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Can you tell me why you should never forgive a cheating husband?
If he’s cheated once, he’s far more likely to cheat again.
He says he won’t.
He said he wouldn’t cheat when he promised to have and to hold, to love and to obey.
Women say they’re supposed to obey.
For modern guys, it ought to be the other way around. But let’s be honest, if you
caught him, he may have cheated more than once.
I wonder what I’m supposed to do.
Get tested for STDs, make him get tested for STDs, and make sure you don’t have sex until
both of you come back clean.
That’s going to be an embarrassing O.B.G.Y.N. visit.
Not as bad as it would be finding out your husband is cheating because the OBGYN diagnoses
you with an STD.
He says guys sometimes wander, and that I should accept his apologies.
At least he didn’t say it was your fault for not being hot enough in bed. But if he’s
excusing it, you’re making a mistake by excusing it.
I do not want to get a divorce.
Women divorce guys for violating their trust and falling out of love. He violated your
trust and made love to someone else.
I’m devastated, but I’ve heard we could heal.
You’ll always be wondering if he’s having a late night meeting at work or with a ***.
You’ll always worry if he’s travelling for work or for pleasure.
Don’t all marriages have trust issues?
Unless it is an arranged marriage, it shouldn’t. Financial problems, that’s normal.
He’s quoting Bible verses about how I need to be forgiving.
Will you let him escalate to Bible verses on beating his wife? Or polygamy?
No way.
Leave him now while you’re young enough to find someone else and start over, since
he already did. And leave before he spends more of your money on another woman.