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Guys, we're going to talk about dating older women. So maybe you have that little cougar
fetish going on. Go for it, absolutely. Just know what you're getting into.
So, you know, it depends on kind of how old you are and how old she is. If you're dating
somebody, you know, 15 years older and you're in your 40's you know, you need to realize
that you guys are at two different places in your life. She might not be looking for
anything serious, maybe she is. But it's all about setting up your expectations. So, most
of the times, and this is a complete generalization so feel free to ignore me but, you guys are
in two different places. She's probably not interested in anything serious, and most of
the time when women date considerably younger men, they're kind of looking for one thing,
and if that's what you're into, absolutely go for it. It can be a very educational experience.
If a 45 year old woman wants to date a 25 year old guy, you know, she's probably looking
to just, you know, get her rocks off and have a good time. And if, you know, they're both
consenting adults and they want to have a good time, and you know, they had a couple
too many martinis at the bar, do what you got to do. But don't expect to have a long
term relationship because it typically doesn't happen when there's such a big difference.
Especially if you guys have different goals.
At 45 a woman is you know, kind of in her career path and, you know, might be done with
the children part of her life, and at 25 you might be in a completely different situation.
So just be honest with yourself and be honest with her, and then go have some fun.