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How to Deal with a Needy Neighbor. Find that fine line between being firm and being rude
to deal with your neighborly nuisance. You will need Boundaries Energy and the ability
to say no. Step 1. Take your gut feelings seriously, and pay attention to them. If your
gut tells you to stay away from a needy neighbor, heed the advice. Step 2. Be clear about boundaries
and what you will and will not tolerate. If a needy neighbor violates your boundaries,
let them know as soon as possible. Step 3. Stay energized. Negative people don't like
being around people who maintain a positive outlook, and being too busy to talk will get
them looking elsewhere to fulfill their needs. Limit conversations. Step 4. Explain to your
needy neighbor when they call or drop by that you are busy and can’t visit with them.
Be polite but firm _before_ they suck you in. Did you know Mr. Rogers’ Neighborhood
produced more than 870 episodes.