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I welcome you all with my love and respects.
Sadhana tv ke sabhi darshakon aur bhaktonko me evam prem evam ashirvad sahit swagat karta
hun. Aaj me jeevan ka chowta tatva jo labhanvit karna he usko upyog karke aap swayam ke saath
evam doosron ke saath kaise apne sambandhon ko vistarit karsakte hain. Iske baare baath
karunga.
Today, Iíll expand on how the principles of life, enriching can be used to expand your
relationship, with yourself and with others.
Listen: these four principles are not my teachings, these four are THE teachings. If at all anything
human beings need to learn on the planet earth as a first, middle and last, that is these
four principles. Listen, these four principles are not my teachings, they are THE teachings.
These four are the essence of all religions, spiritual groups, philosophies, sects, cultures,
the essence of psychology, these four principles are THE teachings: Integrity, Authenticity,
Responsibility, Enriching.
Today, Iíll expand how the fourth principle, ëEnrichingí can empower you in the zone
of relationships. If you are feeling powerless in your relationships, be very clear you will
be powerless with the relationship with yourself. Relationship with yourself and relationship
with others, both happen from the same space. In the relationship with others if you are
feeling powerless, you will have the same powerlessness in the relationship with you.
Relationship with you, if you are feeling powerful, complete, relationship with others,
you will feel same powerful, completeness.
Dhyan se suniye, ye char tatva jo hai, ve keval mere sikshan nahin hain, ye char tatva
poore shastra evam dharma ka saransha hain.
They are not just my teaching, these four principles are THE teachings. Any human being
has to listen, learn these four, the moment heís born, the moment he starts living, during
living and before death.
Ye char tatva sabhi dharmo, aadhyatmic samoohon, darshan, sampradayon, mano vignyaan, sabhi
ka saar hai.
Today Iíll expand on the fourth principle: ´ ENRICHING ª how this principle is going
to heal your relationship with you and your relationship with others, make you feel powerful
with regards to relationship with others and relationship with you. Enriching, the principle
of enriching, how it can be used to make yourself powerful in the zone of relationship with
you and relationship with others.
Dhyan se suniye, listen to the definition of enriching once again. Enriching is, you
taking responsibility with Integrity and Authenticity that you are committed to continuously enriching,
which is expanding yourself, and life in and around you.
Labhanvit karne ki paribhasha, punah suniye, aapyayanam ya labhanvit karne ka arth hai,
aap
Sampoorti evam Shraddha ke saat zamedari uthaye ki aap lagatar aapyayanam ya
swayam ko aur aapke andar aur bahar ko jeevan ke lagatar labhanvit karnekeliye pratibadh
ho.
First Iíll expand what is your relationship with yourself. Please understand, just look
in, the ideas you carry about you, how many of you suffer a deep distrust over you, you
cannot raise yourself to the higher level, very deeply inside you, cognize and raise
your hands. Why, relax, why? Understand, because, you are not consistently, continuoulsy enriching
yourself and raising yourself to the next level. You gave up on you, you gave up on
yourself. The relationship with you, by you lacks enriching. I tell you, if you donít
teach yourself continuosly these four principles of Integrity, Authenticity, Responsibility
and Enriching, not only you will give up on you, you will give up on others also. People
who give up on themselves are very dangerous, because when you feel, ëanyhow you are going
to be doomed, then what is there? after all Iím going to be doomed, if I do this also
what is the wrong? if I do that also what is the wrong?í There is no limit for your
falling, you will see consciously you are having a freefall, like Indian stock market.
Just freefall. No, a few months before, the way the rupee was falling, you canít use
that paper for anything. That is the speed with which the freefall was happening. I tell
you, listen, the moment you give up on yourslf you give up on others, and you are dangerous
to you and to the society.
Aap lagatar apne aapko labhanvit nahin karte hain, apne aap ko lagatar samrudh nahin karte
hai, kyon ki apne aap par se vishwaas khochuke hai. Suniye, Aap par se vishwas kochuke hai.
Lord Sri Krishna again and again says, ´ Uddhared aatmana aatmanam na aatmaanam avasadayet ª
´ Raise yourself by yourself ª If you are continuously raising yourself by yourself,
you are your friend, if not, you are your enemy.
Listen, Dhyan se suniye: aaj mein vistar se bataonga ki samruddhi ab aapne aap evam doosronke
saath, apne rishton ko bar deti hai, aapke aap evam doosron ke saath apne rishton ko
shaktishali banaati hai. Suniye, shakti shaali banaati hai.
You need to feel empowered, powerful with the relationship with you and relationship
with others. Tirelessly, facing your inauthenticity and aligning yourself to the responsibility
is the only way you can build relationship with you. Listen: tirelessly facing your inauthenticity,
if you are not ready to face, who you think in the world is going to face your inauthenticity?
That is why everybody turns their face away from you. You continuously cry, ëeverybody
is turning their face away from me, nobody loves me, nobody relates with meí. Are, there
is so much of inauthenticity even you donít want to look at it, why will anybody else
look at it ? Only when I was able to be completely comfortable with me, the world was comfortable
with me. I tell you from my experience, when I was completely comfortable with me, even
cobra which was lying next to me, a poisonous cobra was so comfortable with me. I tell you
from my experience, ëbina takavat ke apne aapko ooper uthayiye. Ye zaroori hai, aap
apne saath evam doosron ke saath apne rishton ko sashakt banayiye.
I was staying in South India, in the deep forests of Tamil Nadu, where the stone quarrying
is done for the dieties, the place is called KARADIMALAI, near PERUKKARANAI. Once it really
happened, I was so comfortable with myself, I have completely completed with myself and
completed with the whole Cosmos. In that completion, listen : completion with you is SATORI, completion
with the cosmos is SAMADHI. So, I was sitting in samadhi with open eyes, in front of me,
not even 2 feet distance, one big cobra, poisonous cobra, it was lying, resting, almost on my
lap, more than two hours, neither I had the thought ëthis is cobraí, nor cobra had the
thought ëthis is maní. When I had the first thought, ëoh, this is cobra, it is poisonous,
it can be dangerousí, when these thoughts have started slipping, oozing out of my inner
space, means when I came down from samadhi. When these thoughts started oozing out of
my inner space, I could see the cobra had the thought, ëthis is man, he can be dangerous,
he can kill meí, and it just looked up, looked at me and moved away.
When you are complete with you, world will be complete with you. When you are incomplete
with you, world will be incomplete with you.
Jab mein pooritaraf se meri sath sahajta toh zeherila cobra jo mere bagal me tha, woh bhi
mere saath sahajtha. Swayam ke saath jab aap poornatva stithi me rakhte hain, tab aap satori
ki sthithi anubhav karte hai. Poori brahmand ke saath jab aap poornatva sthithi me rehte
hai, tab aap samadhi ki sthithi anubhav karte hai.
Completion with you is Satori; completion with the world is Samadhi; completion with
you is Prathyagaatma Chaitanya Jaagrata; completion with the Cosmos is the feeling experience
of Brahmanyam Bahuputrataam. Completion with you is Inner Awakening, completion with the
whole universe is Sannyas. Sannyas means, completion with the whole. You are clear with
your accounts, there is no incompletion,
Swayam ke saath, poornatva sthithi me rehna antar jaagrithi hai. Poori brahmaand ke saath
poornatva sthithi me rehna Sannyas hai. Dhyan se suniye, swayam ke saath poornatva sthithi
me rehna antar jaagriti hai, pratyagaatma chaitanya jaagriti hai. Poori brahmaand ke
saath poornatva sthithi me rehna, sannyas hai. Only in that sthithi you can say, ëAbhayam
sarva bhootebhyoí. I give refuge to the whole world.
Swayam ke saath poornatva hi pratyagaatma chaitanya jaagrat hona hai, sampoorna brahmaand
ke saath poornatva hi ëBrahmanyam bahuputratamí hai.
When you complete with you, relationship with you starts. Please listen, only when the relationship
with you starts, you can have vacation in your life. Till then, you may be able to book
your flight tickets, pick the place of vacation, book your hotel, spa, food, girlfriend, everything,
but, you will never experience real vacation because you are carrying you with whom you
donít have good relationship. How can you carry somebody along with you with whom your
relationship is not good and have any vacation? It is like, before divorce you try to have
a honeymoon. Any moment divorce may happen. You say, ëcímon letís just have one honeymoon
before the divorceí. Before marriage you can have bachelor party, before sannyas you
cannot have bachelor party, because the mood of the sannyas, the space of the sannyas will
not be asking for bachelor party. If it is asking for bachelor party, the sannyas cannot
happen. Same way, before divorce you cannot have honeymoon. If you are asking for honeymoon,
the space is not there for divorce. If you are asking for divorce, the space is not there
for honeymoon.
Listen: the relationship with you, if it is not complete, if it is not healed, if it is
not settled, you can never have vacation in your life. You may go to various places to
have vacation, but, you can never have vacation. You can book your golf course, golf club,
you can do everything possible, but you will be just suffering with you, you will be just
struggling with yourself.
Dhyan se suniye: keval poornatva sthithi me rehekar aap ghoshna karsakte hei, ëmein poori
brahmaand ka rakshak hooní. Jab aap swayam ke saath poornatva sthithi me hai aap ka swayam
ke saath sambandh shuru hota hai. Keval jab aap swayam ke saath apna sachcha sambandh
prarambh karte hai tabhi aap apne jeevan me vaastavik chutti lesakte hai.
Only when you have healed relationship with you, only when you can trust, you can raise
yourself by yourself, you can save yourself by yourself, you can relax in your life.
When Buddha says, ëatma deepo bhavaí, ëappa deepo bhavaí, that is His last word, he means,
´ raise yourself by yourself ª, build relationship with yourself by yourself. Donít give up
on yourself. Unfortunately, you start the struggle with you with the clear plan of losing,
that is why you start the difficult, the losing war. When you start the war with you, you
plan it in such a way, you play the losing game, so that you will never again ever try
to raise yourself by yourself, you just give up on you. You pick up the deep rooted patterns
and start struggling with it. First, complete the patterns which has not yet become deep
rooted in you. Patterns like irritation, agitation, but you start with patterns like ***, deep
rooted fears, addictions, naturally in few weeks you can declare yourself as failure
and just coil yourself into the cozy comfortable zone where you do not need to do anything
to raise yourself by yourself, am I right? First start completing with the deep rooted,
root patterns of suffering.
Dhyan se suniye: the root patterns of suffering, you will have confidence over you. You will
feel responsible for you. Bring deep integrity in your thinking. Start the fight in the area
where you are going to win. Use all your energy to realize these principles in your life,
not to disprove these principles. You can prove anything or disprove anything in your
life. You are the judge, you have the power. As far your life is concerned, you are the
legislature, you are the executive, you are the judiciary, you are the media. You can
either make something work for you or prove it cannot work for you. You can make or break
anything you want. Use all your powers; legislature, executive, judiciary, media to prove these
principles works for you. You can have reltionship with you only when you can raise yourself
by yourself.
As I said, you are your own judiciary, you are your own legislature, you are your own
media, you are your own executive, am I right? You decide for you, you execute for you, you
criticize you.
Listen: Iíll give you the example, when you are debating about some decision, you are
your lÈgislature; when you decide, you are your judiciary, when you execute that in your
life, you are your executive body. When you criticize yourself, whether it goes happily
or failure, when you criticize yourself constantly, you are your own media.
Apka swayam ke saath sambandh tabhi hosakta hai, jab aap swayam ko swayam se bacha sakte
hai. Swayam ko swayam se nirmaan kare. Keval jab aap swayam pe vishwas karsakte hai ki,
aap swayam ki samrakshan swayam karsakte hai, tabhi aap apne uchhatam shamta ko anubhav
karsakte hai. Jab aap apne aapse yudh aarambh karte hai, aap haar ne ke khel ki yojana banaate
hai, aap apne jahri jadovali sancho ko uthakar unse sangharsh aarambh karte hai. Swayam ke
saath apna sambandh banaayiye. Aapna atma vishwas na khoye. Dhyan se suniye: when you
start the war with you, you plan to play losing game. Day one youíll say, ëIíll break my
drinking habit which is there for 25 yearsí. You can break your drinking habit even if
it is 25 years old, but when, after having enough of tools, weapons to fight with your
mental pattern, to complete with your mental pattern? If you have Krishna with you, you
can win any amount of warriors. All the warriors of the Kauravaís side are the mental patterns.
Krishna alone is enough, He will finish it off. But, when you donít have Krishna in
your side, any struggle you try to do, any plan you try to do will be failure.
Donít start fighting with the bigger patterns when you begin relationship with you. First,
start completing the patterns yet to be rooted in your bio-memory. You will have courage,
you will have confidence. The relationship with you will start getting built first, you
will have the space to listen to you. I tell you, if you have the space to listen to you,
your thoughts per second (TPS) will drop drastically and you will be in such peace. There are only
two possibilities, either you are in peace or piece, piece. Either you are in peace or
piece, piece.
Aap swayam ko majbooth karsakte hai ya kamzor karsakte hai, dono aap hi ke haath me hai.
You can bring peace to you, or piece, piece to you. If you have master like Krishna with
you, you can conquer even Duryodhanaís sena.
Agar aapke saath Krishna hai to aap kisi bhi rashi ke yuddhaon ko jeet sakte hai. Yuddhaon
ko jeet sakte hai. Aapke paas keval do hi vikalp hai, aap swayam ko jod sakte hai ya
aap swayam ko thod sakte hai. Aap swayam ko jod sakte hai, ya aap swayam ko thod sakte
hai.
You have only 2 possibilities. First, heal, enrich your relationship with you. Do swapoornatva,
self completion by bringing Integrity with you, Authenticiy with you, Responsibility
about you, Enriching yourself.
Listen: I ask you to bring these three qualities in you as a first priority. That does not
mean Iím asking you to do only this. You have to be doing this simultaneously with
you and others also. Only then it happens in you.
Pehle aap swayam ko labhanvit keejiye, apne aapko poornatva sthithi me laayiye.
When you bring completion to you, relationship with you starts. Enriching yourself starts.
If you donít have confidence, you can look at you, you can be with you, you are comfortable
with you, you can raise yourself by yourself, who can be with you? Who else can look at
you? Who else will be comfortable with you? I tell you, in the Cosmic constitution, the
first amendment is, you should be taught to be comfortable with you. That is your first
amendment right! Man should be comfortable with himself. You should be able to be comfortable
with you. That is the first amendment in Cosmic Constitution. Freedom of Speech comes second.
You have freedom to speak with others only if you have freedom to speak with you!
First start completing the patterns yet to be rooted in your bio-memory.
Pehle aap ne un sanchon ko poorn kare, jo apme gehri nahin huye hai, tab apne atma vishwas
utpan ho ga, swayam ke saath aapka sambandh prarambh hoga. Aap swayam ko sune ki antarakaash
ka anubhav karenge. Antarakaash ka anubhav karenge. Jab aap swayam ke saath poornatva
ko laate hain, swayam se aap ka sambandh aarambh hota hai, tabhi swayam ko labhaanvit karna
aarambh hota hai.
Aaj ki satsang ka saraansh hai, ëswayam ke saath poornatva sthithi ko laayiye, aur swayam
ko laabhanvit keejiye, jab aap swayam ko laabhanvit karne lagte hai, tab aap vishwa ko laabhanvit
karna aarambh karne lagte haií.