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Have you ever felt successful in your life? Many people never get to the point where they
want to be, in terms of success. In this video I`m going to explain why many people never
succeed in life, while others succeed with ease and with very little effort. In my point
of view, there exists only four different personalities/charachteristics that humans
manifest when trying to become successful. First i am going to talk about the first and
the second personality. The first person is the one who defines his/her own way of success,
and succeeds by doing so. The second person also defines his/her own way of success but
fails by doing so. What i want youto learn is that there is a huge difference between
the people who seeks their suvjective success and the people that think they do so. The
last mentioned actually only wants to live up to thoer peoples expectations. They follow
a success-image, an image of success that someone else have created for them. Now I`m
going to explain th 3rd and the 4th personality. The 3rd person, is the one who lives up to
other peoples success-image and succeeds by doing so. Th 4th person however, is the one
who also follows a success-image, but fails. If you want to become your strengthby succeeding
in life, you need to inhabit 2 of these personalities. What the first and the second personalities
have in common is that they both define what success truly means to themselves. Success
is not something that others decide for you, it is not something concrete. It is something
you define for yourself. If you let other peopledeside what success means to you, you
are more like a slave compared to an independent person. The person who defines her own way
of success and fails while trying to reach it (2dn personality), will mst likely meet
a dilemma. She can choose to give up because she fails, or she can choose to continue by
harvesting experiences from these failures. When she is doing this, she will firstly learn
a lot, and secondly become closer to success. She will become stronger. So the person that
accepts failure and learns by failing, is the person that eventually will succeed. So
you have to accept failure in order to succeed. This is a very omportant factor to being a
successful person. Personally i think the worst of the four charachteristics that you
can identify yourself with, is the 3rd, where you follow a success image and succeeds. If
you can identify yourself as the 3rd person, you`ve litterally followed other people`s
dreams. You haven`t been able to folow your personal dreams, desires and aspirations.
This is the reason for why so many people experience a midlife crisis. It is because
they haven`t achieved anything that truly means something to them. The 3rd person haven`t
looked at his/her life in a bigger perspective. He/she has also ignored his/her inner values.
Short story told: the 3rd person ignores his/her values. The 4th personality however, is a
much better personality to inhabit in my opinion because you then follow a success-image, BUT
you fail. And when you fail, you may realise that this may not be the right thing for you
to do. You may realize that you need to find a subjective defenition to success. The failure
in itself could have been a result of you not following your ambitions or aspirations.
You then need to define your inner values so that you can nurchure these values. Your
dreams, ambitions and aspirations are products of your core values. When you follow your
dreams, passions and aspirations, you nurchure your core values, and by doing so you will
achieve something taht truly means a lot to you. The you won`t experience a midlife-crisis.
So what want you to do, is to identify yourself with one of these four personalities. Then
i also want you to define what your core values are, which i`m also going to talk about in
a video later on. So if you want any more advice on that, just keep whatching my videos.
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