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What's up? Welcome to a new video!
Today I will show you HOW TO DRESS on dates. I see SO MANY beautiful girls either showing
too much or too little, having too much bling, or too little of nothing. What you wear tells
a 1st time story about you. It can dictate the type of people you want to attract, and
it will also tell people how you want to be treated.
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Let's get started!
My mom taught me a rule when I was a young girl, and I've been following it RELIGIOUSLY
my entire life. The rule is: If you're showing a lot of leg, cover the ***. If you're showing
a lot of ***, don't show off TOO much leg. If you're showing some leg, you can also show
some ***. Does that make sense? If you show too much, you might attract the wrong kind
of guy for yourself, the kind of guy interested in mostly one thing. But if you show too little,
you might miss out on an opportunity. You want to LOOK attractive, but not by lay it
all out on the table. Always leave the guy wanting more. Always! Let his imagination
run wild!
I feel a little weird parading around in front of you today, because I recently went on vacation,
and I allowed myself to be a little porker, and I gained about 6 pounds, but oh well!!
Back to following the food control tips I posted in a video a while back, the link is
below is you want to see it.
So! As far as clothing, always flatter your best feature. If you have a tiny waist, wear
a belt around your midriff to accentuate it, or a top or dress that's cinched at the waist.
If you're bootylicious, show off those sexy curves! RIGHT NOW, find that one body part
that you feel is sexy and moving forward, start highlighting it.
The first outfit idea that I'm going to show you, is for a casual daytime outing. Something
like, going out for coffee, or going to a picnic.
For a casual daytime sort of date, keep the accessories limited. Daytime is not for chunky,
super flashy accessories. I usually prefer white gold or silver during the day, because
it's more relaxed yet still glamorous and Fabulous, but this dress has some gold sequence,
so I paired it up with some discrete gold jewelry. I also recommend wearing light colors
during the day, and for this kind of casual outfit, you'll probably be most comfortable
in flats. If you're going on a very casual meet up, it's good to show that you have that
versatility and be casual yet still sexy. Pumps will probably not be the most comfortable
and your date might look at you funky. Also during the day, I like an off the shoulder
bag because it's more casual, and you can usually fit more stuff in it that you might
need throughout the length of the day. For a more versatile shift from day to night,
you can wear your hair up during the day, and then let it down at night.
The second look idea is for a more dressy daytime outing. Maybe you're meeting your
date out for lunch and you want to look glorious but still appropriate for the time of the
day
You can keep the lighter colors in your dress, skirt or pants, but add heels, and introduce
a purse. With this outfit, I'm not really showing off any legs or ***, but the shirt
is a little see-through. Not obscenely see-through, but enough to where my date can see that I'm
wearing a black lace bra underneath. RAWR!! Yesterday, my boyfriend called this the 'rich
man's wife outfit' because it's elegant yet sexy.
Your clothes will tell people how you want to be treated, so always keep that in mind.
Now, you can use white gold, silver OR gold accessories, and I decided to go with white
gold. I also loved taking a chance with this purse. It has a floral motif as the pants
do, but I love the difference in colors, I think the clash ads a fashionable edge to
the look. You can always keep the bag in the same color scheme as your outfit if you're
not comfortable double patterning though. Also, if during the really casual date you
had your hair up, here you can wear it half up half down. Again, I want you to show versatility.
In one of the points made in the video about What Men Want, which is linked below, I talk
about the importance of showing different sides of you. This means you're a complex
woman, and so is your look. And men find that SEXY!
For the 3rd date idea, I'll show you what to wear on a date that is somehow work-related.
Still daytime, but maybe you're going out to lunch with a guy that works in the same
building as you. Note that I didn't say somebody from the same office as you, because I crapped
where I slept before, so I personally don't encourage dating co-workers. But if that floats
your boat, I will not judge you AT ALL! I will send you some love energy your way instead!
Here, I kept the look office-appropriate because the skirt is barely above the knee and I'm
not showing any ***, but I wanted to stay away from anything too serious or rigid, because
after all, you WANT the guy to see you as a woman, and NOT so much as a co-worker, or
too businessy. Also, because the skirt can "technically" be considered more on the sexy
side, I'm wearing pantyhose. Bare legs would really push this over the top.
I prefer the hair half up half down, because it's professional, but it still shows the
guy that you have stuff to work with. If your hair is short, just wear it to the side, it
will look great. Not to go over the edge, I chose simple ear rings, and didn't add any
rings or bracelets.
Now, for the casual evening date, which could be something like going to the movies. The
look can't be too casual or too elegant. I do prefer heels here though. I'm glamourizing
this look with the top and the statement necklace, and keeping it casual with the jeans and nude
pumps. You can wear this without the necklace too, if you want the look more toned down.
If you decide to go with a statement necklace though, keep the rest of the accessories simple,
and remember that this type of date is still somewhat in the casual zone. Any type of bag
will go here as well.
The dressy evening date is MY favorite. You could be going out to dinner, or maybe seeing
a show... Here you can go all out, guns blazing. A little black dress, a nice skirt, pants,
or in my case tonight, a fabulous satin jumpsuit. Last week I wore black leather pants with
a loose off white shirt, pumps and accessorized with a statement necklace. I always wear high
heels, and the accessories are always sparkly. We have to be careful here not to overdo it,
or else it will look like we're trying too hard. A clutch is always one of the best alternatives,
and unless you want to show off some super fab earrings, or a statement necklace, wear
your hear down. Curl it, have fun with it!
Here you can go heavier on the make up too, but NEVER go overboard. If you're wearing
darker, smokier eye shadow, wear a lighter color lipstick. If you're only wearing mascara,
eyeliner or a very light and discrete eye shadow, you can go bolder with the lips. Don't
let your lip liner be darker than the lipstick, and don't do dark browns and maroon lips unless
it absolutely goes with the look. Never overdue the blush, and if I were you, I wouldn't go
with a lip gloss. Sorry, but most guys, are not looking forward to sticky stuff all over
the lips. I wouldn't either if the roles were reversed.
So! Was this helpful? If so, tell me in a comment below! In the next video about Career
& Money, I will show you how to put together the most memorable, kick *** resume that will
make you stand out from others applying for the same job.
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This week's shout out goes out to Heather Byerly who left me a Facebook comment and
decided to go with a Vitamin C based moisturizer after watching my last Fashion & Beauty video,
also linked below. Hey Heather, how's it going?
Can't wait to see you again next week, thank you for being in my life and having me to
be in yours. I love you for watching, be kind to yourself, and to all those around you.