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determine i haven't heard before and that is helicopter appearance of your
screen dot the idea and this kind of parent authorities have you heard of the
helicopter parenting today cases over controlling parents
earlier whole round yet they have adopted other that nafta helicopter
analogy sub
are people who have certainly like new information about these
helicopter over controlling parents anti the people that are like still running
their adult children schedules
their lives you know one drink a little bit and plan their vacations just
lives to sway over bearing in their life so when you have a new study by
researcher college different from the university of mary washington in
virginia has found
that all of our controlling parents are actually more likely to be too depressed
children who are less satisfied with their lives
an and not only that but this the number of this kind of helicopter of these
helicopter parents these
paper parent is actually increasing and that's because of all the economic fears
she accorded a study that are feeling concerns
of our youngsters chances of success yet are worried that like you know they're
not taken seriously in the madrid to do
there's now a and they're going to get seriously but they're not going to be
able to find a job in a lot of parents like to think
well i'm older i've had my experience so idea how to handle the situation so let
me just step in if i take care of it
everything will be perfect you'll be able to get a job uh... and there's just
a fear of their children making mistakes on uh... which in reality
as this show still you know these then these these students these days
and on the gulf
are becoming depressed because they feel it they have no control over their lives
and they haven't been able to learn from their own mistakes yeah and i think it
in reality you're really not doing your kids any favors by being overbearing
your disdain demand and just putting off the amount of time that they're going to
have to endure the real world they've got a lot of actually being gotta start
making their decisions they've got to learn from their own decisions and yeah
that's gonna require mistakes along the way but at the end of the day if u
toppin good values and lessons their life right now
hopefully the mistakes will be anything that they can recover from it'll just be
something that they warn from and can apply that toward future life lessons
and activities on the road
yes presuppose presuppose that i mean icing that there would be negative
impacts i think it's better for people to be so independent such as a going to
college in in college i think
differentially calling a peer tutors enduring and that sort of thing
but the president less satisfied with the light that is very interesting these
it's it's schifrin's of the researcher as interesting quote to talk about
you expect them to the younger kids to be very involved in problem is that
these children are old enough to adapt themselves in the past not backing off
to find out so closely involved because last contacting their traders as i would
say in running their schedules which i think is crazy
is something you would only increase it does not allow independents and a chance
to learn from the states
and she says it is certainly one of the reasons to rise in this is
increase in technology has changed involvement of parents and children
scholars lives
as the once a week phone call home was replaced with regular texting emails
messaging
checking it reads all that stuff on the other weepy entry for adoptive parents
one of the research is quoted as saying that
the uh... long distance phone calling when it was developed was the longest
umbilical cord in history
um... thing and now you're even more in contact with their pants out my parents
deftly were not like this in college like the idea of
the first of all is our wasilla rwanda dot com but the real nice it was like
considering what happened what would my first results of the company would put
it in good at the dinner and on but i do think that it's good to be in the camp
and then if you look at the psychology of parenting and if anybody out there as
a psychologist arnaz mar dot this idea please feel free to chime in
and but not only obviously do your parents
love you and they care about you and not wanna see vihar policy you phil collins
seal in a dangerous situation
but also a lot of times parents were very hard time separating their own
separating your decisions
from their decisions so they think well into my kid is is making these decisions
that i don't agree with
that's basically just as bad for them and then making decisions and go against
their own values and morals and whatever it may be and so i think that worth that
kind of playing into harassing an increasing trend of disease overbearing
parents were trying to make all the decisions for their kids thinking that
they know bats when in reality like i said earlier you're really not going to
get the favors yet so that as i said i had my parents were like this but if you
have when you consider helicopter parents i'd be interested to hear about
your experience
and it's a killing if you have any tips for how you can sort of distance
yourself from your parents
i'm sure of yours would appreciate it if you permit