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Today on the show, Mat Boggs "cracks the man code"
and reveals to us some invaluable information for ladies who are looking for their
"Mr Right." So stay tuned!
Hi I'm Natalie Ledwell and this is the Inspiration Show.
Today i have a special guest back with me again
His name is Mat Boggs. How are you Mat? [Mat says he's doing great]
Now the reason I brought Mat back here is because he has an amazing product
called
"Cracking the Man Code"
uh... now this is fantastic for
all of the ladies out there
who are looking for your partner!
And you may be dating for a bit, but you just can't seem to find that guy, that Mr. Right.
And Mat, you've actually gone through and as a result of some of your
background
you've seen how now they can actually scientifically explain to us
how men work!
Mat: Absolutely. Yes.
Natalie: Now can you explain to us a little bit about the program and how you know about relationships, and the back-end behind it
Mat: Sure. Cracking the Man Code really came out of... I was speaking all around the country on
what makes love last, and love principles.
And soooo many women came to me and said,
"Look, I have my business in order...
I'm mid-thirties or in four days are gone fifties and everything in my life
is set except i cannot
where is he is behind surrounding risk at all
and should happen right now
and it was so funny because
usually these type of women had something in common and i was
thinking to myself you know i know where your man is
and he is running in the opposite direction
from you
and there's something very simple about how men are wired up
andy
ultimately comes down to understanding increasing our wins
because men and women are completely
different from one another somehow we got the traction
how we fell in love
the how we want to go through the day process
and my background is biology
other pre med background
and so i spent the last two years researching
how men are wired up and how we wanna follow my band and also interviewing men
pretty and as i began to uh... to go through this journey research i think
the size and i had the blessing of also being able to study with some of it
the best relationship there some planet
and all of these patterns kept
popping up in on my gosh this is so
incredible so fascinating some
that's what i put together as far as crack man played in helping women really
connect
build attraction deep in that connection with men
so what do you think is the number one reason why men and women are not getting
together
perspective
because
men we're seeing life
the remains boring
we don't actually see with our eyes we see through our eyes and it's all wired
up
in our brains to worsen life through a man's brain you're saying life
their woman's brain
and the only time that men and women are the same there is a time
when i had the same
the only time with the same answers the question why do men have nipples
rebuttal abhilash completely affleck the reason that i have no bills is because
from conception wins bradley's the egg
to eight weeks of jest asian just during that period of time
all human beings start developing as women
and then i think we suggest a shin if you're a man you get a giant shot me
of testosterone
sending you into left field
and then from then on top of the game has changed
and so we can go into a little bit deeper about how this is wired up but
i want to live
make sure that you need to ask questions that any of them
and that he's getting
many women tend to think differently
with absolutely think differently
but i know that i believe my has a meeting night the fifteen years they
have an amazing marriage uh... but i'll have to really sometimes talking equal
you know what when you see that i know that you don't mean to upset me that
when you say that you not it's like you know *** save has that will let
y_o_y_o_ a demand thing so different types of cigars out we also have get
triggered by different hormones antibiotics elements in
there i'm gonna give you the basics i'm gonna give you sir generalities as they
say men are like ice cream
we all not to the center of cerebral freeze at the same time sir
but they're all different kinds of flavors
nine mandated some rocky road to some vanilla ice cream he's correct
democratic there's also has a different kind of letters so they're always gonna
be exceptions to these rules is no that isn't giving in its principles and try
to look for how it does apply
one of the man's feel-good chemicals
is called dopamine
dopamine like this out ladies you have dopamine as well as just plays out a
little bit differently
dopamine
helps us feel a lot of it helps us few fulfil
things that triggered opening are
competition
accomplishments are achieving goals
efficiency
getting to the point
quicker in a conversation or getting to the restaurant faster anytime we do a
shortcut or do something more efficient
being trying to save as much energy as possible
traders are dopamine
um... i was a competition
uh...
product immediate even go through the whole list of dr
where a woman's
feel-good chemical
is called octopus
popsicles and gets triggered
simply by talking
simply what you're talking in terms of the box does it also connection working
together with someone
collaboration
sell because of that
on average
there's research that shows that women will speak twenty thousand words again
were men will speak seven thousand went today
so let's say you've all had your day
anti-bill
gone to work you've spoken at seven thousand words and then you come home
was a woman you have thirteen thousand words development
few question does carping at nine hotel you articulate arms and because of those
oftentimes
because men speak such few words
we pay very close attention to the definition of the word that we use in an
arguments this comes out here it's true
the definitions of the words this is why i often in an argument or woman will
archer
words like
always and never
and you always do this and you never knew this and oftentimes an argument
the star arguing about pleads in the argument where he'll try to pick apart
your words he says
i don't always
you know be the dishes in the same advice migration once this week a you
know i felt like that
failure and so for a man to understand
that women
communicate
the in motion
behind the words they're communicating the emotion of the message
rather than that the actual words itself so met from and to give grace
in that and not to lock on the words like always never can really help
during arguments and help us connect in actually get to try call that they'll
look at what were emotional ising
when you're arguing
try to understand what the person is emotional ising rather the community
you know what are they what are they really feeling what is it that they've
really needed one moment
ina and like i said i have a lot of enough friends that a single hearing
there may seem accomplished
powerful women right
iris exceed the settlement so that i could find questioning of the tiny has
this plan
practical the remarkable *** project
and dot his something that i need it meant to get off you know and
communicate in into to network must monitor the thing
uh... and he has been questioned why i thought the minimum amount printed
handout mind sound i'd like to get your feedback on these
women have gotten to be women and got into the matter
for the rest in traditional role they they think it had been the lines of got
leading him anything about that
i think you're right on
writing for a long time i'd actually didn't know
how to be a masculine
see inside in this comes back to the law of polarity
as we call it the masculine and feminine energy
attract one another
an actual news i have a lot to do with man or woman because i have more
masculine and feminine and urging me
you have masculine and feminine energy you so do you have
and we get to choose
which mode we wanna live from based on what it is we want to accomplish
and so but i understand that masculine energy and feminine energy attract one
another to some of these women were coming up to me
we're so masculine and thereby because they spend
so much of their life
in the masculine space now what is masculine space
achieving goals
pursuing
right being efficient getting to the bottom line
hot competition accomplishment
the entrepreneurial studies
the corporate world and all of that is
highly
masculine
so if you're swimming
in that energy every single day
if you're successful woman you probably are
than it is very if you have it
been given the awareness how to switch to your feminine energy
then you're probably radiating masculine energy
and a very strong after the management of the repelled by that name
and even like he has some women like no one fifteen female age time
lecithin denied starlight that summer paycheck hiding brightly-colored
recommends mentioned right inexact accepts and i could start up after that
i don't know how to be that masculine man
had very powerful women
in my in my life and so i sort of learn from them and sold my wife
here's here's the key as you step into your feminine
which i think
make no mistake feminine does not mean passive submissive or week some time in
admit it means giving away you annie g and who you want your power actually is
very powerful energy
so as you step in your family you will call your man into his masculine
on the second day with my wife and we've gone secondary
i was used to dating very strong powerful women who were the masculine
who are leaving on the school of that
but after a while
the attraction would deflate
because i'm actually a masculine guy and that's my zone a genius i loved being
there
second date
pick up my girlfriend to go out
and she's and so she gets in the card by putting a car with the dynamics up where
you want to go
and she goes
we mean
but you have a plan island arctic anyway what about that i was
for happy to serve in the letter right there
and she was like
lunches to someplace you want to go
and i thought my entire nervous system start uh...
short-circuit you know
and here's what you might not understand about men
we are so what taxed
to do we have a ring
happiness
to you were so attached to providing something for you
that makes a difference in your life that that that makes you happy
that ourself workmen are selfesteem is attached to your response to that
so i didn't would you need to know is men who are hesitant about leaving
are hesitant about
not making you happy
so i wanted to do something that she loves saw that you pick all deliver
anything you want
and she said no
you need to decide we're going you're the man
on the then
and it hurt
into this and that which is why i
i said
just help me out give me a hit here is that while at the time and i like sushi
intuitive is great sushi place
and from then on it felts
i can tell you
the attraction at the end of that dinner when she hugged me and she said
thank you for dinner
was what i significantly higher
that she had taken place
and then i just gave her why she wanted white because there's risk
vigorous stimulates
everything
that dopamine and all sorts of other things in there
if anything to you and i think that um... a lot of respect as so
completed like so closely related that you cannot
had live unless you respect someone
and died and i know it all my previous relationships people playing uh...
highways went out with herewith with really nice and sweet u_s_ dies capital
i would have never thought that he started with a white decisionmakers they
went you know they didn't have the bulls did take united taken not right
uh... and a closing up at the bank miami replanting make claims saying anything
on offer unique not team and they say they can live with me in a respecting
into the other day they buried departments
there are things that you know that that's the men's department
my class you know you know what we have a very successful business when i backed
by major roles in this business
but when it comes to traditionally things like the cleaning or washing in
the cookie ninety ought i'd look after that nothing to do it it's my
responsibility to make sure it's done for keeping enhancing their and i think
and so knowing what those rules are and knowing where you live in where you
receive
you know i have not my sister for example very powerful onto the you're a
woman
is so elegant in her femininity in her relationship
you know it so knowing so
here's something that you can do right away that will in automatically increase
your feminine energy
and it's joyful receptivity
oh creative space
for your mentally
for him to make this is a friend to provide something to you
and then appreciate him
one of the dangers mistakes
in the courting fade so when you just building the attraction you're getting
to know one another
when the mistakes op women make oftentimes is they amid the we see
something from them and they'll appreciate him and they'll turn around
and give him something
even share
yeah idaho go here in your like ohh that's nice to have did david biggs
bailout it so we don't get that cataract craic
and he has been greatly appreciated we like it
but oftentimes men will take that as competition
not contribution because when i would think that okay i need to do something
bigger than this now rather than just having you be so appreciative and thank
you so much in
what i call here outside your man
make us feel like the hero in you know i didn't allow that
at living
a case i'm gonna i'm gonna ask you one more question and it for all of my
girlfriends at their hercules king very closely
that what is the number one thing that women can do right now they're looking
for my with one thing they could do to help
equals and to attack the department and the people
it's called
being present
my and not future ising and this is going to be one of the hardest things
especially if you're the age where your clock is ticking
you know you have a short amount of time before you can have
babies or get you know you need to get married now i'm behind schedule all of
that
the challenges that your
radiating the energy all the time even if you don't say that
men can feel it
and then have a different men have a different
timing calling on the obviously different time and women view so you
control the *** pacing the relationship here's where your powers
you control the *** pace meaning you could you tell him no intel were certain
level of of commitment in the relationship
he gets to control the motion or pay for the relationship
what i mean by that is
jori motion of center in your brain is eight times the size at his
so that means that you can get down the emotional track of the relationship much
further than he can there lor brazilian wrote a book on the female brain and the
male brain and she said it's like a woman has it
in eight lane superhighway of emotion
contrary a man has a two-track wagon wheel trail knows what he's trying to
catch up
we try to catch up down this relationship missing you get further
down the relation you know how you feel about it sometime a long time
the sometimes you know and you'll take it personally if he doesn't know
what he wants
it's a women will put pressure on a man before he understands what it is worth
he needs time to catch up so you control the *** pace who may have twenty
times more testosterone which is our sex drive
so you can fill the *** based he controls the emotional case don't future
eyes mini you on your first day and all this and you see
the client and they're all there
in the present moment your job is discovery
is this man
them and i want to be with for the rest of my life
and if he is
then state president and be with him it doesn't mean you can ask him what his
visions are but to be able to ask him what he wants in an unattached away
verses in attach way is the main difference from what scares manoff
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