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As-Salāmu ‘alaykum wa raḥmatu Llāhi wa barakātuh.
A‘ūdhu biLlāhi mina sh-shayṭāni r-rajīm. Bismi Llāhi r-Raḥmāni r-Raḥīm.
Aṣ-ṣalātu wa s-Salāmu ‘alá Rasūlinā Muḥammadin Sayyidi l-awwalīn
wa l-ākhirīn. Madad yā Rasūla Llāh, madad yā Sādāti Aṣḥābi Rasūli Llāh,
madad yā Mashāyikhinā, dastūr yā Shaykh ‘Abdu Llāh al-Fā’iz ad-Dāghistānī,
Shaykh Muḥammad Nāẓim al-Ḥaqqānī. Madad.
Ṭarīqatunā ṣ-ṣuḥbah wa l-khayru fi l-jam‘iyyah.
The foundation of
the religion of Islam is cleanliness.
When you open the first page
of fiqh, it shows cleanliness.
If not clean, the worship is not accepted.
What is it a sign to? It is a sign to that
the religion of Islām is a clean religion.
Everything should be clean to be good.
When it is clean, it is nice and beautiful.
Islām starts
with cleanliness and
everything; every relation,
every obligation is based
on the cleanliness.
Allāh ﷻ gives us
the best things.
Take from them. No need to look
for other things.
Don't deal with dirtiness.
Don't deal with filth, says Allāh 'Azza wa Jalla.
"I ﷻ am giving you good and
nice things. Do them."
One of them which is most important
and that Muslims
should guard the most
is the matter of marriage.
The matter of marriage
is important.
In old times, there was not
such openness and freedom
like people have in this time.
A family would go and ask a girl for their son.
They would marry and cover up.
There was no other option to look for.
They married and were satisfied,
dealt with their children and brought their rizq.
They lived in a nice way.
Our Prophet ﷺ says the marriage is the half of religion.
It is an important thing.
And now in this time
there is no such a thing
that a family asks someone
for their son and he accepts her.
And when they get married,
everywhere is open, so they find someone else.
Then he leaves her or something else happens.
Therefore, this matter of marriage is important.
Allāh 'Azza wa Jalla says good ones will be with good ones.
It is āyati karīma we read in khutbah.
When good women are married to good men
and good men are married to good women,
Allāh ﷻ shows forgiveness to them.
Their rizq increases.
It is good tidings.
But people, as we said, are not
looking at it now. They don't look at clean ones.
They want what their egos like.
That is nothing, we let them marry for now.
Shayṭan doesn't like it.
This matter of marriage is
one of the main enemies of shayṭān.
He tries to destroy it.
Most of them are destroyed
in non-Muslim countries. Not many left.
People are going
in different directions there.
They went completely astray.
They became ahl al-kufr. We can't say anything to them.
But they are bothering Muslims too.
They are taking Muslims out of the way,
not as Allāh ﷻ created
and ordered, but as
Allāh ﷻ had cursed and
as shayṭān wants.
And Muslims want to do the same way.
That is not clean.
They are dirty.
Who imitate them
are cursed.
They are cursed.
Bad actions they do are
not accepted. They will be punished.
Therefore, the matter of marriage is important.
Who is married should deal with his family.
Allāh ﷻ will open his rizq.
He ﷻ will give them light and comfort.
And He ﷻ forgives them in ākhirah. They will enter paradise.
Those who don't follow their ego and
keep on this good way. Because, as we said,
this end of times is such a time,
may Allāh ﷻ protect and help Muslims.
May they not obey their egos.
They are giving various fatwā.
There are some ignorant ones who don't know.
But there are also people who think they are
religious and give fatwā. They give fatwā
that pleases their ego.
May Allāh ﷻ protect Muslims.
May Allāh ﷻ protect from
these bad ways in shā'a Llāh.
Our religion Islām al-ḥamdu liLlāh
wa sh-shukru liLlāh.
This is big favor from Allāh ﷻ
We must thank Him ﷻ for what He ﷻ give us.
And Islām religion it is
first thing from in Islām
it is clean, cleanness pureness
this is our religion.
No any dirty, first thing from
book of religion how to
practice first lesson
cleanness. Kitābu ṭ-ṭahārah
To be clean one book from this
first thing for water
how it is clean, which water clean which not clean
and after how to clean yourself
this is Islām, it is
enough for who have
good intention to
accept Islām, only for it is cleanness.
Because cleanness it is
most important for whole human being.
Dirtiness giving bad
thing for people for their health
for their spiritual also. So first thing
you must be clean
you must be with clean people
with clean relationship
especially in Islām marriage very important
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So in this for this Allāh ‘Azza wa Jalla saying
when you are looking for marriage
you look for clean people
clean man for clean ladies
clean ladies for clean pure man
this is in our khuṭbah we read
they must find this, not looking for
only shape, shape not good
relationship it must be clean, pure
clean relationship with between woman
and man with marriage it is
other it is not clean.
It is not good
in divinely present
of Allāh ﷻ and Prophet ﷺ.
This is our Lord order
and He ﷻ create us He ﷻ know us
what we must do to be
happy to be clean to be succeed
for ākhirah. Nowadays
before old days people
they was not something like this days
before maybe fifty or sixty year even
the who want to marry his family look for his
wife and he accept, many of them accept
most of them accept and married and looking for his
house for his family
and they are ok.
But now they are coming
bombarding from shayṭān and he open whole
swege he fall of this world with dirtiness.
When man he married he not looking for his
family to find good wife for him
no he is looking and maybe he happy with
shape but not looking at all for
if it is suitable for him or not suitable
so after becoming problem
when marriage because he will find an other one also
maybe he or she also now this is
worst ladies also after
ten years twenty years they are not happy with
husband they are looking crazy one
to find an other one.
And it is chance for them maybe
they will never after find something
good like before.
But even this not enough for shayṭān
he like to destroy whole this marriage
for whole human being
and he succeed in western or
mostly in western country because they are
not believe in anything
just believing in ego
what their ego like they can do everything
this is their now
situation but we are Muslim
we are not obeying
thing the Creator not accept
because Creator He ﷻ create us
like man and woman and He ﷻ
put rule and everybody it was
thousand of years continue like this
but now they it because it is the end of time
all this dirtiness Allāh ﷻ allowed
to for this people and shayṭān
he is working very hardly
he is not enough for him for
this western country he want whole human being
to finish marriage system.
Even marriage system he want to
make it different
out of normal.
Not normal what they are doing
normal to marry
like as we said marriage it is normal
after this it is nothing
normal and it is
cursed by Allāh ﷻ
by prophets, by Angels and whole human being.
This is what Prophet ﷺ saying
and when somebody is cursed it is the worst thing
can happen for anybody to be cursed
by Allāh ﷻ and by Prophets
it is not joke but who are not believing
they are free but who believer they must
wake up because all sleeping and
seeing not no any reflexing
reflection no any
thing to say just seeing
in TV or other ways this they make this law
they can do everything in this country
they make this law for other country also they are
can make everything it is
for them for shayṭān.
We are not accepting and we are not happy with this.
Only we must be wake up
to be happy with our Lord
and Prophet ﷺ and not follow
ego of course ego
can be very strong
sometimes maybe falling in love
but you must keep your believe
stronger than your love.
Prophet ﷺ saying who die from love
this days nobody die from love
old time there was
loving somebody and he died from love
but this day nobody even Prophet ﷺ saying
who die from love he is Shahīd
he is martyr so it meaning
it is not don't give any chance for your ego
don't say ok little bit little bit and then after you finish.
Be careful.
For ladies and for man also because
ladies also they are becoming
because as we said all swege coming
nobody can run away from this so
to must be clean, try to away this
Allāh ﷻ help Muslim to
fight against shayṭān and his follower and
especial for our ego it is biggest enemy for us
Allāh ﷻ help us in shā’a Llāh.
Wa min Allāhi t-tawfīq al-Fātiḥah.