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Hey its Stephan here good to see you quick quick tip for dates ok
One of the biggest things that people get really confused about what to do with dates
and how to act on dates and this and that , I used to not even talk about dates or think
about dates when I was dating, because in a way you know it was always much easier for
me to just kind of say oh I am meeting this girl I will go for a drink with this girl,
I will do this with that girl and I never really thought about dates because you know
people have so many ideas about that and sometimes really difficult
But one of the most important things I mean to be honest the number one question you should
ask yourself before a date and during the date and you know all the way through the
date is how can I make this fun for her and for me?
In other words how can I make this fun for us? And you know I actually think that's a
pretty good question because you know what the crucial thing here is the us part and
the her and me part and the idea of this is about enjoying a certain time together with
somebody you may not have met so many times or whatever, maybe the first time you meet
them it doesn't matter If you are thinking about how can I make this
fun for us then you are on the right lines, you can't go wrong too easily, because the
problem is when you only think how can I make this fun for her it might drive you into a
situation where you get quite of like almost too focused on you might be perceived as needy
almost or submissive or whatever because your only focusing on the other person
On the other hand if your only thinking on how can I make this fun for you, you might
kind of completely lose track of what's going on with her because you think well I know
I can make this fun for me by just kind of dragging her right now to back home and trying
to whatever with her, have my wicked way so but when you look at how to make this fun
for both of us that's pretty good because then you're thinking you already then you
need to notice what's going on around you, you need to look for her responses to things
and this is a cool question a cool mindset for you to be in when you're going on a date
Ok And subconscious is pretty cool when you're
thinking of us it creates a bond between people even if you are just thinking about it , for
example right now if I am thinking how can I make this video fun for us both of us ***
hell this is pretty cool actually I have not even thought about it like that but right
now when I am talking to you right now I am thinking hey how can I make this fun for us
and I don't know if you noticed this but I have just got a bit more excited, does that
make sense this is pretty cool Well thanks for giving me that insight so
if this works for you if this is something that you found useful let me know put your
comments and ill speak to you very soon Ok Take care oh I forgot if you haven't got the
technique yet and the rapport on the Website go to toshytodate.com and yes I will be asking
there for your Email address and your first name that's because I want to give you more
tips when I have your Email address you will get an occasional sort of like Email from
me where I will let you know about something other that's really cool and you know I really
just want you to benefit from this Ok so that's why, so you can get the report then and everything
is pretty cool in there because you can get a technique that will help you to switch off
your nerves in literally one minute and you can use that for your you know whenever you're
on dates or you get nervous yeah and it works So that's it speak to you later take care
Bye