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Hey guys, happy election day. I hope you voted and if you didn't, shame on you. Today I wanted
to talk about bullying. Not just bullying and that it's *** people and blah blah blah.
Everybody knows that, everyone--this is my point. Everyone has been bullied at
some point. It's not like it's exclusive to a certain type of people. However I think
there's a type of bullying that's exclusive to a certain type of person and that's what
I would like to talk about. In general, INTJs as I'm sure you're all aware at this point
if you're watching this video, we're intuitive and we are introverts. So, we're held back
in our minds and we generally have very vivid imaginations and that makes us weird because
we're like, "Woah, what's all this craziness going on in here." And then we open up our
eyes really wide and start taking in more information and it becomes this circus of
data, patterns and shapes. We hardly understand ourselves so there's no way we're able to
communicate in a way that others will understand. So they're like, "Who's that weirdo over there
who's talking to themselves, drawing circles, and staring randomly?" It sucks but that's
who we are. When we're kids we're so unaware of how to deal with this sort of thinking
because of that, we're easy targets. So if you're one of these, I don't know, pre-teens,
even teens, that are very quiet and you don't know why you don't fit in. You don't understand
what's wrong. For example like when I was young I didn't fit in anywhere. I was so obscure
to myself and to everybody else and it just made me mad, angry, and kind of hateful which
made me less loveable. It's just a bad cycle. So my advice to you if you happen to be one
of these people who are on the outside looking in, first learn to accept that you're weird.
You are weird. That's kind of cool. You can maybe turn it into art or something.
You can do something with it. Don't hate it, learn to love it. Learn to embrace
it and then you can do something with it just like any other tool. Learn to be kind even
when it's unnatural and feels contrived. You don't really know how to be kind except by
watching others. It's not something that comes from you. You don't feel that way, you kind
of feel like, "You know what? You're mean to me. Die." I was like that. Not good. You
will not make friends that way. Yeah, and learn to talk to people! Even if you're weird!
I had to practice talking to no one and I still do that. In fact I sometimes practice
conversations before I have them so that way I'm actually able to give and take instead
of just shotgunning words at a person and then being like :scared face:
Why are we so weird? Why is all of this so hard? I don't know. But there's hope. Just keep trying,
keep practicing. And hey, I'm here for ya'. Comment if you want to or send me a message
and I'll do the best I can to help you out. I've made it so far, I'm doing alright.
Alright, have a good night!