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Hey this is Etienne Charland from Shamanic Attraction.
Self-development is a huge industry.
Let's talk about why it doesn't bring satisfying results for most people.
Here are the mistakes almost everybody make and how to avoid them.
Most people want to change their results in life.
They look to change their words and actions
but they don't really want to change as a person.
Single guys look for tricks and techniques to get women.
Two things happen.
They end up being something that is not them
and they end up attracting the wrong type of women.
Women look for ways to feel better in their skin.
They put prettier clothes, go through plastic surgeries
and improve their communication skills.
They end up with an edgy character and lose their
carefreeness, spontaneity and authentic femininity.
People want to solve their financial situation;
yet they remain stuck in the same frustrating life patterns.
Recently there is a new movement in self-development:
law of attraction, visualizations, healing and meditation.
Men visualize the perfect lifestyle they want to live with women.
Women use energy healing and meditation to
feel better in their skin and to overcome their limiting beliefs.
They often end up living in their own bubble of wishful thinking.
They're still broke and single,
but at least they feel better about it.
On one side you have people who want to change their
words and actions without changing within.
On the other side you have people who change within
but who don't bridge the gap between emotions, actions and results.
There are concrete actions to take
and real-life social dynamics to deal with.
Then there is the middle path almost nobody sees.
You transform within with all the various healing,
meditation and visualizations tools.
You transform specific aspects within yourself
in a focused way to achieve an objective.
Let's say you want to better express yourself.
You don't need to work on your knee.
Work on the specific tension in your throat,
work on your unworthiness and work on your fears of people's opinions.
Affirmations and binaural meditation audios will not solve these fears.
Breathing meditation and general energy healing
is very unlikely to solve these specific fears.
It's like trying to shoot a mosquito with a shotgun.
You need to be precise and focused in what you work on within yourself.
This requires a proper understanding of
how your energetic and emotional systems work.
Until you do this, all the self-development work
you do will bring very limited results.