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Hi my name is Wendy and I am from ex back experts and today we are going to discuss
how to get your boyfriend back, should you ignore him? It is not easy figuring out how
to deal with an ex boyfriend, you may hate him or feel indifferent, you may even still
have very strong positive feelings for him. Ignoring him can be a viable option in any
of these cases, but depending on what you hope to achieve it may not be what you want
to do. There are a number of things you should consider before you employ the silent treatment.
How do you feel towards him? on the vast spectrum between love and hate where do you land? if
you left the relationship because he was insufferable or a downright despicable human being then
you have every right to ignore him. In that case it may be the best possible means of
dealing with your ex, you may want to rip him a new hole but complete indifference may
hurt him more. On the other hand if you think you may still be in love with him then ignoring
him is useful if carefully employed. you may wish to act unavailable in order to heighten
his desire for you as long as you don't over do it that should be fine. Finally if you
are fairly neutral about him, then ignoring him is the easiest option for you. How does
he feel about you?Likewise your ex boyfriend feelings towards you will have a huge impact
on how effective your silent treatment is. The more in love you he is, the more impact
full ignoring him will be. After all. if he is paying no attention to you then he won't
notice if you are ignoring him or not. It may be difficult to gauge how much he cares
about you, but the best barometer is how often he calls or e-mails. What are you hoping to
achieve? If you want your ex boyfriend to leave you alone ignoring him is a good first
step. It may not be a natural turning for bothering you but it should help set the tone
for future interactions with him, on the other hand if you want to eventually be reconciled
with you ex then being unresponsive should be utilized with caution. Ignore only the
first couple of phone calls or e-mails, wait a week or two at the most before you respond.
You don't want him to lose interest in you or give up, however playing a little hard
to get is a tried and true technique to increase desire. I hope that you have enjoyed this
video and if you really want your ex back before they leave you for good, you can download
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