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The goal of any relationship is to enter it as an individual to maintain your individuality
and to know that that your purpose is to contribute to the overall growth and success of that
relationship. A relationship is actually 3 entities you know its 2 people and the relationship.
But there is lot of confusion around relationship because a usually means to most people becoming
one person and in that blazing is is a loss of self and loss of independence. Its really
important that we stay true to who and what we are. The problem with maintaining independence
is that sometimes they could put somebody else on the defensive. They feel like we are
living them out of certain things so that they are not wants it in certain things and
that could it be further from the truth. You know independence is all about keeping your
promises to yourself, its knowing what you need to do to be a highly functional emotionally
matured person. And that means doing your bells once a week or casually a girls branch
or taking a dance class or taking a bubble bath or going to the bar you know with the
guys to watch the game whatever the this stereotype allows for. Its about knowing that no matter
who are in relation with you in with yourself and you can't betray yourself to make relationship
work. No relationship should required you to sacrifice who you are as an individual
for the overall strength of a relationship that's must sacrifice could only leads to
dis-function in a relationship and its ultimate demise.