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so this is why you're doing things that really aren't authentic to who you are
and why you keep getting distracted from following your purpose most of the time
you're going to get a lot more validation from people around you from
society from your family from your friends from the people that you're in
the relationship with when you go do what they want you to do or what they
think is right for you rather than when you follow your heart rather than when
you do what you feel you are called to do so this creates a dynamic where it
becomes extremely difficult to actually pursue your dreams pursue your goals and
consistently do what you really want to do chances are there's somebody close to
you that is rewarding you right now as I speak to you you're being rewarded to do
things that might not necessarily really be your highest calling or what you
really desire to do with your life but they are patting you on the back for
doing something that they want you to do they're giving you initiative they're
giving you incentive to go out of your way to ignore your goal to ignore your
purpose and so no wonder you're being distracted and pulled away from it and
constantly just disorient not really able to focus and concentrate on your
path here's your challenge here's what we all
have to do if we want to live out our deepest potential say no to the
validation saying no to the approval say no to the things that other people want
us to do say no to the things that other people try to get us to do because it's
their intention for us and not our intention for us start with your
intention for you what's your intention for you for today
and to make an intention for yourself it's actually really simple all you got
to do is look at the things that you most enjoy doing for me it would be
actually sitting down right here and recording a video now I will get
rewarded to go do a bunch of other stuff which I'll still do a lot of other stuff
like companies and clients and I love doing that just as much so don't get me
wrong there are other things that you might enjoy doing that you also want to
do but for me it starts right here this is number one for me this is what I want
to make sure I do because I really really enjoy it and whether I'm
recording a video for youtube or whether I'm recording a video to help with some
other work that I'm doing or somebody that I'm collaborating with I don't mind
as long as I get to create content and share and help people live their dream
because I feel that's my highest calling in life now what is that for you what do
you most enjoy doing is it about going outside and getting the ball and kicking
it between two trees because honestly for a lot of you you're called to a
sport and you love that and that's what gets you engaged in that's what you
really enjoyed doing the very most so why would you hold yourself back from
doing that and instead focus so hard onto studying or focus so *** trying
to do a great job at a job that you don't really like now don't get me wrong
sometimes you have to do things that you don't love doing but let's set your
intention first could you wake up an hour earlier to go kick that ball or
whether it's dance or singing or creating your business and building your
funnel on your new websites whatever it might be for you can we do that first
can we make that the priority can we put that ahead and in front of everything
else because I'm telling you the moment that we do that we are regaining a ton
of power we're regaining a ton of momentum and
really we're taking responsibility to say if I don't put my dream first nobody
else is gonna do that for me see many years ago the only job that I could get
was as a janitor and although it wasn't a very lucrative a nice job it got me
through certain period of my life Wow while I was you know sort of
establishing my business initially and although yes I had to go and do that
before I ever went and did that I made sure that I recorded some content that I
worked on my website that I you know reached out to some potential clients
that I did something towards my purpose before I ever let myself go and do other
that you know somebody else's agenda somebody else wanted me to make sure
that that area was clean that was their agenda their vision their initiative and
I was falling into that but I made sure that I put my own priorities first so
even if you're in a spot right now where you can't focus on you first where you
can't say okay I'm gonna quit this job and go do what I love full-time that's
fine just start by putting what you love first and then go do that job and then
go do that thing and then go study and then go do all that other stuff but put
it a little bit of practice and put a little bit of work in first and the
thing that you really care about and I'm telling you the moment that you do that
paradigm shift completely mind shattering for a lot of people including
myself in that really now it feels like wow I do what I want first and then I go
through whatever other people need me to do or whatever else I need to do to
survive but first I listen to my soul I put my heart as number one that's my
first priority and then whatever comes after that it's almost like a nice
little bonus you know yeah that helps me do that thing that I want to do the most
but a lot of people have it all backwards they go work a really hard day
you're not the office they come home and then they're like oh I'm too tired to
work on my passion well of course you are start your day with that wake up
earlier you know change your schedule make it so that you put that first and
make it so that you're really noting it to yourself that hey this is a big
priority in my life this is something I really care about and the moment that
you have that installed right there now we can make some other power moves now
we can really start to create some more momentum now we can start to say no to a
lot of those other things that are distracting us or aren't serving us
because now when somebody comes to you and says hey can you pick me up from the
airport or hey can you you know kind of drive me to town or can you buy this
thing from me at the grocery store can you go out and do this for me can you
get me this can you help me with that usually you be probably hard pressed to
say no because you feel kind of guilty or like I don't really have anything
better to do oh man sighs say yes and then I go do it and
then guess what your people-pleasing now since you have that first establishment
you can say no to a lot of those things because you'll say hey wait that can be
extra time for me to go work on that thing that I care so much about that can
be extra time for me to go chase my dreams no I'm not going to the grocery
store to get you some lettuce I don't know how because I can work on my dream
right now this is time right here that's important and maybe I can go get the
lettuce later but you see I'm gonna put this first together or you practice that
the more you practice that the more you practice that the less you're taking the
validation and the little hit of dopamine the little head of you know
Saratoga whatever it might be like these little chemicals and releasing in your
brain and orphans telling you oh yeah great you're helping other people you
know but you're running around and you're not serving them or you because
you're not really pursuing what you want most
now when you pursue what you want most those little distractions come up and
you go mmm I don't think so I'm gonna prioritize
this again because you've already demonstrated to your unconscious that
hey this is important this comes first and then everything else and then you
start prioritizing it more and more and more this is exactly what happened for
me and more and more I started saying no to you know driving somebody to the
concert because hey I'm gonna make some content I'm gonna work on this and even
though I'd get paid to drive I wouldn't get paid to make the content it was the
right choice because over the long haul the content paid off tenfold and 100 and
a thousandfold to the point where I'm in complete financial independence I'm able
to just live off of investments create more and more wealth still continue to
help and serve of course because it's what I love to do and work with great
companies and great people but it's from freedom not the spiration and I really
want you to experience that in your life and the only way you do that is by
prioritizing the things that are important to you the only way that can
ever happen is if you put you first because nobody else will ever do that
for you no matter how much they love you they have their agenda for you they have
their version of what they want you to do and that's not to say that they don't
care about you of course they do your family probably loves you and cares
about you you know your partner probably loves and
cares about you deeply if you're in a good healthy relationship at least that
is right your friend probably love you and care about you but
of course they're in their movie there the main character there and in this one
it's you and I'm here to support you and I want you to make the decision to put
you first because that's the only way that you'll ever be able to serve the
people around you to your highest abilities anyway you know being able to
provide for my family or help people around me or friends and influence
people and really make a difference has come as a byproduct of me investing into
myself and putting personal development in my own evolution my own
transformation first and that's what creates a platform for me to operate
from and go add so much value out there now I ask you again what is that thing
for you that you're going to put first instead of getting distracted instead of
getting validated for getting distracted what are you going to prioritize what
are you going to really put first in your life what really matters to you
what is your heart calling you to do can we make that first can we finally make
the decision to say I'm gonna wake up every morning Hana do this I'm gonna
focus on it I'm gonna change my life this this really matters to me this will
really make a difference in my life finally I'll be happy and fulfill that
from that place I'm operating so much better in such a higher frequency that I
won't get distracted I won't get pulled away my attention will not get alluded
in to other things that really don't add value into my life that's what I call a
successful transformation that's what I call living your dream