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In this episode we're talking about
how your desire to be liked
is killing your business.
Hi there, I'm Max Simon
and welcome to
The Big Vision Show.
This is all about how you can
reach more people and thrive financially.
So here's the thing,
I know that you got
into business because
you wanted to help other people,
you wanted to be in service,
you wanted to be seen as a
respectable person doing
good things in the world.
But I assure you that
way too much of the time,
are you more concerned about
being liked than you are
about being effective?
You see sometimes when people
are doing things wrong
you're not actively confronting them.
Or when something is not
working properly, you're not
actively changing it.
Or when you're not getting
a good deal with being paid
what you're worth you're not
actively negotiating.
So here are 3 things
you can do today
to shift this energy in you fast.
First, just start to be aware of
how this might be playing out
for you in your business.
How you might be desiring
to be liked over desiring
to be effective.
Just become aware of it
because once you're aware of it
you can decide,
is it serving you
or is it hurting you?
Step 2 is when you see something
that's not right,
immediately speak up against it,
immediately vocalize,
that it's not right
and if you want things to change.
You'll be surprised when you just
start to communicate that maybe
this isn't feeling so good
and then this is what
I'd like to see it look like,
how quickly stuff can actually change.
I mean just the other day,
one of my clients said
she was getting underpaid.
She became aware of it,
she vocalized it to our person,
and they gave her a
20x increase in salary,
pretty great change.
And the third point is to
make things right if you are not
honoring other people.
You see everything is reflection.
So if you're not properly
valuing others,
if you're not respecting others,
if you're not being fair to others,
that's gonna shine back on you.
In some ways you perform
in other aspects of your business.
So if you are needing to
make things right for others
inside of your business,
go and do that immediately as well.
Might be to have difficult to do,
but it's always the right decision.
So my friends,
that brings me to the
Big Vision question of the day
which is
"Can you see how your desire
to be liked might be
getting in the way?
Or maybe how this is
shown up for you in the past?"
Please take a moment
to share your story
or your insights with the
rest of the tribe below.
They would love to hear it
so that they can feel permission
to break free from their desire
to be liked and really thrive.
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Thanks so much for your time,
hope you enjoyed this one.
Much love.