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PrimalFlirting.com Get her caught in your web!
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What
is Date? Episode 3
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What is a Date?
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They
ask me: What do I do as a date?
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Movies ≠ Good Dates
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If
you gonna do a movie on a first date you gonna say please come out with me I want to be close
enough to touch you to play with your hand or maybe your leg.
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I
want to be connected with you in some way but I have nothing inside me.
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I
have no idea what I'm going to say to you.
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You gotta have content in any stage.
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Even
Mum wants content.
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Every women in the history of the planet wants content
from every man they exchange with.
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She wants content.
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What
are you going to do for content?
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A movie means somebody else will do the work
and I just setback afterwards and get lucky. Forget it!
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What
is a content? What is a date?
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A Date is contact with her Limbic Brain
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Remember
that part of her brain that has no communication skills?
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So,
if you find her on the side of the road and her tire is flat.
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Changing
the tire for ten minutes is a date.
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Socializing and engaging.
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Walking
past the water cooler at work and spending three minutes tapping up the water, engaging
and pour her a glass, smiling and letting her go back to her desk.
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Let
me tell you something, that's a date.
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She will blog that. She will talk about that.
She will connect with that. She will walk away and going huh diary, I didn't really
speak to much to her today but…
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We had a Moment.
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A
date to a woman is a moment.
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Where is your moment? What is going on the interaction
between the two of you that is a moment. She walks pass your desk. You are having a chat
with your boss, everyone is looking up, and you're talking to the big boss of the company.
The person everyone looks up to and scared of and when you are talking to him, angling
on him while trying to get a promotion, everyone's watching you ignore him completely…
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You
look at her and you give her this cheeky little smile: I am just taking a moment to say hello
to you.
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And you go back to this important moment with
the boss.
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She says: Oh my God! He still smiled at me!
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She
will talk about that for a month.
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Was that a date? Was that a dinner?…
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They
can be dates!
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Coz they can touch her limbic brain.
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Any
moment in time when you get the chance to do that.
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That's
a date.
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What is the next date for you?
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The
next date for you is not a chance to engage with her in some social setting.
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It
is a chance with you to engage with her:
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Part of her that FEELS
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Sometimes
it's the time when you protect her or defend her…
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It is
that moment when she says: Ahhh sooooo sweet!
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No guy in
the history of the planet that wants to be called sweet.
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But
it is a moment and she connects.
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She feels:
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He was
there for ME!
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So you need to create moments in the interaction
with her as often as you can or is about being engage with that part of her that has no communication
skills.
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And as we develop in Primal Flirting, we get tips
that will work for that way.
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We will let you explore how you do that.
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"Journey
to Pancake Day" Get it at www.primalflirting.com
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Next Week "Between Dates"
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How
do you engage with her when you don't know how to communicate?
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Until
then, I'm Chisel. Have fun.
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PrimalFlirting.com Ge her caught in your web!