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Dear John letters can be devastating to a person who is in the military. Let's talk
about dating a military man. How do we do that. This is Dr. Paul author of Boomer Girls
a boomer woman's guide to men and dating. Ask Dr. Paul and that's exactly what we're
doing here. Often times people who are in the military have what is called TDY Temporary
duty. If you're going to date a military person male or female be prepared to be away from
that person for a certain time frames. They may be on temporary duty for six months. They
may be in an active combat area. They may have two years to be there with being home
after twelve months and then going back. So you have to have that mind set and it can
be successful that you are going to be committed to this person and really date this person
exclusively. Do us all a favor. Do us a favor as Americans. Do us a favor as human beings
and do yourself and that military person a favor too. Please do not write a Dear John
letter to them. That is devastating. This is Dr. Paul. May your fantasies of today be
your realities of tomorrow.