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Hey guys, Clover here and I'm in the mood to celebrate.
Not because it's my birthday, it's not.
but because as of Leo, we're officially have way through the series! And it only make sense that after showing you guys such sad events that I would give you guys something
to prevent that. So, I'm gonna try and give you guys some advice.
relationship advice.
No, not like that.
but this advice I'm about to give you — you can use this for just about anyone. Not just your significant other. Your mother, your father,
Your siblings, your cousins, your..pets
Okay maybe not your pets, but you get the idea. Think back to when you go into a fight with someone.
Someone you really cared about.
Most likely, that fight didn't end in the most healthy manner
because, you guys
once you get into the fight
What we all usually think about is — we want to win the fight.
whether we're right whether we're wrong. Usually, the way we react is
we have to prove the other person wrong.
and that's not always healthy for the relationship because
we end up saying things that we don't mean, we end up doing things we don't mean and sometimes
the fight may escalate to something physical, but that's another topic for some other time but
What the real goal in mind should be is
to do what's healthy for the relationship and
sometimes that means you have to lose the fight. Now I'm not saying you're going to not defend yourself.
Don't take it the wrong way.
You have to defend yourself, but it's about finding the balance.
If you see the other person is being just as stubborn as your are
if not more. Just
find it in yourself to apologize because no matter how right you are in an argument
There's usually something you've done wrong to upset the other person.
so
just apologize for what you've done.
and watch as things smooth out. It might not be immediate it might take a while, but
the other person might even feel a little embarrassed for
how they were acting and they'll cool down.
After that you might be able to talk it out and
you'll see how things get better and I guarantee it will be a lot better than actually
winning the fight
Whenever you get into a fight,
both people are at
fault to some degree.
So no matter who wins the fight, someone's still going to be a little hurt because
the other person didn't deserve to win the fight.
it's better to just come to a mutual agreement as to what happened
and what could have been done better and move on from there.
and don't be all
sarcastic about your apology and be like.
No you're right, I'm sorry. I don't even know why I got mad you're obviously right.
because that's really not gonna help anyone in the
relationship. You just just be genuine. And I'm really looking forward to what you guys have to say.
Do you guys apologize when you get into a fight or are you the ones that just want to
keep going until you win
I think we should all be working towards becoming better in our relationships so I hope been
able to help out with that in some way. Clover here, I'll see you soon.