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My boyfriend is being a jerk! What should I do?
If you were not already involved, I would say to not date a jerk.
But what makes a guy a jerk, instead of a *** bag or a man-child or selfish something
else?
The default human condition is selfish. You have to train someone to not be self-centered.
I think he’s a narcissist. But why would I be attracted to one?
Narcissists are attractive, because they come across as self-confident and strong. Then
you find out how much of it is all in their heads, instead of real life.
But not all narcissists are jerks, especially if they want to keep you around.
You know he’s a jerk if he takes pleasure in *** you off. It gives him a power play
to be able to manipulate you, but you should know that means he is not a good partner.
I heard you could tell he’s a jerk if he zones out when you are talking.
Some of that is being a guy. Most guys will zone out after an hour of hearing about your
day, good or bad.
Someone said you know he’s a jerk if he is always obsessing about his looks.
Or he might be a metrosexual. Women used to say they wanted men and women equal, but now
they mock men who act like them.
Jerks check out other girls while you are standing there.
A *** clad chick is going to get every guy’s attention, no matter who he’s with.
Some jerks will keep staring, while the worst ones will hardly glance at her before comparing
you to her.
Jerks try to make you jealous of others, or him.
That’s a narcissist. He wants you to love him and hate him for being with someone so
awesome.
What’s a sure test of jerkiness?
You know a guy is a jerk if he’s always putting everyone down. True artists can’t
give someone a compliment without wrapping it around an insult.
The opposite of the praise sandwich.
Or the jerky application of it.