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How To Avoid A Break Up.
They say that after a while the wine is transformed into vinegar and something similar happens
to love. That the touch of coexistence wears relationships
and buries the love we felt at the beginning.
However, on a few occasions, we hear of couples (or we see them wandering along the street)
that have been together for a thousand years and convey a sense of happiness that completely
denies the affirmation of this principle.
Do they have something we do not have? Or is it something we can learn? I think it's
rather the latter. The following steps will help you see for yourself:
1. Listen with the heart.
We think that communicating is to make clear what we think and feel. But the problem is
that we do not listen, and not feel heard is not feel loved.
Have you noticed how some couples raise their voices? It is because they have lost the habit
of listening. That's why they scream for.
What really has the strength to heal a relationship and give it back its brilliance is to listen.
Listen to your partner as if you did not know her/him (in time you will realize that it
is no so, you do not know your partner). Without thinking about what you are going to say when
you finish speaking, without interrupting it. To know oneself is what makes us open
our hearts.
2. Be a host.
The relationship you have with your partner is like a party in which you are the host.
Your "job" consists of offering all the time (canapés, champagne, chocolates ...), without
asking anything in return.
Do not see yourself as someone who got into the party, trying to get everything you can
from it, filling your pockets of canapes. Do not beg for love. Give it away. You will
see how sooner or later everything you give will multiply for you.
3. Bury the Past Now!
Do not try to answer all the whys or analyze the conflicts, or re-mention that person who
interposed between the two ... The best way to transcend a problem is not to discuss it
or revive it but put it aside and move on. Leaving the past behind will be like opening
a window and letting the fresh air out.
Follow these three steps and you will see that also the vinegar, with a little practice,
can become (a magnificent) wine.
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