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Hi
So, I would like to talk about something
very important on
what I am ? Am I a father or a mother
Because it's weird for many people
and I got asked lot of times
"What are you?" "What you consider yourself ?"
Are you a mother for your child or a father
and of course I had so many nasty comments about that
from people who don't understand
so... what I am ?
a mother or a father. I'll make it short. I'm a parent.
you know, there's no gender in that
I'm a parent, and I try to be a good parent for my child.
and that's all, in the end
that's what's important in the end
my relationship with my daughter
so, yeah, I try to be a good
parent and, even
if I was to educate my child, I don't like this term
but, if I was to educate my child, gender has nothing to do with it
You're not educating a child differently because you're a mother or a father
you're educating your child because you're a parent.
and yeah and that's all ... Of course
society needs labels, society needs
this binary code, like, mother of father
you cannot be both, you need to choose
and of course
if I was to choose today, I wouldn't choose
I would let my child choose. And at first,
before my transition, when she asked me questions
and I had to tell her about my transition, well,
I told her that I will be
her dad whatever form I'll have
and that was important for her because I needed to
reassure her that I'll be there for her
that I won't leave and I won't be so different
I'll be there for her. That's all.
... and in time
by her own she decided to..
she told me, I cannot call you dad anymore, it's so weird
she saw the changes
and even for her it was weird, so I'm
her second mother, now - for her - and I never told her
that... you know, it came naturally
and I'm okay with that, but,
for me, my role is to be a good
parent not something else so I don't care about the gender
and I don't care about the labels and all this stuff
what's important for me is her to be happy and to protect her
and to be there for her and to have a deep connection with her
and that's what's important to me, so
yeah, I'm whatever she likes to
and for the society, I'm her second mother
because ... it's obvious
for them ... so it's okay
I don't judge people I don't even
care if someone finds this weird
I don't care. What's important is my relationship with ger
... my family
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