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A problem appears when this grief is not overcomed,
when it is not possible to handle it.
Grief "consumes" the benefits of a migration
and the subject enters a crisis.
Mainly, when we speak about a "extreme grief".
I have a model I created a few years ago
that distinguishes different intensities of grief.
To experience a grief in good conditions is not the same as
to experience it with difficulties, although it can be overcomed,
or as to live through it in extreme circumstances.
We distinguish a simple, complicated and extreme grief.
To use an example, it is just as to speak about a debt.
Somebody can have a debt of 5, 500 or 5 millions Euros:
all of them constitute a debt.
But the debt of 5 Euros can be solved easily,
the debt of 500 is more difficult but possible to overcome.
However, if you owe 500 millions, you just do not know what to do.
The problem lies in a extreme grief that is impossible to overcome
and which brings a deep collapse of the subject.