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Should my boyfriend have female friends?
That really depends on the friends.
How so?
He shouldn’t be friends with his ex, unless they have kids together. Otherwise, he shouldn’t
be talking to her while dating you.
While there are a lot of jokes about a girl breaking up by saying let’s just be friends,
I think these really are friends, not exes.
Do you have any guy friends?
A few, but mostly at work.
Can he tell you that you can’t have male friends?
It’s not like they are work spouses.
Imagine your boyfriend coming up and saying you have to quit your job because there are
guy friends there.
I had the job before I had him. And I need the job to pay my bills, since all he pays
for is dinner and a movie once in a while.
So what right do you have to say he can’t have female friends?
Some of them dress slutty, while others are flirting with him.
Get introduced to his friends as his girlfriend, so they know the guy is taken.
And what if they don’t respect that?
Then you tell off those few tramps, while telling him that those girls are off limits,
unless he plans on launching his own Sister Wives show.
Playboy channel show, more likely. He says I’m insecure.
If him talking to a female friend that he’s known for years but hasn’t dated makes you
insecure, while he loves you, it can be taken that way.
We are in love.
And they’re just friends. Maybe you’re jealous about how much time he spends with
them or the level of communication that they have.
What should I do?
Tell him to build up your friendship as well as your relationship, so he can talk to you
like that.
I do have a few more incentives to do that than they do.