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Let's talk about how to prepare for the hearing and about some things to remember when in court.
To prepare for presenting your case, go over the main issues about your case before you get to court.
Think about what you're going to say. You may make some notes, have some documents available to help you remember things that are important.
The time has now come for your case to be heard. The judge says "Number five on our calendar, the marriage of Warren, if both parties would please step forward to counsel table."
Go through the swing gate in the bar and take a seat at one of the tables in the courtroom at the front of the room.
There are two parties in a court case. The person who started the court action is called the petitioner. If you are the petitioner, you should sit at the table marked "Petitioner."
If the other party started the case, you are the respondent, and will sit at the table marked "Respondent."
[Narrator] If the tables are not marked, you can ask the bailiff or judge where to sit.
The person who first filed the papers asking for this hearing is the "moving party." That person will speak first. We will assume that you are the party who asked for this hearing.
[Narrator] You may ask the judge if the judge minds if you stand or sit when you speak, whichever you are most comfortable doing.
[Narrator] When it is your turn to speak, speak in a clear, calm voice that is loud enough to be heard by the judge on the bench.
[Narrator] Tell the judge what the issues are. Tell the judge what agreements you have made with the other party and what you and the other party still disagree about.
[Narrator] Be prepared to suggest solutions to the court on the issues that you and the other party cannot agree upon.
[Narrator] Stick to the facts. If you need to have the judge look at any paperwork or something you have brought to court, give what you have to the bailiff and the bailiff will hand it to the judge.
You must not directly hand anything to the jduge.
Always remember: the judge may not know all the facts.
It is your job to tell your story to the judge as precisely and clearly as possible. The best idea is: stick to the facts contained in your written declaration.
[Narrator] Speak directly to the judge. This is really important. Do not direct your comments to the other party or argue with the other party.
Remember to follow the formalities of the court. It is customary to address the judge as "your honor," which is a sign of respect for the court.
Also, the judge cannot speak to you about your case except in court or when the other party is present. That's the law.