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Narrator: TONIGHT ON "SOMETHING BORROWED, SOMETHING NEW,"
19-YEAR-OLD HAYDEN IS READY TO SAY "I DO."
I LIKE IT A LOT.
Narrator: BUT LETTING GO MAY BE HARD FOR MOM.
YOU'RE NERVOUS.
I'M SWEATING LIKE A *** IN CHURCH.
TAKING THAT BIG STEP DOWN THE AISLE...
IF SHE'S REALLY OLD ENOUGH TO GET MARRIED,
SHE'S OLD ENOUGH TO PICK HER WEDDING DRESS.
Narrator: ...STARTS WITH MAKING HER OWN DECISIONS.
I NEED TO JUST LISTEN TO WHAT I THINK
INSTEAD OF RELYING ON SOMEONE ELSE'S OPINION.
THIS IS SO HARD.
Kelly: WEARING YOUR MOM'S WEDDING GOWN CAN BE A JOY.
Sam: OR IT CAN BE A GIANT BRIDAL DON'T.
MY JOB -- TRANSFORM THAT FAMILY HEIRLOOM
AND MAKE IT WEDDING-WORTHY.
MY JOB -- FIND A NEW GOWN THAT'S YOURS AND YOURS ALONE.
TWO DRESSES, ONE DECISION.
WILL IT BE SOMETHING BORROWED?
OR SOMETHING NEW?
-- Captions by VITAC -- www.vitac.com
HI, GUYS.
Narrator: STILL A TEENAGER, 19-YEAR-OLD BRIDE HAYDEN
IS READY TO MAKE HER OWN DECISIONS.
BUT IS MOM READY TO LET HER?
HI. I'M HAYDEN.
I'M 19, AND I'M FROM QUEEN CREEK, ARIZONA.
WE ARE EXCITED TO HAVE YOU. YOU ARE ONE OF OUR YOUNGEST BRIDES.
YES, I KNOW.
MOM, ARE YOU COOL WITH THIS WHOLE WEDDING THING?
YOUR YOUNG DAUGHTER IS GETTING MARRIED.
ABSOLUTELY. I GOT MARRIED YOUNG,
AND I'M STILL MARRIED TO THE SAME MAN.
ARE YOU NERVOUS OR EXCITED TO GET MARRIED?
I'M A LITTLE BIT NERVOUS, BUT I'M MOSTLY EXCITED.
SO, TELL US A LITTLE BIT ABOUT YOUR WEDDING.
IS THERE A THEME, OR IS THIS GONNA BE PRETTY CLASSIC?
IT'S JUST GONNA BE CLASSIC.
IT'S GOING TO BE TWO YEARS AWAY, SO I DON'T KNOW EXACTLY,
BECAUSE MY FIANCé, JAKE, HE'S ON A MORMON MISSION.
HE'S OUT THERE SERVING, AND HE NEEDS TO BE FOCUSED.
WE BELONG TO THE CHURCH OF JESUS CHRIST OF LATTER DAY SAINTS.
SOME PEOPLE KNOW IT AS MORMON.
HOW DID YOU MEET JACOB?
JAKE AND I ACTUALLY HAD A CLASS TOGETHER SENIOR YEAR.
AND I THOUGHT HE WAS REALLY CUTE.
I JUST KEPT THINKING ABOUT HIM, AND I TEXTED HIM.
AND THEN WE'VE BEEN INSEPARABLE EVER SINCE.
THAT WAS IT? JUST A TEXT? IT'S THAT EASY THESE DAYS?
JUST A TEXT, AND THEN I GOT HIM HOOKED.
IT'S KIND OF A BUMMER BECAUSE HE'S SO FAR AWAY.
AND MOST OF THE TIMES, I JUST MISS HIM A LOT.
OH, MY GOSH. I'M GONNA CRY.
[ CHUCKLES ]
NOW, HOW DOES A MORMON WEDDING DIFFER
FROM A TRADITIONAL WEDDING?
WHAT'S APPROPRIATE FOR A BRIDE TO WEAR?
I NEED TO HAVE A NECKLINE, AND I CAN'T BE BACKLESS.
AND THEN I NEED A SLEEVE
BECAUSE I NEED TO BE COVERED AT LEAST TO HERE.
YEAH, A CAP SLEEVE.
BUT IF IT'S LACE, IT CAN'T BE SHEER.
IT HAS TO BE COVERED.
SO, HAVE YOU THOUGHT ABOUT WHAT YOU WANT TO LOOK LIKE?
I'M ENVISIONING MYSELF IN A LACE FITTED GOWN
BECAUSE I WANT TO SHOW OFF MY BODY.
I JUST THINK I HAVE A GREAT BUTT, AND I WANT TO SHOW IT OFF.
WHAT YOU'RE DESCRIBING'S A LITTLE SEXY TO ME.
IS THAT OKAY? ABSOLUTELY.
OH, COOL. I THINK, WHY NOT?
SHE'S GOT A GREAT LITTLE BODY,
AND I THINK IF YOU'VE GOT IT, FLAUNT IT, YOU KNOW?
I LOVE MOM RIGHT NOW.
WHAT ABOUT MOM'S DRESS?
I THINK THAT'D BE COOL TO WEAR HER DRESS,
BUT IT DOESN'T FIT ME,
AND IT DOESN'T FIT MY STYLE AND MY PERSONALITY.
HOW OLD IS THE DRESS?
I GOT MARRIED IN '92.
WHEN I GOT MARRIED, I FELT LIKE A PRINCESS.
I LOVE MY WEDDING DRESS SO MUCH.
IF I DIDN'T LOVE IT,
I WOULDN'T HAVE KEPT IT FOR 21 YEARS, SEALED IN A BOX.
IT IS SUCH A TREASURE TO ME.
IT'S SO CUTE.
IS IT REALLY CUTE?
NO. [ LAUGHS ] NO, IT'S TOO MUCH.
WELL, I WANT TO SEE THIS DRESS.
WOW.
YEAH.
Narrator: THE '90s GOWN IS AN ORNATE CRYSTAL-COVERED MERMAID
WITH LONG, MODEST SLEEVES AND ENORMOUS POUFY SHOULDERS.
IT LOOKS LIKE A GIANT FISH SCALE, LIKE, ON THE FRONT.
I SEE YOU REALLY TOOK THE MERMAID THING LITERALLY.
Kelly: IT'S DEFINITELY '90s.
THERE'S A LOT OF TULLE AND POUF GOING ON UNDER THESE SHOULDERS.
Hayden: THEY'RE SO BIG.
AND THEY'RE, LIKE, BASICALLY THE SIZE OF MY HEAD.
I THINK MOM'S DRESS IS WORTHY OF A SECOND CHANCE.
THE PANEL IS AWESOME, AND I LOVE THAT IT'S WHITE.
YOU WANT TO WEAR A WHITE DRESS, YES?
YEAH, I WANT TO WEAR A WHITE DRESS.
I'M REALLY EXCITED FOR THIS CHALLENGE.
I KNOW KELLY'S GONNA DO A BEAUTIFUL JOB.
BUT WE'RE GONNA FIND YOUR DREAM DRESS.
CAN I ASK WHAT MY BUDGET IS?
I'M GONNA GET SHOPPING,
AND I WILL SEE YOU GUYS A LITTLE BIT LATER.
HAVE A GOOD TIME. THANK YOU.
THANK YOU.
Narrator: WITH SUCH A YOUNG BRIDE,
MOM MAY NOT BE 100% READY TO LET HER FLY SOLO.
I THINK THAT I'M JUST VERY PROTECTIVE.
AND SOME PEOPLE WOULD CALL IT A HELICOPTER MOM.
I THINK THAT THIS IS A BIG DECISION FOR HAYDEN,
AND IT'S HER FIRST BIG DECISION, REALLY, ON HER OWN.
BRING IT ON OUT.
YOU LOOK SO GREAT!
DOESN'T IT LOOK GREAT?
IT'S CUTE.
IT'S A GREAT DRESS.
IT'S LIKE A BAG. YOU JUST SQUEEZE.
Casey: I THINK HAYDEN LOOKS BEAUTIFUL.
AND EVEN THOUGH IT'S NOT THE STYLE THAT SHE'S LOOKING FOR,
SHE REALLY GLOWS LIKE A BRIDE.
TELL ME EVERYTHING YOU LOVE ABOUT MOM'S DRESS
AND EVERYTHING YOU DON'T LOVE.
I DO LIKE THE SHAPE OF IT,
BUT I DON'T LIKE HOW IT COMES OUT IN A MERMAID.
I DO NOT LIKE THE BEDAZZLES ALL THROUGHOUT THE DRESS.
I THINK IT'S JUST TOO MUCH.
[ LAUGHS ]
AND THESE BOWS, I DON'T LIKE THEM AT ALL.
I THINK IT'S JUST DUMB TO HAVE THEM.
I REALLY DON'T CARE WHAT SHE SAYS.
I THINK DEEP DOWN SHE LIKES IT.
[ LAUGHS ]
I BELIEVE THAT EVERY MOTHER, DEEP INSIDE, HAS THAT DESIRE
FOR THEIR DAUGHTER TO WEAR THEIR WEDDING DRESS.
I JUST KNOW AS THE DRESS IS RIGHT NOW,
IT'S NOT THE STYLE THAT HAYDEN'S LOOKING FOR.
SO, I HAVE A GREAT IDEA FOR ALL OF THE LACE ON THIS DRESS.
WHEN YOU'RE DOING A MODEST DRESS,
IT DOESN'T MEAN IT HAS TO FIT LIKE A BIG, FRUMPY POTATO SACK.
I WANT TO CREATE THE ENTIRE TOP OF YOUR DRESS
AS A SEPARATE PIECE OF NOTHING BUT YOUR MOM'S LACE.
AND I'D LIKE TO KEEP THAT FLIRTY NECKLINE.
I LIKE THAT TOP ON THAT.
YEAH, IT'S PRETTY.
AND I WANT TO GIVE YOU A MODIFIED FIT-AND-FLARE
SO YOU STILL HAVE THE SILHOUETTE AND THE LINES
OF THE HIP AND THE UPPER THIGH
BUT IT JUST COMES OUT MORE ELEGANTLY
AND IT'S NOT SO HARSH OF A DIFFERENCE.
OKAY.
WE HAVE 24 INCHES OF SLEEVE.
WE'RE GONNA NARROW IT DOWN
TO EXACTLY WHAT HER MEASUREMENTS ARE.
YOU KNOW WHAT THAT MEANS?
I KNOW WHERE THIS IS HEADED.
IT MEANS YOU GET TO CUT OFF YOUR OWN SLEEVE.
OH!
[ EXHALES SHARPLY ]
I'M ANXIOUS. MY HEART'S BEATING REALLY HARD.
AND I DON'T KNOW HOW TO DO THIS, REALLY.
[ SIGHS ]
[ CHUCKLES ] OH, MY GOD.
I HAVE A TEAR.
OH, MY GOSH.
[ LAUGHS ]
THAT JUST HURT ME A LITTLE BIT.
Casey: I'M FEELING A LITTLE NAUSEOUS,
AND I'M HOPING I MADE THE RIGHT DECISION.
OH, I HOPE YOU PICK THIS DRESS.
NO PRESSURE.
IT'S A STEP IN THE RIGHT DIRECTION.
IT'S A STEP IN THE RIGHT DIRECTION.
UM...NOT MY FAVORITE.
I REALLY LIKE IT.
HOW DO YOU FEEL ABOUT HER MAKING HER OWN DECISION?
I AM NOT OKAY WITH IT.
Narrator: WITH A $2,000 BUDGET,
HAYDEN ARRIVES TO CHOOSE HER SOMETHING NEW.
BUT SHOPPING WITH MOM AND MOTHER-IN-LAW
MAY NOT BE EASY FOR THIS TEEN.
I BROUGHT MY FIANCé'S MOM, MIKEL,
AND I BROUGHT MY BEST FRIEND, KASSADY.
YOU BROUGHT TWO MOMS WITH YOU.
YEAH.
HAVING MY MOM AND HAVING MY FUTURE MOTHER-IN-LAW
IN THE SAME ROOM IS VERY NERVE-RACKING.
I WOULD LOVE TO HEAR WHAT YOU GUYS WOULD LIKE TO SEE HAYDEN IN
FOR HER BIG DAY.
MAYBE SOMETHING FORM-FITTING, TO THE GROUND TYPE DRESS.
I'D LOVE TO SEE HAYDEN IN SOMETHING FULLER AND FUN,
NO BALL GOWN.
[ LAUGHS ] AT ALL.
I WOULD LIKE TO SEE HER IN LOTS OF LACE
AND MAYBE A LITTLE SPARKLE, TOO.
I'M GONNA TAKE THE BLUSHING BRIDE TO TRY ON SOME DRESSES,
AND WE'LL SEE YOU GUYS A LITTLE BIT LATER.
HAYDEN IS A MORMON BRIDE,
WHICH MEANS THAT SHE HAS TO ABIDE BY CERTAIN STANDARDS.
LUCKY FOR HAYDEN,
MODESTY'S A BIG TREND IN BRIDAL FASHION RIGHT NOW,
AND I THINK WE'RE GONNA FIND SOMETHING THAT LOOKS YOUTHFUL
BUT MODEST AT THE SAME TIME.
OKAY.
HAYDEN TOLD ME THAT SHE WANTED TO BE
THE MOST BEAUTIFUL WOMAN IN THE WORLD ON HER WEDDING DAY,
AND I THINK THIS DRESS IS A NICE JUMPING-OFF POINT.
HAYDEN, COME ON OUT.
I LOVE IT.
I LOVE THAT DRESS,
AND I LOVE THAT BELT WITH THAT DRESS.
WHAT DO YOU THINK, HAYDEN?
I DON'T KNOW.
[ CHUCKLES ]
HAYDEN USUALLY ISN'T VERY DECISIVE.
I THINK SHE LIKES TO HAVE HER MOM TO RELY ON
AND HER MOM KIND OF HELP GIVE HER INPUT.
I THINK THE NECKLINE'S VERY FLATTERING.
YEAH, I LIKE THE NECKLINE.
I DON'T KNOW.
THAT DRESS REALLY LOOKS AMAZING ON YOUR BODY.
LET ME TELL YOU WHY I CHOSE THIS DRESS.
IT HAS THE COLUMN STYLE THAT YOU WERE LOOKING FOR
WITH A SLIGHT FLARE AT THE BOTTOM THAT'S REALLY SUBTLE.
THE TOP OF THE DRESS IS ACTUALLY
A SCOOPED-OFF-THE-SHOULDER STYLE.
I PINNED OFF THE DRESS HERE TO CREATE MORE OF A CAP SLEEVE
AND GIVE YOU THE COVERAGE ON THE SHOULDER.
THIS DRESS IS BY ALLURE, AND IT'S $1,070.
I THINK IT'S VERY BEAUTIFUL, BUT I JUST DON'T...
I DON'T -- I HONESTLY HAVE NO IDEA.
I TOTALLY WANT TO TALK TO HAYDEN
AND TELL HER MY OPINIONS AND WHAT I LIKE.
BUT I HAVE TO KIND OF SIT BACK
AND REALIZE THAT IF SHE'S REALLY OLD ENOUGH TO GET MARRIED,
SHE'S OLD ENOUGH TO PICK HER WEDDING DRESS.
IS THIS A YES OR A NO?
UH...A NO.
JUST SOMETHING ABOUT IT THAT I DON'T LIKE IT.
GOOD ENOUGH FOR ME. WE HAVE MORE DRESSES TO TRY.
HOW DO YOU FEEL ABOUT HER MAKING HER OWN DECISION?
I'M NOT OKAY WITH IT.
[ LAUGHS ]
SHE'LL MAKE A GOOD DECISION. SHE CHOSE MY SON.
[ LAUGHS ] SHE DID.
ALL RIGHT, LADIES.
THIS DRESS HAS A SWEETHEART NECKLINE ALMOST,
BUT IT'S RAISED,
WITH A SLIGHT FLARE AT THE BOTTOM,
AND IT'S VERY ROMANTIC.
HAYDEN, COME ON OUT AND SHOW US.
UM...NOT MY FAVORITE.
YOU SEE HOW THE SLEEVE IS LACE BUT THEN...
...PART OF IT'S A CAP.
IT NEEDS TO BE LINED ALL THE WAY DOWN TO THE BOTTOM.
I THINK I WOULD LIKE IT MORE, YEAH.
WHAT DO YOU THINK?
I DO LIKE IT.
I THINK IT MAKES ME LOOK VERY SKINNY.
AND I DO LIKE THIS NECKLINE A LOT.
AND I LIKE THE SHAPE OF IT.
BUT I DON'T LIKE HOW IT PUFFS OUT, YOU KNOW?
WERE WE TO TAKE ALL OF THE CRINOLINE OUT OF THIS DRESS,
YOU'D GET MORE OF THAT FEELING THAT YOU'RE LOOKING FOR.
YOU CAN TAKE IT DOWN.
YEAH, I LIKE IT A LOT BETTER.
I WANT A DRESS THAT WILL MAKE ME HAPPY
INSTEAD OF LISTENING TO WHAT THEY THINK.
SO, HAYDEN, I CHOSE THIS DRESS FOR YOU
BECAUSE YOU WERE REALLY INTERESTED IN SEEING A THREE-QUARTER SLEEVE.
IT HAS A FINISHED EDGE OF BORDER LACE,
WHICH IS QUITE PRETTY AGAINST YOUR SKIN.
THE WAIST, I REALLY WANTED TO PULL YOU IN.
AND BECAUSE THIS DRESS HAS PRINCESS SEAMS
RUNNING ALONG THE FRONT, IT CREATES THAT HOURGLASS CURVE.
AND I ADDED THE BELT TO HIGHLIGHT THE WAIST
AND GIVE YOU A LITTLE SPARKLE
'CAUSE I THINK THAT MAKES IT LOOK A LITTLE MORE YOUTHFUL.
THIS DRESS IS BY ALLURE, AND IT'S $1,000.
OH, WOW.
I REALLY LIKE IT.
OKAY. MORE DRESSES TO SEE.
ARE YOU AFRAID SHE'LL FIND SOMETHING
SHE LIKES BETTER THAN YOUR DRESS?
I THINK THAT SHE MIGHT PICK MY DRESS.
SHE MIGHT...
IF KELLY'S A MIRACLE WORKER.
[ LAUGHTER ]
Kelly: HAYDEN IS GETTING MARRIED IN A MORMON TEMPLE,
AND THEY HAVE VERY SPECIFIC GUIDELINES,
SO I WANT TO REMOVE ALL OF THE LACE APPLIQUéS
AND CREATE A SHIRT-TYPE OVERLAY.
AND JUST TO MAKE SURE HAYDEN'S NOT SHOWING TOO MUCH SKIN,
I'M LINING THE LACE TOP WITH ORGANZA.
THE REST OF THE DRESS WILL BE LIGHT AND FLOWY
WITH A THIN LACE OVERLAY.
I'M SURE I CAN TAKE MOM'S '90s MODEST DRESS
AND TURN IT INTO HAYDEN'S MODERN MODEST DRESS.
THIS DRESS HAS A LOT OF ELEMENTS THAT HAYDEN IS LOOKING FOR.
YOUR DAUGHTER LOOKS BEAUTIFUL.
HAYDEN, COME ON OUT.
Kassady: I LIKE THAT ONE.
I LOVE IT. IT'S BEAUTIFUL.
I LIKE IT A LOT.
I NEED A TISSUE.
I'M GONNA CRY.
DON'T.
IT'S BEAUTIFUL.
HOW DO YOU LIKE IT?
I REALLY LIKE IT A LOT.
I LOVE THE SHAPE, AND I DO THINK THIS BELT REALLY FINISHES IT.
I THINK YOU LOOK A LITTLE FASHION-FORWARD IN THIS DRESS.
IT STARTS WITH A SILK CHARMEUSE SHEATH,
AND YOU HAVE THIS GORGEOUS LACE OVERLAY WITH A CAP SLEEVE.
THE NECKLINE ON THIS DRESS IS REALLY PRETTY.
IT'S ALMOST A QUEEN ANNE NECKLINE,
WHICH MEANS IT COMES UP A LITTLE BIT LIKE A STAND COLLAR.
BUT BECAUSE IT SCALLOPS ALL THE WAY DOWN THE FRONT,
YOU DON'T REALLY SEE TOO MUCH OF THE STAND.
IT HAS A REALLY NICE SOFT SHAPE.
THIS DRESS IS BY ALLURE MODESTY COLLECTION.
IT'S $910.
[ Laughing ] OH, MY GOD.
I CAN SEE MYSELF WALKING DOWN THE AISLE TO JAKE IN THIS DRESS.
I'M FEELING ALMOST SICK TO MY STOMACH
KNOWING THAT SHE'S MAKING THIS DECISION ON HER OWN,
AND IT'S KIND OF STRESSING ME OUT A LITTLE BIT.
YOU'RE NERVOUS.
I'M SWEATING LIKE A *** IN CHURCH.
[ LAUGHTER ]
Narrator: TAKING A GIANT STEP TOWARDS INDEPENDENCE,
HAYDEN IS ABOUT TO CHOOSE HER WEDDING GOWN
WITHOUT CONSULTING MOM.
HAYDEN, PLEASE COME OUT
AND SHOW US YOUR CHOICE FOR SOMETHING NEW.
Casey: [ GASPS ]
OH, YOU LOOK SO BEAUTIFUL!
YEAH! I LOVE IT!
YOU LOOK GREAT.
I AM SO SURPRISED THAT THAT IS THE DRESS SHE PICKED,
BUT I'M SO PROUD OF HAYDEN FOR CHOOSING HER DRESS ON HER OWN.
Narrator: FOR HER SOMETHING NEW,
HAYDEN CHOSE THIS LACE FIT-AND-FLARE DRESS
WITH 3/4-LENGTH SLEEVES AND A CRYSTAL BELT.
I FEEL LIKE THE BRIDE THAT I'VE ALWAYS THOUGHT ABOUT,
BUT NOW IT'S COMPLETELY REAL.
THIS IS MY DRESS. [ CHUCKLES ]
[ SNIFFLES ]
I ABSOLUTELY LOVE THIS.
Kelly: I JUST CHOPPED OFF MOM'S SLEEVES,
AND BECAUSE HAYDEN HAS TO HAVE THEM ON HER DRESS,
I HAVE TO COME UP WITH A NEW SLEEVE DESIGN.
MUSLIN IS JUST A CHEAP FABRIC TO TEST A DESIGN IDEA ON,
SO IF YOU MESS UP, YOU'RE NOT SPENDING A LOT OF MONEY,
BUT THERE ARE SO MANY DIFFERENT DESIGNS YOU CAN DO TO A SLEEVE.
YOU CAN DO A POWER SHOULDER, YOU CAN DO A 3/4,
A CAP, A LONG SLEEVE.
I HAVE MANY SLEEVES UP MY SLEEVE.
I KNOW YOU LOVE THIS DRESS,
SO IS IT GONNA BE HARD FOR YOU TO SEE IT CHANGED NOW?
I'M A WRECK.
I REALLY WOULD LIKE THE OLD DRESS BACK RIGHT NOW.
Narrator: 19-YEAR-OLD HAYDEN
HAS ALWAYS HAD MOM'S HELP WITH DECISIONS.
WHAT DO YOU THINK, HAYDEN?
[ SNIFFLES ] THIS IS MY DRESS.
CHOOSING THIS LACE FIT-AND-FLARE GOWN ON HER OWN
AS HER SOMETHING NEW IS A MILESTONE.
THIS IS LIKE A REALLY FUN GROUP TO GO SHOPPING WITH.
I'M A LITTLE JEALOUS.
DID YOU FIND A LOT OF GOOD STUFF?
I DID. A LOT. SAM KNOWS HIS STUFF.
I CHOSE THE DRESS WITH THE LACE BECAUSE IT MADE ME FEEL LIKE
THE MOST BEAUTIFUL BRIDE IN THE WORLD,
BUT NOW I THINK MY MOM MAY BE A LITTLE BIT NERVOUS
ABOUT HER BORROWED DRESS.
MIKEL, YOU'VE SEEN MOM'S DRESS.
WHAT DID YOU THINK?
THE SLEEVES AND THE BOWS JUST DATE THAT DRESS LIKE CRAZY.
SHE DID HAVE A BOW ON HER DRESS, AS WELL.
AND I DID HAVE A BOW, AS WELL, BUT ONE.
WELL, THE BORROWED DRESS HAS GONE THROUGH A VERY SURPRISING TRANSITION,
AND I AM EXCITED FOR YOU GUYS TO SEE IT.
COME ON.
ALL RIGHT.
I KNOW YOU LOVE THIS DRESS, RIGHT?
YEAH.
SO, IS IT GONNA BE HARD FOR YOU TO SEE IT CHANGED NOW,
OR ARE YOU EXCITED TO SEE IT HAVE NEW LIFE FOR YOUR DAUGHTER?
OH, NO. I'M A WRECK.
I REALLY WOULD LIKE THE OLD DRESS BACK RIGHT NOW.
I AM A LITTLE NERVOUS.
I'M NOT REALLY SURE WHAT PARTS OF THE DRESS
THAT KELLY'S GONNA BE USING
AND HOW SHE'S GONNA MAKE IT INTO SOMETHING THAT HAYDEN'S WANTING.
THIS DRESS HAS SEEN A HUGE TRANSFORMATION.
MOM, IT WILL NEVER BE THE SAME,
BUT I THINK YOU ARE ALL GONNA LOVE IT.
HAYDEN, COME ON OUT AND SHOW US YOUR SOMETHING BORROWED.
OH, MY GOSH.
OH, MY GOODNESS.
THAT LOOKS SO DIFFERENT.
OH, MY GOSH.
OH, MY WORD.
I AM SPEECHLESS.
FOR ONCE. [ LAUGHS ]
FOR ONCE.
THAT IS AMAZING, KELLY.
SHE IS A MIRACLE WORKER.
Casey: I KNEW MY DRESS HAD POTENTIAL,
BUT IT IS AMAZING.
I CAN'T BELIEVE IT.
THIS IS SO PRETTY.
[ LAUGHS ] HOW IS THIS THE SAME DRESS?
I CAN SEE THE DRESS STILL THERE.
I CAN SEE THE NECKLINE. I CAN SEE THE LACE.
OH, I KNOW MY DRESS.
[ LAUGHTER ]
Narrator: MOM'S POUFY-SLEEVED BEADED DRESS
HAS BECOME A SLEEK LACE COLUMN GOWN
WITH A MODERN CROPPED JACKET.
WHAT DO YOU THINK, HAYDEN?
I REALLY LIKE IT. I LOVE THE SHAPE OF THIS DRESS.
I THINK YOU TOOK EXACTLY WHAT I WANTED
AND PUT IT INTO THIS DRESS.
IT'S JUST SO OVERWHELMING.
Hayden: I CAN'T BELIEVE THAT IT'S MY MOM'S DRESS
BECAUSE IT'S SO DIFFERENT, AND I LIKE HOW IT LOOKS ON ME.
I LOVE IT, AND IT'S OBVIOUSLY ONE OF A KIND.
THIS IS ACTUALLY REALLY ON-TREND RIGHT NOW.
THE DEMURE LOOK -- IT'S GOT THE COOL NECKLINE.
IT'S GOT THE 3/4-LENGTH SLEEVES.
TO ME, THAT'S A VERY MODERN BRIDE.
I HAND-DECONSTRUCTED ALL THE APPLIQUéS FROM YOUR MOM'S DRESS.
I COMPLETELY MADE THIS TOP OUT OF ALL OF HER APPLIQUéS.
I BROUGHT IN A NEW LACE
TO GIVE YOU THE SILHOUETTE THAT YOU WANTED,
AND I UNDERLAID IT WITH A MICRO-SEQUIN ON NETTING,
WHICH GIVES IT THAT SPARKLE.
BUT I DIDN'T WANT IT TO HAVE TOO MUCH SPARKLE,
WHICH IS WHY THE LACE IS OVER THE TOP OF THE SPARKLE.
I WAS ABLE TO ACCOMPLISH ALL OF THIS FOR $1,100.
WOW.
I REALLY LIKE THIS DRESS,
AND I THINK IT FITS MY BODY PERFECTLY.
I COULD JUST PICTURE MYSELF WEARING IT,
SO IT'S MAKING ME SO MUCH MORE CONFUSED THAN I WAS BEFORE.
THIS IS THE VERY FIRST DECISION
THAT I'VE HAD TO MAKE AS AN ADULT,
AND IT'S VERY STRESSFUL,
BECAUSE I NEED TO JUST LISTEN TO WHAT I KNOW AND WHAT I THINK
INSTEAD OF RELYING ON SOMEONE ELSE'S OPINION,
AND SOMETIMES I DON'T TRUST MYSELF.
I WANT THE BORROWED DRESS
BECAUSE I LOVE THE COLOR AND THE TEXTURE TO THE DRESS.
I LOVE THE SHAPE TO IT, HOW IT LAYS ON ME.
WHEN IT COMES TO THE NEW DRESS,
IT IS VERY FLATTERING TO MY FIGURE AND IS VERY FITTED,
AND IT SHOWS OFF MY CURVES.
I DON'T KNOW.
I JUST -- [ Chuckling ] I'M SO CONFUSED.
IT'S BEEN REALLY HARD TO KIND OF NOT WANT TO HELP HER
IN EVERY DECISION THAT SHE MAKES.
UNTIL A COUPLE YEARS AGO, YOU WERE PICKING OUT PROM DRESSES FOR HER.
AND NOW SHE HAS TO PICK HER OWN WEDDING DRESS.
Narrator: BEFORE 19-YEAR-OLD HAYDEN CAN WALK DOWN THE AISLE,
SHE'LL NEED TO STEP OUT ON HER OWN AND CHOOSE A WEDDING DRESS.
HAYDEN'S ABOUT TO TAKE A STEP
FROM BEING YOUR DAUGHTER INTO SOMEONE ELSE'S WIFE.
RIGHT.
HOW IS THAT FEELING FOR YOU AS A MOTHER?
IT'S BEEN REALLY HARD TO KIND OF NOT WANT TO HELP HER
IN EVERY DECISION THAT SHE MAKES.
UNTIL A COUPLE YEARS AGO, YOU WERE PICKING OUT PROM DRESSES FOR HER.
AND NOW SHE HAS TO PICK HER OWN WEDDING DRESS.
I FEEL BAD FOR HER RIGHT NOW. I REALLY DO.
I THINK SHE HAS A LOT WEIGHING ON HER.
OH.
I'M SO CONFUSED.
I REALLY LOVE THEM BOTH,
AND I JUST DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO.
JUST THINK ABOUT IT'S YOUR WEDDING DAY
AND YOU HAVE JAKE THERE.
WHAT DO YOU PICTURE YOURSELF IN THE MOST?
THERE IS SO MUCH SENTIMENTALITY TO THE BORROWED DRESS,
AND I CAN PICTURE MYSELF WEARING THE DRESS ON MY WEDDING DAY.
WHEN IT COMES TO THE NEW DRESS,
IT MADE ME FEEL LIKE THE MOST BEAUTIFUL BRIDE IN THE WORLD.
IT IS THE HARDEST DECISION TO MAKE BETWEEN THE TWO DRESSES.
[ Chuckling ] THIS IS SO HARD.
YOU JUST HAVE TO GO WITH WHAT FEELS RIGHT.
OKAY.
I'M NOT JEALOUS OF YOU RIGHT NOW, BECAUSE...
[ CHUCKLES ] NOT AT ALL.
WHATEVER HAYDEN CHOOSES RIGHT NOW,
I FEEL LIKE IT'S A BIG STEP FOR HER.
IT'S HER MAKING HER OWN DECISION.
YES. AND WE ALL WANT TO KNOW, WILL IT BE SOMETHING BORROWED...
OR WILL SHE WALK DOWN THE AISLE IN SOMETHING NEW?
YOU GUYS READY?
I THINK SO.
HAYDEN, COME ON OUT AND SHOW US YOUR WEDDING GOWN.
Casey: OH! YAY!
YAY!
OH, MY GOSH.
Kassady: YOU LOOK GORGEOUS.
BEAUTIFUL.
ABSOLUTELY BEAUTIFUL.
THAT'S IT.
Narrator: HAYDEN HAS CHOSEN SOMETHING NEW, AN ALL-OVER LACE FIT-AND-FLARE
WITH A MODEST SCOOP NECKLINE AND 3/4-LENGTH SLEEVES.
AS I WAS SITTING THERE LOOKING AT THE DRESSES,
I COULD JUST PICTURE MYSELF ON MY WEDDING DAY.
LIKE, I COULD SEE THE MANNEQUIN, I COULD SEE MY FACE ON IT.
[ Chuckling ] I KNEW THAT THIS WAS MY DRESS.
I'M SEEING A DIFFERENT SIDE OF HAYDEN TODAY.
SHE LOOKS SO MATURE AND GROWNUP
STANDING THERE IN THAT WEDDING DRESS,
AND SHE JUST LOOKS SO HAPPY AND GLOWING.
GOOD FOR YOU. ARE YOU SURE?
YEP. I'M FINE.
YOU LOOK BEAUTIFUL.
YOU DO.
I'M STILL SHAKING.
MY DECISION, MY DRESS.
MOM, WOULD YOU LIKE TO MAKE A SPARKLING-CIDER TOAST?
TO MY BEAUTIFUL DAUGHTER,
WHO'S MADE A GREAT DECISION ON HER WEDDING DRESS.
CHEERS.
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