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hi today in Feng Shui bagua vision board journey we're going to be looking at the
section that relates to children and projects now why does it relate to those
two things if you think about it when you're progressing a project you might
refer to it or other people might refer to it as your baby
so the fortunate blessings is the process of growing a baby and what we're
going to talk about today is the process of nurturing and nourishing and making a
success of your baby so the the metaphor here is metal but it's metal like
jewelry soft it's more solid it's more favorite jewelry you'll notice I know
right away except very occasionally when I have one or two fun things that I
might put on but yes I mean children a project should be the jewel in your
lives and the way that we talk about these things
we look at the jewel of dare I mention it the British Empire and the jewel in the
crown and the jewel of the family and that so the kind of metal we talk about
here is decorative but you have to dig deep in order to make it and it requires
a bit of smelting as well so that its work to produce well balanced successful
children and it's also work to produce
projects that that actually do what they're supposed to have
outcomes that they're supposed to have and make everybody happy
rather than yeah the happy outcomes so
at this point in the vision board you might think about an information about
what you want the outcome to be so I have one that I put on my vision board
you might be interested in it if you can see it so this section of the bagua
vision board also applies to creativity and creative solutions and I know that
from my own experience that both with children and with projects as a time
when the children are kind of teenagers and maybe you're having to let go a little bit and
there can be some interesting challenges going on there and there's usually a
part in a project where you get to a stage where a lot of things have to be
crashed so and creative solutions need to be found in order to continue the
smooth running of the project so that's what we're going to address with this
tapping tap with me even though this situation is challenging and the doesn't
seem to be anything that I can do about it
I deeply and completely love and accept myself at least I want to even though
this situation is really challenging there's a lot of emotion in it and what
much of it is positive and I really don't know what to do this seems so a
few choices and maybe I've painted myself into a corner but I deeply and
completely love and accept myself anyway or at least I'm open to even though
there doesn't seem to be any way through
this difficult time so much negative emotion so much anger and upset grief
and resentment I really don't know what to do with it all and it's not just me
I'm doing my best Aaron nobody appreciates me deeply and completely
love and accept myself
at least I'm open to so much negative emotions swirling around so much
negative emotion swirling wind and I know someone is mine there's so much
unreasonableness I just wish that everybody would calm down and be
reasonable but the truth is that it's just not gonna happen and I am right
about that this is all incredibly unreasonable and I'm doing my best here
and nobody appreciates me all that I'm doing my best and I'm right about that
and I feel so resentful and I'm right to feel resentful I've got a lot to feel
resentful about
I feel resentful I wish everybody would just calm down and work together
cooperation would be great a little bit of thing of the people's point of view
my point of view yeah they should see my point of view on this I'm right about
them seeing my point of view so much negative emotions swirling moment so
much resentment and heartbreak and upset
I don't want this any more than they do
I'm certainly open or willing to be open
to finding a way through this
take a deep breath now that round will pretty much apply - I forgot to take a
measurement we do that in a minute it'll pretty much apply to either a teenage
situation or a project situation so I'm trying to make it as applicable as so as
possible now because I forgot to take a measurement let's say that the spike the
emotional spike on this was right up at a 10 to begin with on a scale of 0 to 10
with 0 being what's your problem everybody's fine and 10 being oh god
this is just awful and I'm thinking of leaving
so we'll keep doing that round until you get to about a 4 or 5 you get lower if
you like that would be even better but it might take you know one or two rings
doing them and now let's go on to the next one to put in the more positive and
people ask me why it is that I'd focus on the negative first but as I explained
in a different video earlier on in the function we talked about vision board
series they says you can't make any progress unless you recognize and
acknowledge that there is something going on if you kind of push it side or
push it down it becomes the elephant in the room that everybody is quietly
stepping around and everybody's in denial about it so what we're doing here
is were acknowledged it and letting it go and that's really
important in order to be able to improve the situation because once you once your
energy in this situation is flowing properly then you can focus your energy
on bringing in something a lot more positive often very surprising ok so now
let's go on to the positive even though this situation is still difficult and
people do feel emotional about it including me I'm open to finding
creative solutions that everyone can accept
and I deeply and completely love and accept myself or at least I want to even
though this situation it's still quite challenging I am willing to take a step
back see the bigger picture
and find or create a solution that everybody can accept but it would be
even better if they're happy with it
and I deeply and completely love and accept myself or at least I'm open to it
even though this situation is challenging and everybody knows it and
they're all pulling in different directions
I'm open to finding a creative solution that everyone can accept and it'll be
great if they're happy women today and I deeply and completely even in this
situation love and accept myself really still open to it yes this is a
challenging situation I know that there must become some kind of creative
solution that we can all come up with if we put our heads together
I can ask people what it is that they want and coach them past that first I
want things to stay the same
and find out what their true vision for
the outcome is and mostly they just want to be happy and feel secure and I can
accept that
because that's what I want - happiness and security
I wonder what form that would take for everyone else and when your *** coke
70 tell me what how they could feel happy and secure in the situation what
that would look like it's a great idea
that lets everyone know that they're being heard
that they have input there they're not powerless
and that too is what people want they want to be heard they want to feel they
have some control over their lives
that's what I want too
I can listen and collect information about what people really want what will
make them feel happy secure
and that's the foundation that I think we can all work
I'm certainly happy to listen to others and to work together with them deep
breath yes I keep touching my shoulders
now do you see how that's not a plan for the outcome it's a plan to help people
cooperate to reduce the emotional charge in everybody else as well because when
there's a challenging situation we all get a bit defensive just and that can
get in the way of listening being heard
so that's the kind of approach that might be useful for you and you know if
you're finding all of this quite intriguing I think we might be a good
fit to work together please there's a link to my website my contact details in
the description someone just click and I look forward to chatting with you so
tomorrow what's tomorrow tomorrow is knowledge
and personal development so I'll see you then