When you stop caring what people think, you lose your capacity for connection. When you're defined by it, you lose our capacity for vulnerability.

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I've learned that men and women who are living wholehearted lives really allow themselves to soften into joy and happiness. They allow themselves to experience it.

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'Crazy-busy' is a great armor, it's a great way for numbing. What a lot of us do is that we stay so busy, and so out in front of our life, that the truth of how we're feeling and what we really need...

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When the people we love stop paying attention, trust begins to slip away and hurt starts seeping in.

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It's hard to practice compassion when we're struggling with our authenticity or when our own worthiness is off-balance.

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I'm like a recovering perfectionist. For me it's one day at a time.

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Normally, when someone we love is turning away from a struggle, we self-protect by also turning away. That's definitely my first response. I think change is more likely to happen if both partners have...

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I'm just going to say it: I'm pro-guilt. Guilt is good. Guilt helps us stay on track because it's about our behavior. It occurs when we compare something we've done - or failed to do - with our...

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We're hardwired for connection. There's no arguing with the bioscience. But we can want it so badly we're trying to hot-wire it.

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I love to take, process and share photos - it fills me up.

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