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Stress is the distraction for sex. How to get your wife to make love to you. This is
Dr. Paul, author of "Boomer Girls, A Boomer Woman's Guide to Men and Dating" and host
of Ask Dr. Paul. I've had men call my show with that very, very question and the bottom
line on that is this. Look, you have to have a relaxed atmosphere. When you both come home
from work, that is not a relaxed atmosphere. Number one, do not talk about Oh how was work
today honey? Don't even go there! Do not talk about kids! Do not talk about work! Do not
talk about business! Do not talk about bills! Forget about it. You have to relax and the
best way to do that is to sit down, if you happen to drink alcohol have a glass of wine
or whatever your favorite adult beverage may be and relax in a relaxing atmosphere. Okay
that's the way to start. That really evolves into people feeling good about each other.
Okay, so it's not so much a confrontation, keep confrontation out of it. If it becomes
confrontational it is never going to work. It has to be relaxed, smooth, and go into
it with that attitude. And by the way forget about all this business about Oh draw a bath
for her, and again you're never going to be respected for that guys. You know it's nice
to do but get that relaxed atmosphere, maintain yourself as I'm my own man. If you're capable
of doing that and be yourself. All these little game playing objects, goals etc. That many
of these so called relationship consultants come up with, they don't work. You have to
respect each other and that's what it's all about. And I know there are those out there
that don't agree with me and that's you're prerogative but that's how I see it and it
works for the people who call my show. So go for it. This is Dr. Paul, may your fantasies
of today be your realities of tomorrow.