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Hi this is Tara Marino with ElegantFemme.com. Are you feeling behind? Are feeling behind
today, maybe you felt behind yesterday? You know what Iím talking about. You know there
are so many women that I speak to in a daily basis that say this to me, they say ñ Tara
I feel behind. I feel like Iím never going to catch up. I feel like no matter what I
do Iím never going to get there. And this is so common for us as women. I mean really
ñ look at the media, look at everything we are surrounded with, the amount of pressure
that we have as women. We always feel like we are trying to catch up. We always feel
that pressure that weíre almost there but weíre not quite there yet, right? So we always
find ourselves rushing and trying to get into the next thing.
Today Iím going to be sharing with you my three steps to what to do when you are feeling
behind so that you can move out of that space and more easily towards what it is youíre
really wanting, towards your vision. Okay? So I want to share with you just right away,
letís get right into it right? What are the three steps?
So this is what we typically do when we are feeling behind, we ran to catch up; we are
feeling behind, weíre feeling overwhelmed; weíre feeling like weíre never going to
make it so we ran to catch up. We look at what everybody else is doing and we figure
out, oh my gosh, how can I quickly move myself forward to where everybody else is?
The first step that I want to tell you might sound counter-intuitive, youíre going to
feel, youíre probably going to question me on this at first. I want you to be with me
for a minute. The first thing that I want you to do when youíre feeling behind is I
want you to stop. Thatís right; I said I want you to stop. Now that might sound counter-intuitive.
You might be saying, well Tara if Iím feeling left behind I better move my butt and gear
and try to catch up as quickly as possible. No ñ thatís not the case. What happens when
we do that? What happens when we run and try to catch up? We typically donít know where
weíre going and more importantly we donít even know why weíre going there. Weíre just
trying to catch up with everybody else. So step 1 is I want you to actually stop. I want
you to stop. Right? Step 2, I want you to figure out if youíre
running your race or somebody else. Now what do I mean by that? A very, very dear friend
once said to me, Tara run your own race; and it took so much pressure off with me trying
to catch up with where everybody else was going and feeling like I was left behind.
And I started to think about, wait a minute, Am I running my own race or am I trying to
run somebody else race? So step 2 is I want you to figure out, are you running your own
race or are you trying to run somebody else race? And in step 2, that gives you an opportunity
to reconnect with your vision. Okay? So are you running your own race or somebody else
race and reconnect with your vision. Thatís step 2.
Step 3 is I want you to look for a shortcut. This is something that Iíve become very well
known for and something that I absolutely adore. I want to allow myself and every single
woman I work with to achieve their desires in the most elegant, easy way possible in
the shortest amount of time. Meaning that, we donít rush there, we donít push there,
we donít try to get there as quickly as possible ñ we want it to happen naturally by taking
shortcuts. Okay? So let me give you an example. Say that you
are trying to create $5,000. a month and youíre feeling left behind. You see everybody else
doing it, and you see what everybody else is doing and youíre trying to catch up, youíre
trying to do whatever theyíre doing, program, whatever they might be doing, youíre feeling
left behind like when am I ever get there? Step 1 ñ stop. Stop trying to catch up.
Step 2 ñ Ask yourself, am I running my own race or somebody else? Reconnect with your
vision in step 2. Ask yourself why it was you wanted to create $5,000. a month? Was
it because you wanted a family vacation, was it because you wanted to share something special,
was it because you wanted to contribute to the income in a new way ñ why did you want
to create $5,000.? Reconnect with your vision. Itís very, very important. If you donít
do this, youíre going to find yourself continually chasing. Okay? So step 2, are you running
your own race or somebody else and reconnect with your vision.
Step 3 ñ I want you to look for a short cut though I want you to look for a shortcut that
would actually really serve you and your vision. When you pick yourself up from the plan and
you stop running and following everybody else, you reconnect with your vision and thatís
when, when youíre looking up and above and you can find the shortcuts. Maybe there is
an easier, more elegant, more authentic way for you to create $5,000. in income. Okay?
Maybe there is something else that you could be doing or should be doing thatís more in
line with your values and your truth that would bring the money easier and more elegantly.
I will tell you a little secret. This is how I create all of my programs. I make sure that
I am doing exactly what it is I want to be doing and thatís how I allow myself to receive
the income that I want to receive easily and elegantly and itís much shorter than what
most people would imagine. So thatís one of my little side secrets. So step 3 is to
look for a shortcut. So the next time youíre feeling behind, the
next time youíre feeling overwhelmed and wondering why youíre not where everybody
else is, youíre wondering how youíre ever going to catch up ñ I want you to follow
these 3 steps. I want you to stop. I want you to ask yourself, am I running my race
or somebody elseís race and I want you to look for a shortcut.
Now a shortcut doesnít mean cheating, it doesnít mean cutting to the end of the line
and pushing everybody else away. It means you allowing yourself to get to where you
wanted to go in the most easy, elegant way without the sacrifice. Thatís what Iím all
about and thatís what I want for you. I want you as a woman to be able to achieve your
desires without having to sacrifice any piece of who you are. Alright?
So this is what I want you to do when youíre feeling behind. Iíd also want you to leave
a comment below. What do you do when youíre feeling behind? Iíd love for you to share.
We have so many experts around the world that are part of the Elegant Femme community and
so many of you are having huge successes. Every single one of us at some point in our
life has felt like weíre behind so share with us, what is it that you do when youíre
feeling behind. Iíd love to hear from you. Bye bye.
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