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Hi! It's Rosane Gibson, the founder of A Road To You. And this is Inspirational Video Day,
so that you can start your day with high vibrations. And I want to commend you for tuning in,
because that shows me that you are committed to grow and to shine.
Today we're going to talk about assumptions, and how your brain is just like Google.
So what is assumption? An assumption is something that you assume to be the case, even without proof.
For example, people might make the assumption that you are a nerd if you wear glasses,
even though that's not true.
People may assume that when foreigners are speaking their own language, that they may
be speaking behind their back, when it's natural to switch back and forth to their own language,
whether or not they're around people that can't understand the language they're talking about.
When you assume something it's usually based on negative past experiences, and it
creates a wave of separation from you to the thing or the person that you're assuming of.
I hope that by now you have dropped all the the assumptions you had about me.
According to Henry Winkler, "Assumptions are the termites of relationships."
You may be starting a relationship, and creating assumptions based on relationships that you've had in the past.
This is like a safety mechanism of your ego, because you don't want to get hurt again.
But you must stop it. Because what happens is that your assumption will
become a self fulfilling prophecy, really making what you most fear about, to happen.
Making assumptions in relationships is really asking for problems. Often we make assumptions
that our partners know what we think, and that we don't have to tell them what we want.
If they don't do what we assume they should do, we feel hurt and we may say things like,
"You should know better."
If you could record the thought seeds that go inside of your mind, and then play them back to you,
it might sound like this question. "Why am I so broke? Why don't I have enough money?
How come I'm not more successful?" Or, "Why am I so fat?
Why are these people happier than I am? Why I am just a loser?"
All these are assumptions in form of questions. What do you think that the answers would be
to these negative questions I just mentioned? The answers are the things showing up in your life
that reflect the disempowering assumptions in form of questions that you have been unconsciously asking yourself.
Bingo.
"Why don't I have more money?" The answer to these questions will show up in your life
as a lack of money, no matter how hard or how long you work. "Why can't I lose weight?"
The answer to this question will show up in your life, as you're not able to lose weight
no matter how many diet and exercise programs you try.
So you're asking yourself these negative questions which leads to the disempowering assumptions
which leads to you not believing you can reach your goals.
Being away again.
I have good news for you. Your mind is like Google!
When you ask a question, it automatically performs a search for the answer.
The only difference is that Google cannot change the question that is asked.
Google doesn't say, "No, I don't feel like answering these questions right now."
Google does not have conscious choice. You do.
Yes, you have conscious choice! It means that you can decide which questions to ask.
You are able to choose what to think, what to say, what to do.
You have a choice at every moment of your life. Isn't that great?
When you ask a question, your brain is wired to search for the answer. Positive or negative,
either way your inner Google will search for answers. The choice is yours. Here's the thing.
If your brain's wired up to make assumptions, what about rephrasing your assumptions in a positive way?
So when you ask a question that assumes that what you want is already true,
you will activate the part of your brain that will seek to make it happen.
And that's what will unleash your hidden power to take action and change your life.
Now I would like to offer you three steps on how to use your Inner Google. Step one:
Get a notebook. Write a list of things you desire in your life. It can be about anything.
Let's say get more money, lose weight, find true love, whatever you want.
Then I want you to ask an empowering positive question about each one of these desires.
Start these questions with "why". For example, "Why is it so easy for me to make more money?"
"Why can I lose ten pounds this week?" And, "Why can I find the love of my life very soon?"
Step two: Now, find answers to these questions that will lead you to positive action.
For example, "Why can I lose ten pounds this week?" Well 'A', because I'm eating more veggies and fruits
instead of breads and pasta. 'B', because I walk three miles every day.
'C', because I go to the gym three times a week.
Step three, read these questions and answers at least three times a day.
This is how it works. First you desire. You want something. Then you believe. You believe that you can.
And then you act. Your actions will be based on your new belief.
Your mind is like Google. When you start assuming things that are not empowering for you,
insert in your Google brain empowering positive transformational question thoughts instead.
And change your assumptions.
Now I would love to hear from you. What are the most empowering assumptions that you have?
What empowering questions can you ask yourself now? The best discussions happen at my blog page ARoadToYou.com.
So go there and leave your comment right now.
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Keep focused, connected with your highest purpose and truth, because you are meant to
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Thank you so much for watching, and I'll catch you next time on an Inspirational Video Day.