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I'm Madisen Harper and today's topic
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I want to share a conversation I had with you recently was at a party now is
talking about upcoming trip i was taking challange
and the prisons talking she said she wanted love l_a_ so much massively you
know it's a place for the drains and a lot of creativity
homes if they are also very much and personal development and that is what i
do now and write books and you told some stuff improvement
and she actually looked at me and said you know why can't they spend less time
reading self-improvement books enlargements educating themselves
accident a lot less
you can imagine i was shocked by this comment because it is weak and so many
levels first of all she's insulted the whole state of california and she has
been visited
second that she's also insulting but i do for a living
perfect example out of
people who lost steam
we shoot down instead of pulling back
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well sometimes you don't even know it because it's just a normal so used to it
penetrating and friend of mine who destroyed every morning
having coffee in the senate
place with a single
anything entrepreneurial often share his dreams and i think
ideas and projects he was working on
let these people
network realistically
about these conversations and i was thinking
cd you're starting your morning discriminated fodder for these people
every single day
he was wondering what he's trying to get
i don't know what he's doing it's no wonder
women's sisters often feel that
cardboard paper get that i wish i think i have to do that
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dreams and lifestyles of goals
and jacuzzi situations in the morning
and upsetting you kind of jure getting together with these people
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well first of all the most powerful
he thought he says you can't do it
it'll never work
need more money than that
you don't have enough education
really listen to identify and deal with
the diversity of hot air strikes people
who are not optimistic far more lethal
first of all there is
being helpful talent
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paintball truth that understand as it affects your journey and hurricane
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may not be
so this is for you
say what works for us but to someone else because all that respect
the next thing we have sideways skill
pleased with it
positive that meeting with the negative
he's the guy who says
highlighting the major parties right for you
in other words great but i figured she'd done to protect words to get the telstra
court what a great idea
financing your so far today
start destroying stuff
but you've got to take more than that
and we thank you
the situation is that you know what my grade ideally it's not going to get me
to get is going to get me adept at
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well the first thing you've really got into is
called from their life
and called me think that u
frustrated ingredients
have all these emotions are really needing detail i think
really does want to have those interactions
increasing all that there's a lot of great things about this person well that
may be true but he's got to consider and less ninety eight percent figure
contractions event are fantastic fulfilling
they make you happy
energy drain
got a daughter
the next thing i know you can always column people idea like that you can't
minimize it
stand with them
and what the cia
because you can't really choose your family your colleagues mean s
just the way it is
that you don't have to share all their dreams and goals
and sometimes act as a victim of things like that when you know when you're
having conversations you might be talking just about the children of the
weather or what was on tv last night not what really matters
you know about it i didn't really care
have and truly loved and relationship with somebody when you're coming from d
dot
i mean these people constantly putting you down that's exactly what's
the next thing you need to do g_o_p_ success strippers and maybe
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we don't have to defend your last august the lease and your goals and dreams
and also it's not an argument
and their perspective
and as effective versus dressed prospective versus expected know what's
going on
pointers on supply doesn't bother you so much
he said he seems to me
well university but they're not very nice instead also
back to a few years they've been planning ahead
unnamed we think it's the evidence is out there now they say that must be true
and economies of scale of moving walkways
specific knowledge that the other news via and brief right now
i don't have enough education
the skills and knowledge that i need
and older and more hesitant
continue my duty tires from comics because
didn't make it a bit more about them but that isn't that cute
you can't do anything it's because they can't do it
has agreed that my career from being a strategic marketer
and businessperson
and started doing
fighting speaking people tell me why
would want to do that five hundred people you're setting up in front of you
could make a fool of yourself
to dennis
minutes absolutely free
we need to step down trees with these people
here this is the media to use it
respond i think that that's an interesting comment the near future i'd
appreciate it if you were saying that it was my dues injury
flexi pos other hashing out there
that exposing themselves and their talking to you if we need an
tutsis unseemly continue to have uncovered and he's got is that the
boundary of the positive just
we are
also we need to set down to these people because
you're not going to make them feel good
putting you down
what happens if you're on the other side of the coin anymore the successor
perimeter works
president of the worst critic because there are things inform our lives that
we can pre-set other people's lives because it's not like aids
we see in seattle as my girlfriend is refurbished haha
he should put out
all this beautiful modern
woodworking furniture and i think i mean i would furnish a technical but i could
totally appreciate what you dash it was beautiful it just wasn't for me
citizens immediately determine i'd appreciate it
the effort needed she had creativity ohio
do everything i want to add you ask yourself didn't want to meet
to put people down
is my own insecurity on my own unhappiness
to whatever the reason there's absolutely no excuses
yelling and giving negative opinions to others
i don't think i think we can express my own opinion indicates that there aren't
a part of town every elsewhere
misleading expressions committed to doing the right way instead of saying
i'd shake dogs say something like he does not include he's seen a different
one spielberg
dinner transcendent
disliking others just you know it just doesn't work for me there's a troubled
youth
you can still make a point across without offending upsetting anybody
about it i love dogs but the point is you can be kind of your opinion
i want you to correct
happy filled life and that means leading colorado success strippers indigenous
people in your life
instead surround yourself with people could release the point of view in your
dreams
i'm medicine harper and he is to your success