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Percentage of marriages that end in divorce in America: 53% Percentage of "arranged marriages"
where parents pick their sons or daughters spouses) that end in divorce is only 3%
What you don’t want for yourself or your sibling
You can’t be a Mu’min
What kind of iman is this?
You don’t want anyone to do it to your sister
Or your wife
That no one looks at your wife in a lustful manner
That no one looks at your sister in a lustful manner
That is the measurement in Islam
Islam has such a good Security System in place
Because we fear Allah we don’t need a security guard
Everyone has the Sermons of Allah in their heart
Everyone has it in their hearts
He wants to look at a gyayr mahram and there is no one there
To tell him, stop don’t look etc.
But in his heart he will hear the sermons of Allah, your iman
Your heart is telling you don’t look it is haram.
Islam is protecting your daughter’s honor in your absence
Your wife’s honor
Islam is that type of Deen
Why should we quarrel with each other
Why should we make each other all upset and give each other pain
Let us get engaged in a Halal fashion
You can look, meet in a Halal way but keeping
the Islamic regulations in mind during that process
that is the most honorable way to do it
Look at the people who got married through arrangement
Their divorce rate is a lot lower than the couples
Who got married after they found each other on the streets,
Fall in love etc.
Met on St. Valentine’s day and then they got married
Look at the divorce rate on those
These are the overall divorce rates of the world
Ask the courts for a percentage, they have records
of the Statistics etc. I don’t have those numbers memorized
But what I have heard that certain percentage
Of people who met on the streets have gotten divorced
For that reason, you won’t get hurt from the Islamic Rule
On earth and in Akhirah
Be content with Halal and stay away from Haram
Because Haram is:
Haram …. Fire…
You pull your hand away in protection from fire
That is how you should be when it comes to haram, stay away
Right now it seem to look good
pleasant to hold a gyayr mahram’s hand etc.
but in Akhirah your future shows Fire
that’s how it is!
that’s how it is!