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Hey, what's going on? This is Tripp from TrippAdvice.com and today we have a very, very special guest.
This is Kimberly Seltzer from EliteImageMakeovers.com. She is a dating and makeover expert, and we're
starting off an amazing five part series and we're talking about fashion and male fashion
advice. So for the first video, we're talking about something very special and she told
me it's one of the most important. It's finding a personal style, and in this series, we're
actually going to be doing a makeover on me and helping me find my personal style and
make me look good, so you guys have learn how to do it also. So Kimberly, welcome. Thank
you. Well first of all, you already look good. I just want to say that. Stop it. Just stop
it. But we're just fine tuning. I am so happy that we're doing this, especially for guys,
and I work with both men and women, by the way, but for guys, I find that there's no
real place for them to get this kind of information, yet it's so important. And it's not like on
a Sunday afternoon, you guys are going to sit around and talk about the latest sales
at Nordstrom's. So here we are. You're probably Googling it and that's what guys do, and YouTubing
it and so hopefully we'll give you guys some great information. And so personal style,
and what I want to say about this and keeping in mind being focused on what women like,
because I'm a woman first of all, and I work with women, the number one thing they tell
me is that they love a guy who is put together and they look like they care. See, the thing
is when you see somebody who's well dressed, we women go kind of nuts this way. We make
up stories in our head and we're like, "Oh my God, if a guy is dressed well, he can be
a good provider. And if he's a good provider, maybe he can be a good dad, and if he's a
good dad," and this can go on and on in our heads. And this is happening from the way
you're dressed and what you have on? Just the way you're dressed. Here's something.
That's powerful. No, it's really powerful and think of this. It takes only 30 seconds
to make a first impression. That's all you've got. And 55 percent of impressions are based
on your looks. Personal style is really cool because it's something that's unique to you.
There's a difference between fashion and style, and I want to talk about that for a second.
Fashion is something that's trending. The latest trends that kind of come and go. Style
is something that stays over time and it's specific to you. So your style is actually
telling a story about who you are in the world. So we should be crafting a thing, as men,
we should be crafting more of a style. Is that what you're saying? Exactly, because
then it kind of just tells you who you are in the world. And sometimes, people's style
is vastly different from who they are as a person, so you have to look at that. Are you
conveying the right message, so to speak, with what you're wearing? I want to find something
that's just a little more funky, gives a little more edge, because I think that can give you
a little more of a uniqueness to you because you're a good looking guy, everybody knows
you as who you are, and it's not changing who you are, it's just something that's more
specific. So are you saying that guys who are watching this video, they should be thinking
like what kind of celebrities should they be thinking about, what kind of styles should
they be thinking about, what do they see that they like to start to get an idea of how they
want to dress? Exactly and that's the reason why, it's kind of like when you're in the
market for getting a new car. A lot of times when you're not buying a new car, you don't
notice them on the road as much, but then when you're starting to want to purchase one,
you see them on the road all the time. You find something that you like and then you
notice it. I want you guys to start doing that with clothes. I know that sounds kind
of corny... No that's good... But start looking at people that you admire. Start window shopping.
Guys all are about efficiency and being effective. The two E's. The double E's. So usually once
you know all the components that I'm going to teach you, you'll be able to shop really
fast, really efficiently and you'll be effective with the ladies. Awesome. Okay, so to wrap
this up, let me do a quick summary to see if I understand this. So the first tip here
is to really figure out what kind of style you want. Ways to do that? You can go on Pinterest,
go on the Internet, go through magazines, think about the types of celebrities that
you want to emulate. Try to figure out what is the style that you like. What do you think
is attractive?What do you want to look for? And then that starts to prepare your mindset
a little bit so you can start to think about what you can start shopping for, and then
that also starts putting in your mind, you're more aware of it so you start to see it all
over the place and that gives you more ideas. So basically, it's about filling up your mind
with initial ideas to start this whole process of dressing sexier. Yes, exactly. Did I nail
it? You nailed it. A plus? A plus. Awesome. So stay tuned for the next video. We're going
to go into way more specifics. This is Tripp from TrippAdvice.com. Don't forget, way more
videos coming to you. All you've got to do is press subscribe. I'll probably put a little
image right here. You can click it. I'll write click it right here. Click. And there's more
information from Kimberly to help you dress sexier. Check out her website. All the information
to find her is in the description box below. I'll see you guys on
the next video.