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Finding a treasure is a rare experience, so how do you find true love with your spouse?
This is Dr. Paul, author of Boomer Girls, A Boomer Woman's Guide to Dating and host
of Ask Dr. Paul. This is not easily done, but it's something that is necessary. Finding
true love with your spouse comes down to one word. As I define it, it is sincerity in everything
you do and say. The golden rule: Do unto others as you would have others do unto you works
very well. So if you operate on a sincere basis -- and I'm talking about in small areas,
okay -- they will respect that and they will like you. And oftentimes, there are people
we may not like, but we respect or people we love but don't like -- that's even worse
-- and that happens in many relationships and many marriages. If you like the person
that you're in love with, that works well. If you don't like them -- "I'm in love with
that person, but I don't like them" -- that doesn't work very well. It has to be both.
And the key to that is sincerity. So the answer to this is make it simple: be sincere in every
area, including the small areas, so then people trust you. Basically, it's based on trust.
That's what it's all about. This is Dr. Paul. May your fantasies of today be your realities
of tomorrow.