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PAT: TIME FOR THIS WEEK'S FAB
MOM ON 2, IF YOU HAVE HOUR THAN
ONE CHILD, I AM SURE YOU HAVE
DEALT WITH SIBLING ARGUMENTS
TODAY OF WE HELP YOU MAINTAIN
YOUR SANITY THROUGH ALL OF THE
SQUABBLING.
THANK YOU JILL.
THANK YOU.
PAT: WE KNOW THAT MOMS WEAR MANY
HATS, ONE IS REFEREE.
MM-HMM.
PAT: MAYBE DIFFICULT FOR SOME
MOMS YOU SAY, STAY OUT OF IT.
YES ISSUE STAY OUT OF IT,
TALKING ABOUT SIBLING RIVALRY,
SUNDAY APRIL 10 IS NATIONAL
SIBLING DAY.
WHO KNEW,S FIRST TIP, STAY OUT
OF IT, I AM SO GUILTY FOR
JUMPING IN TO BE REFEREE WITH MY
DAUGHTERS, THEY ARE 5 AND 4, BUT
THE MORE RESEARCH I DID ABOUT
THIS, AND PSYCHOLOGISTS AND
THERAPISTS.
I FOUND THAT STAY OUT OF IT.
RESIST A CHANCE TO JUMP IN AND
BE REFEREE WITH YOUR KIDS,
BECAUSE, KIDS ENJOY -- WHETHER
OR NOT WE OF W BELIEVE IT, THEYY
AND LEARN ON THEIR OWN, THEY
WILL GET MORE SELF ESTEEM,
CONFIDENCE AND RELATIONSHIP.
PAT: GOOD SOCIAL SKILLS.
UNTIL THEY START PULLING HAIR.
OH, YES.
PAT: NEXT TIP, DON'T COMPARE,
TOO OFTEN PARENTS COMPARE ONE
CHILD TO THE OTHER.
IT IS HARD, IT IS EVEN COMES
IN SUCH INNOCENT COMMENTS, WHY
CAN'T YOU EAT VEGETABLES LIKE
YOUR SISTER OR GRADES LIKE YOUR
BROTHER.
YOU KNOW, ALL THOSE THINGS.
THEY DO CREATE RESENTMENT
BETWEEN KIDS, THE MORE WE SORT
OF PICK OUT THESE WHY CAN'T YOU,
LIKE BE LIKE YOUR BROTHER OR
SISTER THE MORE CHILD IDENTIFIES
SOMETHING WITHIN THEMSELVES
SAYING MAYBE -- YOU KNOW I'M NOT
GOOD LIKE, THAT OR MOM AND DAD
LIKES THEM BETTER, YOU CANNOT
COMPARE KIDS THAT DOES CREATE
FRUSTRATION AND RESENTMENT.
THE MOTHER COMPANY, THEY HAVE A
VIDEO SERIES, AND BOOKS THAT ARE
AVAIL BE A RIGHT NOW, TARGETING
SIBLING CONFLICTS AND HOW TO
HANDLE THEM.
PAT: I KNOW SOMEONE THAT IS USE
IT RIGHT NOW.
I CAN.
A 7, 5 AND A 5-MONTH-OLD.
PAT: DO WE HAVE TIME FOR THIS
ONE.
OKAY,.
PAT: MEET ONCE EVERYONE INVOLVED
HAD A TIME TO COOL OFF.
A WHOLE FAMILY MEETING
SCENARIO, IN PARTICULAR OLDER
KIDS, TEENS THAT HAVING PROBLEM
REGARDING TERRITORY, I DON'T
LIKE HER COMING INTO MY ROOM
UNANNOUNCED, STAY SANE GET
AHEAD.
CALL A FAMILY MEETING, YOU WILL
MEDIATE, FIND OUT A WAY THAT YOU
CAN YOU KNOW ADDRESS THE PROBLEM
HEAD ON AND SET SOLUTIONS THAT
EVERYONE CAN ADHERE TO.
AND YOU KNOW, FIND YOU ENJOY IN
REALLY IMPLEMENTS TO MAKE THE
HOME A BETTER PLACE, MAKE SURE
ALL OF THE KIDS ARE HEARD.
YOU KNOW WE'RE OUT OF TIME,
BUT ANOTHER TOPIC, YOU SAID
FAMILY MEETINGS WE HAVE THOSE,
BEING TALK ABOUT THAT ONE DAY.
ABSOLUTELY.
PAT: FAMILY MEETING, IS IT
IMPORTANT?
YEAH.
I'M GAME TO TALK ABOUT
WHAANYONEWANTS TO TALK ABOUT.
PAT: SHE WILL HAVE MORE ONURE
WEB SITE CBSLA.COM, AND HER SITE
THE FABMOM.COM, YOU CAN SEND HER
QUESTIONS.
JILL THANK YOU.
THANK YOU SO MUCH.