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Love does not ask a single question
it is not in its nature that thought doesn’t even occur.
It does not even exist.
Why? Because I love.
There are stories about,
the classics stories
about lovers
where somebody says,
“you in love with so and so” “Yes”,
“but we understand she’s ugly”
and he says, "well you need to borrow my eyes.
You can’t see her with your eyes and find the beauty."
"Well, you are never going to get married;"
you are never going to be able to-
“so what. I’m not in love with her body.
My love is not slave of
being able to touch a flesh.
I already merged
and she merged with me.”
“but you are not together”
“but that is not the definition of love,
being together is not the definition of love. If you are together,
it is a
blessing, it is a grace from the highest creative energy that you are not
only touching
each other’s core
but you are touching each other surface
but surface
has nothing to do with touching
because touching at the surface
requires you
to create
a distance
create a separation,
is it not?
When you hug somebody
and don’t let them go
for a while,
doesn’t that hug become uncomfortable?
Why? Because if you are so much in love, why not keep it in your arms? Just keep it there,
stay there
even
few more moments?
Why? Because I’ll hug you again but first create the distance.
Go away for a while
and then come back
and I will hug you again.
That's a requirement
of the physical love.
Create the separation
but once you are merged, where is the separation?
Can that “E”
tell that “S”
"now
I have enjoyed your coming in now get out and come back again"
Doesn’t happen,
cannot happen,
that is not the nature of the true love.
True love
does not
create
separation.
It is just merging,
it is just losing,
It is just dying,
it is finishing your identity.
Unless until
you remember that premise,
it is the door of love I came into this world,
and it is the door of love that will
take me back
to my own home.
That’s why
a mystic,
a spiritualist
keeps on telling you;
develop that love for that Creator
and don’t put any condition on Him.
I will love you if you give me a lover here,
I’ll love you if you give me money.
I’ll love you if you make me young,
I’ll love you if give me children, on and on and on.
How can you love
God then, but what is the
religious organization telling you?
Love God so he can give you so and so.
So if there is a demand,
if there is an expectation, how can there be love?
Even with God,
love has no
demand,
zero, zilch, nada.
Love just has to be accepted, that’s it,
just accept me,
whether you are physically near or not is ir-relevant.
That’s why
in the real world,
in the practical world,
true love between two humans does not exist;
it cannot exist
because it requires
for one of them at least
to die for the other,
into the other, merge into the other.
So the normal condition is,
both of them
stand next
to each other asking "you die into me"
and the other said "no you die into me".
It is like two beggars with empty bowls asking “put something in my bowl”
“mine is also empty you put something in my bowl” and neither of them has
anything to give.
Humans have only
known attachment and ***;
2 things.
All relationships in the human
world are these 2 things;
*** and attachment.
*** when it comes to the opposite sex
and attachment when it comes to your siblings, friends, children,
family etc.
that’s pure attachment;
but why is that attachment,
do you know, why does that exist?
The attachment exists because of our comfort.
When I am attached with you,
there are certain things that I need which are fulfilled
because of that attachment.
If that need is
fulfilled somewhere else,
the attachment disappears.
The bond
loosens up completely.
You just said
that after the passing away of the female, the male, within 2 minutes,
brings another female. Why?
What happened to the love?
Why are you not willing
to live
in the sweet
memory
of that love
and go through the passes of suffering
in the name of your love.
No, I don’t want to suffer.
I’ll fill that need
somewhere else.
So anybody who claims,
which is a common claim by the old people;
I am still in love with your mother,
it is a false claim.
Did not experience the true love, only experienced
the attachment
and the
completion of those needs
that were coming out of the attachment.
May be just company,
loneliness
all so and so gives me the company
and she was providing the company and now she is gone, no more company.
So I will go get the company
somewhere else because my need is company. I cannot be alone.
Why can’t you be alone,
why don't you?
At that point in your life,
find your
inner woman and be in love
with that women, and who is that women?
That is your Creator.
Why can’t you find your inner man
and be in love with that inner man?
Who is that inner man?
That is your Creator.