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This is your life path
right now you are in the present.
You have left your past behind and your future lies ahead of you.
If you ask yourself? How do you want your future to be?
You will easily answer: I DON'T KNOW !
I have no idea.
What i do know is what i don't want to happen.
You would usually know what you like and dislike about your present
and if you think about it you will also realize that what you liked and disliked
about your past.
However it is more than likely that the uncertainty about what you want for your
future will remain.
Usually we're tought from a young age all kinds of knowledge, but we are not tought to
trust ourselves.
Believing in yourself
and having a clear idea of what you want
might be branded by many as arrogance.
So what you have to do is work hard make sacrifices and except your fate.
Daydreaming is a waste of time.
There will always be people to remind you that this is like the story of
the milk maid and her pail.
A rather curious stable that someone must have made up so everyone else would
stop dreaming.
It is a pity, because in fact the way to achieve your goals is to dream of what you want.
To put an expiration date to your dream and then work to achieve it.
You can do very well in the future.
It all depends on what you believe.
The first thing you need to do is to be aware of some simple concepts,
understand them
and implement them.
Let's start with the concept of
comfort zone.
This is the metaphorical area in which you are when you move into an
environment you control. In it things will be familiar and comfortable to you,
weather pleasant or not.
For example to be stuck in traffic everyday,
is to be within your comfort zone, because that's what you know.
Your boss, harping on you in the office belongs to your comfort zone,
because that's what you know.
Having fun or fighting with your partner is your comfort zone,
because that's what you know.
Your habits, your routines, your skills your knowledge, your attitude and your
behavior are also part of your comfort zone.
Around your comfort zone
is your learning zone.
This is the area you leave for in order to expand your world view,
and you do it while learning new languages.
Traveling to unknown countries,
having new experiences,
enriching your points of view.
Modifying your habits, getting to know other cultures or meeting up with
new customers.
This is where we observe, experiment, compare, learn, enjoy.
There are people who are passionate about this and so they regularly
gravitate towards their learning zone.
For others however
it's a scary thing to do
and to avoid it
they will only move within their their comfort zone.
Since leaving it is considered dangerous.
Beyond your learning zone is what we call the panic zone
or no experience zone.
Those do do not want you to move around it are usually the ones
who never grew out of their comfort zone
who say it is the area who are really really serious things can happen
inflated sinister
beyond it
the world and don't pull out it will be terrible what if something goes wrong
robot what if i get it way
the latter is only said by those who believe that this area is actually uh...
magic to soar
variance with the wonderful things can happen to use
businesses still don't know
because you haven't been there
it's not
dave challenges so
some people believe that if they go to the magic soemthing can't turn back but
your conference on disappears
this is not true
leaving means to broaden your comfort and learning zones change does not mean
to lose what you had
it means that you head
changed is
actually development
this might seem as being afraid of the unknown
but it is actually being afraid to lose
to use what you have or even worse losing who you are
next you have to consider the emotional tension
and the creative tension
the local leaders to opposing forces
the first pulling you into your comfort zone
and the second
making new movie outwards
to be able to move forward you will have to get your motivation to emerge
victorious against your fears
don't have time for has no intention especially on the fear is caused by
leaving the comfort zone
fear of what will the people said fruit for you
fear of ridicule and shame
you will have to recognize and deal with them
are you wondering how you can do it
believe in yourself you're the star of your own life
whatever you don't decide others will decide it for you
by properly managing your fears your self-esteem will grow
and this will give you a new opportunity filled vision of reality
you would then be able to better choose your objective
to have a clear idea of your dream to find out what
that motivates you
afterwards you will compare your point of departure with your destination
annual easily feel as if shrinkage
it is perfectly all right
you will become aware of what you need to learn
it will be useful to record their origins
your values your principles and to reflect on your personal mission in life
to help keep the creative tension
and not to give in to the emotional tension
you want to think about your personal vision
what is beyond that dream
what do you want to be children four
as soon as you transform your limiting prejudices
trusting yourself and your dream and understand why and what you're doing it
for
the timeless come for you to take action and leave behind your comfort zone
you will experience the joy of learning to pursue your dream
you may initially field hardly competent and phone ripples and think that it's
risky
it's okay
you don't know everything
for you or human after all
you're learning
congradulations
moving forward towards your dream
what you need to begin recovering your sense of competence
is to return to your comfort zone
personal resources you certainly have
and that being in a hurry
take whatever necessary
but the patient with your train
confident in europe go
have your strategy will prepare
the persevering and positive and sooner than you think jordan dream will come
true
well
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