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When can we be succesful, dear brothers and sisters? We are succesful when we stay united, and get rid of nationalism.
And when we stop to care about where anyone comes from!
Do you know how many women contact us, who have problems?
They want to marry a God-fearing man, but the parents refuse it!
It seriously makes you cry!
WHY ???
Be happy if your daughter can marry a God-fearing man!
Be happy if she can marry a God-fearing man who prays and who fasts!
But NO! She MUST marry a syrian man from the town of the parents! Subhanallah!
Akhi, how do you think this can work out? Zina is bound to occur!
WHY? Because we are judging with the wrong norm! Look at these people, they marched all together to Hudaybiyah! And no one said one is moroccan or roman or whatever, it did not matter !!
What does the Prophet Sallallahu aleyhi wa salam say?
He is warning us! So if someone comes with whose religion and character you are pleased, then marry him to your daughter! But not by force!
But look at this rubbish that we see everywhere! Do you know how many forced marriages we have? At least 15%, no joke!
It is a disaster!
All this because of our sick, and unislamic view of nationalism!
Because maybe the neighbour will say: "O the husband of Fatima comes from Somalia and she is turkish!"
What does it have to do with Islam, Akhi?
What does it have to do with Islam that the man is black, or white, or red, or yellow or whatever else?
You can be happy if they live a happy marriage and practice the religion!
Our religion has nothing to do with racism! AND THIS IS RACISM!
THIS IS RACISM !!!
And once I said: "There can be german racists, and turkish racists, and tunisian racists, but there can NEVER be a muslim racist!
Because whoever is muslim and is a racist, has actually thrown away the Quran already!
Akhi how do you want to be a muslim if you know that Allah said ....
and you say no, that isn't true!
Brother, do you know what problems some families have? Just because the woman is from another country?
Sometimes they are even from the same country! But she is from the north and the man comes from the south!
What did you expect? Do you know how many girls make zina? And we do not even need to talk about the men!
It is a disaster! But WHY? Because you force them to it!
They grow up with the desire for a husband or wife, and it is indeed a strong instinct that can make you crazy!
If you are not able to get married!
And if they find somebody to marry, the families close all the doors!
They close every door!
And in our time I even go so far... The people make progress, but in our time that we live, it takes time to have enough money.
And I say that the parents should support the married couple financially!
There is no condition in marriage that you must live with your wife in the same appartment!
And there is no condition in marriage, that the parents are not allowed to support the married couple!
But this is a necessity in our time, because we see that the people cannot marry for financial reasons!
And because they don't have enough money for their own appartment!
And then they are together and meet each other and things will happen, because the temptation is too strong!
That's why you need to help them (financially)!