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Hey guys! Allan here! Hope you're all doing good!
Get out! Come on! I'm recording! Geez, Mom!
Anyways, besides that. To make this clear..
I don't date because the purpose of dating is...
...is to lead on into marriage. And I'm not a flirt like that, as much as I used to be...
...because I didn't know what flirting was. I mean, come on! It's a learning process.
I'm only 17, so throughout those pre-adolescent years...
I learned a thing or two, to notice my actions.
Did you guys hear about the 5C?
S... C...? The "C" stands for...
...cheap. Because it's cheaper. Obviously.
So to begin with; if the guys are asking me, "Allan. Why are you paying attention...
...to the emotions of girls?
Okay, for that reason. A girl I really liked... We got close for about 3 months.
And then, next thing you know, she left me hanging. And that left me...
...emotionally dangling. I guess I wanted to understand other girls because...
...of what happened to me. Then again, I was younger and it's just emotions but...
...there's no problem listening to...
...a girl's emotions. Because when you get married, you're going to have to encounter that with your...
...wife.
I mean, I see it with my parents. So I knew about this situation and I talked with this girl...
Uh... I asked her if she was doing O.K because of what the guy did.
There was a two-choice with dat decision...
...between two girls. So I listened to her talk to me, and I told her:
You know, "Don't like those kinda guys bring you down. And knowing me I always...
...mention God when I talk with someone because...
...that's my priority. So I always avoid flirtation...
...because I didn't know what flirtation was back then. It was a learning...
...process.
I just want to be friendly, and I wanted to have a friendship. You know, that friendship. To get to know that person.
That connection! (fake crying) (gasp) (serious tone) Let's not get emotional.
The conversation leads on. And I don't know if it's flirting, or being friendly.
This happens: (girl) "I don't know if I can be home schooled! I'll just be...
...stuck in a cage, 'cause like. I'm like a flying squirrel!"
(laughs) Yeah... a flying squirrel.
Thats kinda weird, you know? I'm an islander...
...and we don't have squirrels. So.
We concluded the conversation. She told me:
"Thanks!" I reply, "No problem! Talk to you later!"
I talk to her later and she never replys back. We live in this generation where we talk...
on Facebook.
I.M. You know? We talk in-person, too, about the same problem.
Why they stop talking to me?! I mean...
...what's the problem? You leave a guy hanging. But that's okay because you know I'm an...
islander and I'm kinda related to Hawaii.
We're pretty much close by. Maybe, about 4,000 miles away and...
..The thing is to: hang loose
So, I hang-loose, bro. I'm chill. It's okay. I got this.
Just.. chill.
(speaking gibberish) I have no idea what I just said...
But I know it meant something meaningful. Or you can have an on and off friendship...
Where they just talk to you about their...
...boy problems, or school problems. You know, you gotta be a good friend and listen.
Then later on. They just stop talking to you. So to conclude this...
...bra. And you guys are my bra. You support me.
Hormones are active. And I don't wanna be sexist...
...because it's not always the girl's fault. It can always be the guys fault, too.
They can take advantage of your emotions and just use you.
Guys can take advantage. And Girls can be sneaky.
And if you're that Emotional Gap. Be one step ahead.
And... hang-loose, bra. Hang-loose...
That's my motto. All rite?
Move on, bro. There's a lot of there, a lot of fish...
...in the sea. Even though they might be radioactive because I live near Japan.
Our Fish are kinda poisoned now. Thanks to the nuclear power plant.
Other than that, Good bye!