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A huge red flag for me when I started dating someone was
wanting to have a rodent as a pet.
I don't think I can date vegans.
Red flag is someone who's on their phone.
Period.
Hey everyone, it's Love, Lindsey
and today we are interviewing people about their dating red flags and their dating green flags
and so what we mean by that is when you start seeing someone new,
a red flag is a pretty immediate turn-off and a green flag is an immediate turn-on where
you want to learn more about the person and just see where things go.
So without further we do, let's get into it.
So when I'm dating someone some of the green flags that I try to look for–
I like someone that's really independent. I like a very independent woman that's
very about herself as a priority before anything else.
Some of the red flags I would say
I don't like a woman that's too to herself.
My green
we're totally gonna be together forever would be
someone who is very spontaneous,
also the nature of the day
where is someone who's like
'let's go for a picnic'
'let's go for a walk'
or 'let's go to a gallery' or something
where it's not predicated around alcohol.
Some of the green flags I look for is conversation
someone actually engaged in the conversation as opposed to you
losing them in the first five seconds or they start looking away or not even
ask you any questions follow up just because actually shows you one
they're interested not just about themselves and then two
it kind of gives you a gauge of whether or not you're gonna be able to have
sustainable conversations.
Also a sense of humor and not being afraid to laugh like you know
how some people, most people's laughs are really ridiculous when they're laughing truly
so I think someone who's not afraid to laugh really truly.
Red flags are definitely definitely being on your phone too much.
Also eye contact is really important to me
so if somebody isn't able to make eye contact,
I don't feel like I trust them.
A green flag is that not to see him self-centered but
that they take interest in me as much as I take interest in them.
For me, personally a genuine interest in food and not a picky eater.
I met someone once who were very adamant about not eating carbs and then she
ordered a pasta that we were supposed to share.
Green flags...
passionate about career.
dating comedian was tough. All things that I look for in my 30s.
Green flags for in a relationship is I like a person who's open-minded.
Someone who you can share your personal stuff with. I like a person who's vulnerable.
Green flag would be if he treats other people like kindly like human beings
and has real conversation rather than just like try things but
like real in-depth conversation that you can build a relationship off of.
My red flag for dating would probably be if throughout the beginning of the relationship
if he's not as attentive or communicative and just as kind of like
letting things fizzle not knowing if he's really into it but still keeping me on the hook I guess.
Green flags would be positivity and also I love people who are curious
and trying different things so those are green flags as well.
I don't like stingy people I mean I'm totally fine splitting bills but
for people were super stingy that's a sign off not being sharing