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Granddaughter: One of your new friends, Deb sent in a question. She needs
your help. "Hi OGs.I saw your segment on The Today Show and was so impressed.
I have been married to my beloved husband for 32 years and I have a question for you.
Like most marriages, ours has not been without its ups and downs, but I feel that it has
been mostly positive and I love my husband more than life itself. He turned 51 this
year and recently told me that he does not think he wants to be married anymore.
He feels that he needs to strip down and start over. There is no indication of infidelity.
I honestly do not feel that this is about another person in his life. I think that
he may be going through a mid-life crises. He is not leaving our marriage at this time
and is acting as normal as possible, but I am living each day not knowing what to expect.
He told me this about 2 weeks ago. Do you have any advice for me? My husband
is a good man, a good provider, and a father. He also treats me well but just seems lost
right now. Please help. Thanks so much for your advice.
Cutie: This is a small segment of your marriage and everything is not all roses. If it
is a down period, hold on with your teeth. He sounds like he is worth holding on to.
He is a good husband, a good provider, a good companion. He will not find anything better
on the outside. The grass always looks greener on the other side. He is luck
to have what he has. Taking him up will help, however if he wants to leave, let him
pack up his belongings and try it for 6 weeks. He will be back in 2.
Granddaughter: Ok. Cutie: Good luck.
Closed Captioning by Yael R. Vinciguerra