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Hey there, this is you buddy Clay here with Relationship Inner Game dot com.
And today I have a question about does the no contact rule work?
And before I can answer that, it really depends on what you're
trying to accomplish with the No Contact Rule.
There are really two reasons why somebody would want to
use the No Contact Rule.
The first is to try to get their ex to contact them.
Maybe their going through a breakup and their ex just
won't return their phone calls or something like that,
and they want to use the No Contact Rule to get their
ex to contact them.
And the second reason is to help them heal from the pain
of the breakup and to get their emotions under control.
First of all, I just want to say that if you want to
get your ex to contact you, the No Contact Rule can work,
but it's not guaranteed to work 100% of the time.
If your ex has decided and their just hell bent to move on
and just forget about you, then no amount of No Contact
is going to get them to contact you.
However, that doesn't mean that you can't get your ex back
and that doesn't mean that you can't save your relationship.
If you want to do that, you should use the No Contact Rule
for the second reason, which is to help you heal your emotional wounds
from the breakup and help you get your emotions under control
so that you can move forward with a proven plan and get them back.
Because if you don't get your emotions under control before you
implement the plan or strategy or whatever it may be, you are
going to have a lot of emotional problems that come up and send you
in all sorts of different, over reacting, over analyzing,
acting irrationally, and so on and so forth.
So, yes, the No Contact Rule can work to help you get your ex back,
but it really depends on what your over all motive for using the No Contact Rule is.
Thank you.
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