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first things first I know that relationships are work so they're gonna
be ups and downs so it doesn't make sense to leave right away
so why to stay in a relationship obviously when you are super happy and
everything just works out perfectly fine for you guys if you understand each
other and you accept each other for who or what they are then you found the
right person if you build up a business with your partner you're most likely
gonna stay with your partner doesn't matter if it's in a romantic way in a
friendship way or in a business way you're gonna stay with each other
if you're 100 percent sure that you're gonna stay with that person forever then
it's always worth fighting unless you feel that the connection the friendship
that you have with that person is suffering one thing that just came to my
mind is what about that spark that initial spark that you feel can that just
vanish Q what happens to that spark is that a thing like do you feel a spark at
the beginning and then you just stop loving a person or is there more involved
it's pretty normal that at the beginning you get butterflies because
here's this new person you never met this person before so it's super
exciting so that's why you get butterflies and
after a while I think it's more commitment to your relationship then
having to feel butterflies all the time
so can you get those butterflies back
you can feel some butterflies I mean if you have a date with your partner and
you dressed up and you're presenting this new version of you then you're most
likely gonna feel some butterflies don't just leave a party because you don't
feel it anymore it's for sure gonna come now you have this deeper better bonding
with your partner so you can connect in a totally different way than having
those few months of excitement at the beginning just because you didn't know
each other having your partner as your best friend and connecting in a
different way is way more exciting than just having to feel that butterfly
feeling and why to not stay with your partner if you're super unhappy and you
don't know what to do anymore you don't fit yourself anymore then
maybe try to leave that person and find yourself again
in general it's
really important that you know who you are and you love yourself so that when
you do get into a relationship you can share that with your partner because
your relationship is a reflection of yourself if you don't love yourself
you're not gonna love your partner that much if you don't trust yourself you're
most likely not gonna trust your partner obviously everybody has a different
perspective of a relationship or what kind of Tolerance they have maybe
something that's okay for me it's not gonna be okay for somebody else and vice versa
but it's all about how we deal with the situations and try to work it out
so to me my top three deal-breakers and when you should leave is cheating
no doubt about it we made a whole video about it go check it out that includes
texting with other dudes having intentions of doing things with other
people and just like it's sometimes it's more a mental thing it's a matter of
attitude cheating is not an action itself cheating includes a whole bunch
of lies so one lie adds up to another lie and then you end up cheating so
there's the whole process that comes with it which brings me to my next point
number two
lying
honesty is the number one thing in
a relationship because at the end of the day if somebody's messed up towards you
but they were honest at least along the way you could always look back at the
situation and be like you know what at least that person was always honest with
me and to me that's the priority that's the most important thing honesty honesty
if you are in an abusive relationship then you need to get out get out
right away because that's so toxic for both of you guys
And third growth if you feel
like you're growing but you feel like your partner doesn't want to grow
you have to move on honestly don't hold yourself back just because your partner
refuses to move forward with you if you're a person like me that wants to
learn something new every day then you're growing really fast if your
partner doesn't want to learn new things and if your partner is still hung up on
the things from last year that's when you just need to leave in order to grow
as a person and who you are I think our souls are spirits we grow in all kinds
of different directions and sometimes relationships can restrict us from
growing but other than that
if you're not sure if you should be with your
partner or not because you have this calling and you feel like you have to do
something else and you're not at the right place or something like that either talk
to your partner try to figure out a way with each other
he might support you and if it doesn't support you maybe you have to leave and
find your own way in general I feel like when the time comes that you know you
don't want to be with this person anymore and it's not going anywhere
life will tell you when to leave you will get this feeling or just knowing
that I have to leave right now and then that's what you have to do don't stay
because that's comfortable for you or that's what you used to do just leave
we all have little fights here and there and that most of those fights are just petty
seriously don't just give up on a relationship
like relationship is hard work we all know that
sometimes it's
just a matter of hopping over your own shadow and admitting that you were wrong
sometimes it's just a matter of trying a little bit harder sometimes it's just a
matter of patience but most of the times is always worth to fight it's always
worth the work work work
if you just give up maybe one day you're gonna wake
up are you gonna regret it and you wouldn't want that right
just work work it out try to work it out the best you can so that one day if it
doesn't work you know that you tried everything and you gave your all to make
it work work work work work just know who you are love yourself first and
you will be fine