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First date between a guy and a girl
is about being or not being...
A smart boy!
You see,
it is much easier for the girls
given the fact that they are familiar to receiving all sorts of invitations from the guys.
One more or one less, it’s all the same to them.
You are very right in saying that the girls have become kind of accustomed to this situation
We are equal, too, Kamara,
but only when we are referring to the spare time spent together, to liberty, and I don’t know, to many other things, we must be equal to the girls.
Unfortunately, we are no longer equal when we are referring to the restaurant
because the man has to be the cornerstone, when we are talking about the Christmas presents, if a man doesn’t make any gifts, it’s a total disaster, he is corner kicked
In a way, you are happier, men are sort of selfish,
but I never adventured to approach them, I kept waiting or better said, I preferred to be approached and that was the direction I tended to,
definitely that it is easier for girls when they are chosen, when they are waiting to be seduced,
Please don’t get offended, how old are you?
Haha, how old do you think I am?
If you are thinking about something serious with that girl, if you’ve already spoken to that person before seeing each other for the first time
and you have a base from which you can start the journey, things are different; in case it is just a simple date,
one should be able to make a beautiful speech, unheard of other girls he has dated before, if possible
For the beginning,
the worst move that you could make is to set her on a pedestal
because the only thing left to do it would be that of worshiping her.
When things like this happen, excepting the less cool girls, you’ve already lost the fight.
My opinion is that uncool girls fancy themselves as being even better, that’s the problem
It’s not right to have God knows what expectations from a person or to consider that person very, very special because probably then you will push yourself even harder to impress and
in fact you mess things up.
You can only show her that you like her, that you enjoy spending time with her and in case she perceives this as a deification, it is her problem, it means that she is a limited person,
if you show her that you want to have her company constantly , that you like laughing with her and having fun together
yeah, her company, her firm, everything she has.
her firm, her car, generally? Constantly!
How attractive are you? How do you dress yourself? How is the girl like?
Is she resembling a Swedish supermodel or rather a geek who used to sit in the front school desk?
If she is a Geek, I don’t know, better ask Kamara, I am going to answer to your second question
I don’t know, I didn’t go out with geeks, so I don’t know what to say. A geek? I don’t know the answer either
last week I had a date with that model from Eva, they have in the shop window one, and I dropped by, I greet her every day, it is a very nice girl,
she is bald and I put her a wig, you can make her whatever color you want, red-haired, black-haired, blonde-haired, she is very nice
if you are dating a supermodel, that was it, you can’t have any talk, first of all, you can’t talk very much because things have another valence, so I am not going to date any other supermodel,
of course, that wasn’t my life goal but in case it happens, may God help me!
To not over-exaggerate, to dress yourself with a I don’t know what ,with the brand name at sight, something neither bought from the supermarket nor from the Europa bazaar-Bucharest’s Chinese Marketplace
It matters very much, the image makes you know the person, seriously speaking
But of course that the basis and what you really remain with are the things inside the soul and if you arrive back home and you have a quality company next to you and you feel like in that house there is somebody who loves you and that you love her, too, the image counts less
If there is no love, there is nothing ..what is this?
It is a philosophical idea
It counts a lot what clothes you have on so that you can take them off quickly, in case it is necessarily, my opinion
Yes. And to not get panicked! All is about not getting into panic
You see, my friend, how strange these birds are, these women!
Buddy, you get me frightened with so much culture
They are more stressed because they try harder to leave a good impression, to talk properly, to look good, they put their breast into value with the right bra
and in case you put your hand on the bra, you get fried up, it is that kind of bra about which you can say it is made of sheet iron, you can’t understand what is really happening out there
Take it differently.
On a scale of ten, how much chance do you think I would have to date and make a good impression on a lady like Jessica Alba if I wore clothes bought from the market?
Kamara, would you say no, now really?
Imagine to see her coming one day, coming sad from the tram stop…
If Jessica Alba comes, she can ask me what time it is, how am I doing and other things like that, and she can move farther away because I am done with this
A lot of men dream of Jessica Alba, but perhaps not so many men would afford keeping a Jessica Alba next to them or would know approaching her
or would know keeping next to them a woman that so many want, a woman that is not only beautiful, but also smart and famous and rich
I thought about asking my friend Matthew from London, described by Esquire Magazine as being one of the best-dressed men from U.K. , to give us a few tips and tricks about how we should dress to impress at a first date. Let’s see what he says.
Yes. The soul matters just sometimes
Firstly, you need to pass the visual demonstration, and yes, women cheat.
They make up, they use all the possible and impossible skin creams and perfumes, they fix their hairstyle in the minutest details whereas us,
men, all we can do is to look at them and from only one eyebrow lift say :hmm, what a nice ***!
When you wake up in the morning and there is somebody else sleeping in the same bed with you than the person you went out with in the evening, you can get a shock
Yeah, you can have a shock and therefore you ask her to make up fast so that you can remember why you’ve got to that room
It is very important, we spend half of our life in front of the mirror
moreover when you are also a public person but I am convinced that this happens with most of the girls,
it is the age of the glossy magazines
Yeah, good, it’s good, girl, you are nice, you got talent, your make up is good, it doesn’t rub off, good!
It is nice to have a well-arranged girl and see her, in the morning… it doesn’t matter so much, it matters on how you wake up. Right, Kamara?
if you wake up on the side of the bed that gives access to the window, you can jump faster, you know,
it is important to be at an inferior level,
in case she lives at the sixth or seventh floor that means you are lost, you have to stay with her and have a dialogue with her, right?
Taking all in all, I consider that it is more difficult for them, it is hard to be a girl,
you have to look good constantly, in the morning and in the evening, too
Now take a deep breath of fresh air. You prepare yourself with replies and strategies,
you play the tough guy, the sensible guy, the bad cop, the good cop when in fact, best-laid plans of mice and men oft go astray.
Life, for us...things happen for a reason...even the rain comes with...comes after a specific strategy
You just have to be yourself and if she is going to perceive you as such, things are going to carry on well, if not, and she likes tough guys, it’s her business
Take a good look at me, I am a serious man, I have completely other concerns
The sense of humor is exciting. It keeps problems leashed. Still, she will appreciate if you laugh with her, not beside her
It is very important for not even a day to pass without finding reasons to laugh, but with this cool humor that you are referring to, not laughing about somebody, but rather laughing with somebody, preferably
It is essential to have humor, because first of all, having a sense of humor is a proof of intelligence,
people with humor are generally intelligent people, and we are referring to quality humor, not to rude humor,
it is very important that if you are a fun and cheerful person, to find next to you a person who is the same because otherwise, you laugh like a fool.
Humor works always, at least as far as I am concerned, the humor is fundamental, and indeed it saves many situations.
There are certain persons, not necessarily girlfriends or I don’t know, potential girlfriends, that after analyzing for about three-four minutes a joke, they finally started laughing,
you said the gag, you’ve almost forgotten that you said it or that you made a joke, and you suddenly heard her laughing
Hahaha, calm down a little. Yes...
Of course, you can tell from the beginning if you made a good joke and the girl didn’t understand it, that was it! From that moment, you have to turn serious because things are serious
For those situations in which the date is unsuccessful, girls frame an alarm call before meeting with you
they establish with their best friend a specific hour to call her and under the excuse of “an emergency”, they leave with “some business” in the shortest time.
But I use to do this all the time, not only at dates, it happens, you probably know “the phone battery is low, I have to hang up now”, and this way I can break loose from long talks
The idea of alarm call is a very good one, you know, it makes us both get away, the idea is who makes it first, eventually if we are talking about an alarm call, it is good for both of us
It happened to me to frame this kind of alarm call because I was sure that nothing sensational would happen, and actually that date turned up to be very cool
We’ve done it, we’ve even called ourselves, we’ve acted as if our phone was calling and started talking, “sorry, my phone is ringing and I am going out for a few minutes, I have to take this call”, I think that any man on this Earth has done this at least once in his life, and in case you didn’t do it, that means you’ve lived for nothing, I tell you,
you must do it because it is a beautiful moment
Margaret, Margaret, I simply can’t believe it, I’ve been looking for you for three hours already, I’m desperate, girl!
Unsuccessful dates, I think that she gets it by herself, you can tell from a discussion when you don’t resonate with the person next to you, you can’t find common subjects,
you don’t laugh at the same jokes, you don’t have fun and this can be seen on each other’s face and I think that both of the subjects realize that it wasn’t a successful date
I am so glad that we match each other... and that... we match each other!
I’ve noticed that not only on the first date but generally, girls forget opening their wallet. They have burry wallets, the moment they put their hand in, they fast pull it out,” “very hard, at least that gesture of
They have wireless wallets, let me pay the bill, you know, and this is wireless because it will happen one good day, in the near future,
Yes, generally that is the way things go, at first, some of them have lots of style, “Wait, wait, let me pay the bill, let me, so that you say no, no, no
but their moves are very slow in that moment, and in case they wanted to slap you on the reason you were looking after somebody else,
things would have been totally different but when it comes to paying the bill, things happen like this: wait, hmm, what do I have in the…and until she puts her hand in, you tell her to stay chill because there is no problem, you are going to pick up the check
If you are a semi-Saint eager for enchanting yourself with the forbidden fruit, the secret resides in not telling anything inappropriate.
But you have to pay very close attention to the cat and mouse game. Only then when you will succeed to knock her out, although you are not a dentist, you will manage getting into her trust zone and you are going to obtain a second date.
I consider that it is most important to just be yourself, to do not try to make a sight of yourself nor be somebody else than you really are because at a certain moment, any girl who has some experience in dating or in getting to know people,
she can tell when you are rambling or when you want to be someone you are not, the best thing, also the fairest for you, too, and the simplest is to be yourself, to be that person you are, to be honest
A final conclusion? You see, God gifted you with brain, use it as best as you can in order to get to Heaven, that is to say we all know where.
I have a play named “In Heaven With You”, in your world, I feel like I’m in heaven, You hide a sky In your eyes…” yeah, that play is about hot nights, about a pair of blue eyes.
How can you get to Heaven? With lots of safety! I think that you have to be very sure always about everything that you do most of all in the matter of a relationship with a girl or when you get to know a girl for the first time
Until next time, I think that I’ve made you, too, at least a little “Born Curious”. Kindest regards.
Hello, I am Alexandra Ungureanu and I am “Born Curious”
Hello, I am Kamara . Hello,I am Andrei, we are Alb-Negru. Be “Born Curious”!
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