, the basic principle should be “Enriching”.
Basic principle through which you relate with others should be “Enriching”.
pehli jo baath aapko samajhnee chahiye vah hai ke laabhaanvith karna hi ek maarg hai
jise aap swayam se evam poori duniya se joot sakthe hai.
Ordinary human-beings relate with others in so many mode – mode of ***, mode of fear,
mode of confusion, mode of jealousy, mode of attention-need. I tell you, the best way
to relate with others, which will make you powerful, which will make you expanding, which
will complete you, is “Enriching”. Whether it is the relationship with others or relationship
with God, it has to be from the attitude of Enriching.
4:54
You may ask, ‘How can we enrich God?’
Your creativity can enrich God!
Listen! Your creativity is always your contribution to the Cosmos. It is something which was not
there in the Cosmos; you created it; you expanded it; you expressed it! For you to express your
creativity, whatever is needed may be was there in the Cosmos; but putting all of them
together, allowing the alchemy of creativity happening and sharing it, enriching it, is
YOUR contribution.Best life on the Planet Earth is Alchemy of Creativity. Whether you
look at you or look at others, look at everything with this one angle: ‘How can I enrich?’
When you look at you ‘How can I enrich me?’, you are healed with you, you will be completely
comfortable with you.
Same way, if you look at others ‘How can I enrich them? How can I enrich them?’ I
tell you, you will experience Advaitha just with this one attitude.
6:42
Listen! sab se uttham maarg jise aap doosron ke saath joot sakthe hain jo aapko shakthishaali
aur laabhaanvith kar saktha hai vah hai chautha tattva swayam aur doosron ko laabhaanvith
karna hai.
You relating with others, the basic principles that you relate with others, should be “Enriching”.
doosron ke saathsambandhith hone ka buniyaadi siddhant doosron ko laabhaanvith karna hona
chahiye. Aap keval maanav ko hi nahi Bhagawan ko bhi laabhaanvith kar sakthe hai. Aap bhagavan
se apni srujanaatmaktha se laabhaanvith kar sakthe hai.
Creativity is your contribution to the Whole. Sit with this one attitude of enriching with
you or with the world. Let this one attitude, “Enriching”, be the way to relate.
saadhaaraN manushya doosron ke saath anek tareekon dwaara sambandith hai; vaasna bhay
bhram eersha; paranthu doosron ke saath sabse achcha sambandh hai samruddhi jo apko shakthishaali
vistharith sampoorna banathi hai.
9:07
One of the important truths about the life you need to understand and contemplate - Enriching
others constantly expands your possibilities of life. Enriching others constantly expands
the possibilities of your life! Whether you are doing a business, you are doing some jobor
your relationship in the family, your relationship in the society, friends, in every line, every
dimension, when you live with the principle of “Enriching”, your life goes so beautifully,
so smoothly, so strongly!
jeevan ka ek pramukh sathya jo aapko samajhnee chahiye vah hai –doosron ko laabhaanvith
karna lagaathaar aapke jeevan me upasthith sambhaavanaon ko visthaarith karthi hai chaahe
vo koi bhi kaarya ho; aapka vyaapaar aapka parivaar ke sambandhon ithyaadi.
11:03
Dimension of life you want expansion, Enriching can do. I can give you one hundred examples.
You see, when we speak about some principles rarely works, you need to think and give example.
But when I speak about the principle on which the Cosmos is functioning, everything is example!
For the principle I am talking – enriching others empowers you, completes you, fulfills
you - I donot need to think and bring examples from somewhere! Everything happening in life
the is example for this principles.
jeevan ki koi bhi kshetra mein vruddhi pane ke liye yeh tattva upayogi hoga. jab aap ‘samruddhi’iss
tattva ke saath jeethe hai tab aapke rishtey aasaan evam druDtha sahith banthe hai.
First thing you need to do in your life is find some lubrication in your inside thinking.
When your inside thinking is constantly irritated, there is so much friction in your inside thinking.
For example, if you are thinking, ‘Why should I constantly enriching others when nobody
cares for me?’ Yes, you may have a very logical, supporting facts, figures, evidences
for your argument. But those arguments are only going to be like a grinding wheel on
your inner space, creating so much of friction, grinding you, literally eating parts of you.
But that is not going to solve the issue.
13:47
dhyan se suniye. You may have so many facts, figures, evidences. World is place you can
collect evidence for any case you create; it does not need to be true! Anything you
want, you can create evidence for it! You can create the evidence for the statement,
“Everything is God!” And you can create evidence for the statement, “Everything
is Devil!” You can create evidence for both. It depends on you, for which you want to create
evidence.
sabse pehle aapko apni andar ki sochne ke DHang aur vichaar dhaara mein parivarthan
laani chahiye. sabse pehle aapko apni andar ki sochne ka DHang aur vichaar dhaara mein
parivarthan laana chahiye. pehle aavashyak hai ki aap apni soch mein se gharshan ko haTa
de
Remove the friction from your thinking. When you have the thinking, ‘Why should I enrich
others when they don’t even, they are not even ready to receive what I am giving, when
they are not even ready to be sensitive?’ You can go on, go on, go on. But I tell you,
with this friction, you will only be shrinking in your life, because friction naturally makes
your thinking shrink. You will be shrinking in your thinking also. You will not take up
expansive, new, adventures expressing your possibility. Friction puts so much of negativity
in your thinking, you will not even reach the Space of Positivity.
16:56
The first step you need to reach for success is Positivity; then, Space of Possibility;
then, Space of Leadership; then Space of Enlightenment.
Space of Positivity is the Space of Devathaas. Space of Possibility is the Space of Indra.
Space of Eshwarathwa is the Space of Vaikunta, Kailasa.
Space of Enlightenment is the Nirvana, Moksha.
Understand, only if you remove friction in your thinking, the Space of Positivity happens.
yeh sangharsh se aap keval sankuchith honge. sangharsh aapko visthaarith hone ki sambhaavana
se vanchith rakhtha hai. Isiliye aapke sochne ke DHang se pehle sangharsh ko nikaal deejiye.
Remove friction from your thinking. If you start your day with the attitude of Enriching,
first of all you need to be convinced why should you enrich.
18:42
Life happens to you with others. You can be a good mother only when your son is complete
with you as mother. Only when your husband is complete with you as a husband, you can
be a good wife. Only when your father and mother are complete with you as a good son
or daughter, you will be good son or daughter. Only when your employee is complete with you
as boss, you will be a good boss. Only when your boss is complete with you as a good employee,
you will be good employee. Understand, every identity you carry in your
life will become complete if the other end is complete. For example, if you are carrying
the identity of mother, your son is the other end. If you are carrying the identity of son,
your father is the other end. If you are carrying the identity of employee, your boss is the
other end. If you are carrying the identity of the boss, your employee is the other end.
Only the other end is complete, you can be complete. Unfortunately, you come to the conclusion
before even start enriching them they can never be complete. ‘You don’t know my
boss! Anybody can be complete on the Planet Earth, not him! Till I make twenty-five company
and give him, he is not going to be complete!’ You start with so much of negative possibility,
you never reach, and you never even take first step!
20:46
aap apna har din doosron ko laabhaanvith karne ki manobhaavana se aarambh keejiye kyonki
keval anya log hi aapki asli astithva kaa prateek hai
Listen! You can never be complete, till the other end is complete, and making the other
end complete is not complicated job. You just need to remove the friction inside you; you
carry about the other end. When you remove the friction inside, the other end is healed.
When you add lubrication in your heart, the other end is automatically healed.Lubrication
you need to add inside the heart is the attitude of enriching. With attitude of enriching,
even in your business you will feel so fulfilled.
For example, if you are doing the business of selling shirts, do it with the attitude
of enriching with integrity and authenticity. Don’t cheat the quality material. Have the
right price, right price for the product. For example, if you are selling the shirt
for 100 rupee, you know very clearly, even if somebody is having 100 rupee, they cannot
wear that 100 rupee. They need somebody to make cotton, thread, dye it and weave it and
stitch it and bring it here. So, converting that 100 rupee into shirt itself is an enriching.
So, every business you do can be enriching directly. If you are with the attitude of
enriching, suddenly so much of friction in you melts down. You are complete with whatever
profession you are doing.
23:22
I tell you, I have met so many CEOs, heads of companies, business magnets; none of them
are complete about the business they are doing. They carry such a deep guilt; because they
feel they are cheating everybody. Their business is based on cheating.Anybody I talk they say,
‘Swamiji, this Integrity, Authenticity, can be practiced in other fields. In my field
it is impossible Swamiji. In my field morning the moment I get up till night, I have to
tell lies, lies, lies, lies, lies. I have to be cheating. How can I be?’
I tell you, you are not bigger than Cosmos. When Cosmos can function with this principle
of enriching, you can! You just need to have right understanding and right attitude.
Many CEOs, heads of the corporate companies, try to give me donation. They fund some of
our social service activities. Many time, I deny. I don’t accept. I tell them, ‘No!’
They ask ‘Why Swamiji? We are giving you donation. Why you are saying No!?’
I tell them, ‘First, you heal the incompletion you are carrying that your business is cheating.
Because of that guilt, you are donating. When you donate out of incompletion, you will try
to rule my organization. Tomorrow you will try to put your nose inside my organization.
Because you carry the deep incompletion that you are exploiting or cheating people, tomorrow
you will put the same doubt on me. I tell them, first complete the pattern you are carrying.’
25:47
With the right understanding, everything is enriching. With the right understanding, everybody
is enriching. You just need to have understanding and shift in your cognition. Simply your actions
will transform! Your way of cognizing will transform!
aapka har vyaapaar aapko seedhe laabhaanvith karsaktha hai. jab poora brahmaanD in chaar
tattvon ke saath kaam kar saktha hai tho aap bhi kar sakthe hai. aap keval tabhi poorna
ho sakthe hai jab aapke saath rehnewaale anya logon ke saath aap poornatva ke stithi ko
anubhav kare. doosron ke saath poornatva stithi ko laana athi saral hai. jab aap doosron ke
saath poornatva anubhav kar sakthe hai tab aapme sangharsh saraLtha se pighal jaatha
hai
27:22
You need to understand, enriching adds so much to your inner space. Only when you enrich
the people in the other end, only when the people in the other end are complete, you
can be complete. You always think without completing the people in the other end you
can become complete. It may be irresponsible retirement, not responsible completion. Dhyaan
se suniye, Only when each one of my disciple are complete, I am complete as Guru. Before
my disciples are complete if I try to be complete, it can be retirement; it cannot be completion.
Withdrawal is not completion. It can be irresponsible retirement.
Now millions of you are watching me through this Sadhana TV. When I make each one of you
understand what I am saying, only then I am a speaker, Teacher. Only when all of you are
complete in what you are listening, I am a Teacher. Till I complete the other end, I
cannot be a complete Teacher.
jab aap doosron ko laabhaanvith karthe hai tabhi voh poorn hothe hai, tabhi aap poorn
hothe hai.
29:32
Constantly, without even getting into the life applying these principles, you come to
the conclusion and you decide this cannot be practiced.
keval jab aap ke aas paas rehnewaale sabhi log aapse poornatva stithi ko anubhav kar
sakthe hai aap swayam ke saath bhi poornatva stithi ko anubhav kar sakthe hai
When your mother is complete, you will be complete.
jab aapke maathaaji aapke saath poornatva ka anubhav karenge tabhi aap ek beTi hone
keliye poornatva ka anubhav karenge. achchi tareh se jaan leejiye, har koi pehchaan jo
aap apnaathe hai jab doosra jo poornatva ke stithi mein hoga tabhi aap bhi poornatva ke
stithi ko payenge.
30:56
Unless the other end is complete, you cannot be complete. Any attempt you do to become
complete by yourself without completing the other end will be only irresponsible retirement;
never be responsible completion. Try! Try to apply this principle; start thinking from
the angle of enriching others. You will see, completing others how easy it is, because
everyone is waiting to complete you. If you are feeling incomplete with somebody, be very
clear, they are also feeling incomplete with you. When you want to complete them, they
are waiting to complete you. Nobody is here to exploit you. Nobody is here to cheat you.
People who think they are cheating others, they are very cunning that they can cheat
others are only cheat themself.
I tell you, with attitude of cunningness, you will never be expanding. The possibility
of expanding will never be cherished by the inner space which goes through the friction
of incompletion. Friction of incompletion constantly makes you shrink, shrink, shrink.
The way each of my sannyasis declare about their plan through which they are going to
enrich others, the way they declare, I know do they carry friction inside or not. If you
are carrying friction inside, I tell you, the expansion is not possible. Expansion,
even in your thinking, is not possible. Add the lubrication of enriching attitude in your
being.
33:58
yadi aap ke bheethar sangharshan hai tho aapme visthaar sambhav nahi hai, visthaarith hone
ka sambhavana aapke andar sankuchith hone ka aur sangharsh anubhav karne ki jagah ko
parivarthan kar detha hai
As long as I was thinking the world is out there to cheat me, I was only shrinking. Listen!
The moment I realized my decision to enrich myself and others is going to be the life
of completion, the moment I decided to live the principle of enriching, even my sannyas
felt like being a king! I tell you, when I was14, from my 14 to 17 I suffered with this
attitude‘world is out there to cheat me’. Even when I was in the house, I felt like
a poor beggar. 17½, I left the house;but with the completion and attitude of enriching
myself and others.Even though I was a beggar from 17½ to 25, I felt and lived only like
a king. I went on enriching people, even though I never had anything in my hand. I was dependent
even for my meal, for my food and stay, for clothes, on others. I tell you, I lived like
king! I went to different monasteries, different ashrams, different places, lived my life;
but I lived, I felt I am a king! And I saw I was only adding, whoever came in my breathing
space. I might have received food and clothes, but I have contributed, added so much to people,
I only felt fulfilled. I only felt expanded.
37:07
jab main parivraj ka jeevan jee raha tha, main doosron par apnee avashyakthaon ke liye
nirbhar tha. paranthu main ek raja ki tarah jee raha tha
I lived like a king even though I have to be dependent even for my food and clothes
to others.
aaj ki satsang kaa saaraansh hai – lagaathaar swayam ko evam anya logon ko laabhaanvith
karthe rahiye. tabhi aap apne andar evam baaharhonewale koi bhi sangharsh ko miTa saakthe hai aur
swayam ko evam doosron ko visthaarith kar sakthe hai.