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Having
a child and building a family
with my husband
has really brought us as a couple
closer than I could ever imagine that we would be.
We had an amazing relationship before but now it's
even better than it was before. It was tough.
We both definitely wanted kids; we talked about
starting a family
together.
So it was....discouraging.
There's
nothing we wanted more than to
have our family and just
to have a baby.
It was really tough.
Very tough for her
and also really tough for me seeing her go through
there was nothing that I could do to help her.
It was sort of helplessness.
It was tough for both of us but I couldn't do anything to make it better.
As I see my husband with
my son it
makes me love him
even more than I loved him before.
It's enhanced the quality of my relationship with Lisa.
It's improved .. it was already wonderful when I saw her but
announcing you're an even better wife
uh... because I see what a wonderful
mother she is that's one of one of the launches
and I suppose on some level I knew
that she would be a wonderful mother. I don't know ... but..
it's absolutely amazing to see her
be such a good mom.
Even during that process my husband and I spoke and said what what if the IVF
doesn't work, what are we going to do?
So even though
if the IVFs didn't work him and I had a backup plan that we wanted to proceed with, which
would be adoption. So fertility questions prompted a Plan A and a Plan B.
I had to comfort her best I could in everything I did. I made sure the dinner was done,
trying to do dishes, her body was changing
because of the medication she was on not just because she was trying to become
pregnant
but just because of the
doses and calling the doctors and making sure I was right there.
The relationship with Stacey has grown.
I feel
we're complete.
I mean,
I couldn't ask for anything else.
In order to make myself happy
I have my husband who I love, I have my son who I love,
just seeing him smile
whether you are having a bad day or whatever
just makes it
perfect. When you wake up on the wrong side of the bed and you see him, you are putting a smile on your face.
you go up and see him you put a smile on your face happy